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Date: October 14, 2022
Like he was gonna do? After dismissing her clinical depression?
You clearly didn’t read anything she actually said and it shows. Pathetic.
Simple. You allow double dipping. He comes and goes as he pleases, you embrace him, then you’re disappointed when he takes off. Boundaries are essential in this circumstance. Perhaps you believe that you can’t do better besides playing second fiddle. Therapy can do wonders, but if you can’t participate there’s tons of self-help books to address this. I suggest you read material on attachment styles. You’ll get a better understanding of the pathology.
maybe those seeds were sown quite deep!
me too!
Get your ducks in a row to dump her. She want can be down with either canceling the sale of the apartment or for you to buy it by yourself. She is not the one for you.
First off, I’m so sorry.
This is a lot, and it’s admirable you want to wait to tell sis til her exams are over—I wouldn’t keep this locked up inside. This is a lot. If you have an aunt/uncle, grandparents, coach/mentor figure you can confide in, please do so. To get things off your chest, to share your feelings with someone who will be 100% focused on you, and give you solace and support. And in an ideal, best case scenario, keep your confidence while being An Adult who both parents respect when they tell both of them to knock shit off.
Sounds like this could be a contentious/high conflict divorce. I hate to say it, but in these divorces, a lot of parents can be self-involved getting all focused on the drama, on their emotions, and on the conflict. And when that happens, they can forget to be The Grown Ups and drag their kids into it. It can be very easy to get caught up in it, being the emotional bucket for them, being the messenger, being the mediator. And worst of all, being used as a weapon by one against the other. It’s not even necessarily intentionally doing A Malicious on their part—it can happen when people get caught up in overwhelming swirling emotions and react based on those feelings without thinking.
You and your siblings may likely need to set boundaries with your parents: that y’all are not the ones to vent to, not the ones to carry messages (that’s what their lawyers are for), and maybe even—they should think very carefully about what type of shit they want to pull, because it won’t just be At Their-Soon-To-Be-Ex, it’ll send messages to y’all as well, and will have an effect on y’all, too.
You love your parents, and you love your siblings, and I know the instinct to protect, to do damage control, to comfort is very strong. I have been there, bro. I did it all, and I did everything in me to protect my brother. It did do damage to me though. I was much younger than you were, and I didn’t have the freedom to walk away. I’m not sure such boundaries would have worked with my mom, all factors considered. I would never recommend doing what I did unless in an absolute worst case, last ditch, desperate situation. Which this is not.
And don’t make the mistake I did: if you are offered therapy, take it. Don’t try to be the “strong one.” Ask for it, even. I thought I could handle things, and that therapy was a sign of weakness, and I wasn’t weak, so I refused. I thought I knew everything lol.
Ask for what you need: hugs, moratoriums on talking about the divorce and everything surrounding it, time together—you name it. Be open and assertive with your feelings and your needs. Spend time with your siblings, whether just hanging out, or doing something fun. Even though I did what I could to protect my little brother, he was still a comfort and solace. Knowing I wasn’t alone, and that we were in it together helped a lot. We’re still close today.
Best wishes bro. I hope the best for you and your family.