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Date: October 13, 2022
I pretty much have to break up with her no?
Probably, but I have a quick question first. Earlier you said this:
She was emphatic when we first met and understandably so that she wanted to date around and not commit to the first guy but after a few months we became official.
Ok, when you became 'official,' did you two have any sort of talk about exclusivity? Or even a talk about being official, or did it just sort of happen and given the family dates and the length of time spent together etc etc you just sort of assumed it was understood that you were exclusive?
Don't get me wrong, I think I'd break up with her either way. The difference is whether you should be angry with her or learn a lesson for yourself for next time.
If you guys DID have some sort of conversation about not seeing other people then she's clearly 100% in the wrong and needs to get dumped and told off.
If you DIDN'T ever discuss it and you just assumed, now you know not to do that. In your shoes I would have assumed exclusive too, by the way, but you know the deal with assumptions. Always better to communicate clearly. That being said the fact that she's being so secretive about it means that even if you technically never had the conversation it's clear that she knows you think you're exclusive, hence the hiding, which makes her kind of contemptible regardless. But in this case I'd say it's more like 80% her fault, 20% yours. Lesson learned for next time, right?
Either way sorry your trip was ruined, man. For what it's worth I hope you're able to enjoy the rest of it. If I were you I'd break up now, figure out sleeping arrangements, and then just try to enjoy the rest of the vacation solo rather than try to keep it together and be miserable for now just to break up when getting home.
Almost same scenario as a young lady last week. They were engaged I think. She told him she didn’t like it and he went anyway. She broke up with him when he came back. I think she has been raised to LEGEND status here, and justifiably so.
Just say “Hey I’d love to take you on a date sometime”. If she says yes, offer 2-3 options of things you would like to do with her on a date. If you are a pretty flexible person in terms of interests you can also invite her to make her own suggestions. “We could (grab some food at that new sushi place/see a movie/go to xyz campus event/get coffee, go to a concert) or something else if you have anything in mind”. Then she can say which of those things appeals most to her and you don’t have to guess about what she would have ejoyed most.