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Date: October 16, 2022
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He went through your phone and also somehow thinks he has ownership of your body after one date? Nah fam. Don’t listen to those who say that you are in the wrong. This relationship won’t work btw. This is how he’ll always be. Holding grudges, bringing the past up in every argument.
Same way you just told us…
You said in a comment that you feel stupid for not seeing any warning signs from him.
But the the truth is, honey, sometimes there just aren't any warning signs.
People may say otherwise, but unfortunately, some fplks are so good at wearing thier mask that they don't give off a single warning flag that a normal human can catch.
Other men only give off the most subtle yellow/orange flags that only someone who has seen exactly those type before might catch them, and even then, they can still be missed if a good enough excuse is given for them.
Even if there were red flags you missed though, that doesn't make you the least bit stupid! We want to see the best in our partners, right? So we give them the benefit of the doubt. We can even make a habit of giving excuses for thier shady behavior and disrespect. Almost every woman who has dated men has experienced some varying amount of “how did I not see that sooner”. Particularly since the bar is so low when it comes to many straight cis men being an emotionally healthy, kind and communicative partner, that single women literally on-line happier lives and on-line longer on average according to studies, while men live! longer and are happier with a partner. Worse, men are seven times more likely to leave a partner who gets ill or disabled than women are.
The only thing you can do is to learn about what respect looks in a relationship, and what it looks like when someone loses respect for you, or was only pretending to respect you and they can't or won't keep it up any longer. Learn what even tiny examples of disrespect towards a partner looks like, and also what tiny examples of your partner showing you respect look like.
Don't get into another relationship until you do as much learning/reading on respect as possible, because it's the complete cornerstone and foundation for a relationship, and it cannot be re-gained when lost. A relationship with someone who doesn't completely respect you is not going to be healthy, and it cannot be made up for in other ways, nor gained from someone who was not giving it to you right away. Check out the books The Gift Of Fear and Why Does He Do That?. They helped me a lot, and I believe both can be found free online.
A partner who respected you never would have just shrugged about you catching him cheating and claimed it was no big deal. He couldn't even pretend to have remorse. A partner who respects you certainly isn't going to hurt you so severely you need medical care in the first place on purpose, let alone do so then think that a few texts of lovebombing is going to be enough to make you come running back.
You should honestly be proud of yourself for leaving the first time he got physical, and for not falling for his love bombing. You should be proud for even realizing he's just lovebombing, and realizing it's just a temporary bit of manipulation, and nothing more. He did not feel bad the first time he punched you that day, he just kept at it. He does not feel bad now, and his only real regrets are that he mistakenly thought he had beaten your spirits down enough for you to allow him to cheat, which is why he had to resort to physically beating you down instead. Unluckily for him, you still held firm and got away, so now he needs new tactics, and lovebombing is just the start.
You have everything to be proud of yourself for, and nothing at all to feel bad about or stupid.
Sending you internet hugs with consent from an internet rando who has been there, done that.
You….you realize this isn't a drinking game.
Don't you??
Never have I ever….ffs
This man sounds like a loose ass cannon and you should hit the ground running. Fuck that
Quitting like that wasn't very mature of her, but in worst case scenario she could pick up at LEAST a part time job at a retail store, seasonal, whatever to have SOME income in to fulfil her obligations. 4 months of laziness and telling you she can't pay rent is taking advantage of you, especially when you guys moved due to HER job.
I'd push back on it, and tell her you need to on-line apart but can still be together (if that's what you want and don't mind the disrespect) until she gets her crap together.
If the relationship falls apart and you guys split, I would absolutely go to small claims court to get back some of that rent money. it doesn't cost much to go. I'm in the process of that right now actually. Similar situation.
It’s not exactly transactional if one does everything and the other does nothing. Weight aside because I think that is the least of the problems, I would be irritated if I was marriage to someone that did so little and couldn’t even bothered to watch a movie with me. Op being a provider was and her maintaining a certain weight was probably the agreement before marriage. Relationships are give and take or “transactional” as you put it. You can continuing taking whilst doing nothing on your end.
I was in a situation like this a couple of months ago with a coworker. I'm very shy and have bad social anxiety. He's kind of the same. I got some subtle clues that he might be kinda interested in me, but neither one of us seemed to have the courage to really talk to each other. It was starting to drive me crazy so one day I just said 'fuck it' and left him my phone number with some of his paperwork just because quitting time. I put a little note until there saying to call or text if he wanted, if not then no worries.
He texted me the next day and we've been communicating ever since. I'm still not really sure where it's heading, but that's ok. He's been great to talk to and if he just stays a friend then that's cool. If it develops into something more then awesome. It was a bit of a rough start at first because we're both kinda awkward, but it got a lot better after we got more comfortable with each other. Either way, I'm glad I did it. It's pretty out of character for me, I'm far from the bold type. But it was starting to drive me nuts and I had to do something.
Do you on-line in a soap opera?
If that's his coping mechanism, then taking it away from him entirely will only hurt him. Everyone needs an outlet, the fact that he's doing it SO MUCH means he's likely really hurting right now. Therapy will help, but it will take time and work and change won't happen overnight. You need to find and address the root cause of the problem.
Find some games you can play together with him. Turn it into an activity that you two do together. That way he doesn't have to choose between coping with his issues and bonding with you, he can do both at the same time. He'll appreciate it, and you two can grow closer as a result.
The reason he's turning to games as an outlet is likely because they offer him something he's missing in real life. For me, I primarily play social games like MMOs because it allows me to be part of a group with a social hierarchy that I typically do well in because of my latent skill at the game. IRL I'm at the bottom of the social totem pole. No one listens to me, or respects my opinions, and I barely have any friends to talk to. But in-game I have a social circle of dozens of people, from all over the world and every walk of life. They listen to me, they respect me as a player, and I have a level of prestige amongst my peers that I will never know IRL.
If you had to choose between one world where you're an unwanted nobody and another world where you're somebody with prestige, which would you choose?
Agreed.
It’s my guys house, if he wants doors open then they gonna be open.
Your girlfriend is being immature and her values are out of whack. She’s the adult. She gave a gift. You don’t start measuring excitement levels as an adult giving a gift to your SO’s kid. You know?
please explain?
Could be but unlikely. I'm very experienced for my age and have never had any former complaints and always got glowing reviews
Obviously it's not you. But you're in an unhealthy situation. You've tried to talk it out, it's obvious he isn't interested in working it out. It's time to work on bringing this relationship to a close. We can't make people love us, but we deserve to be with someone who can love us in the way that meets a good part of our emotional needs.
I wish you all the best as you read through the comments and weigh all your options.
IM NOT THE HERO GOTHAM DESERVES
Then why the f are you allowing a stalker around you. And yes she is a stalker.
“Wife acted like she was single for a night and forgot she had a husband.”
Well, she didn't act like she was single but she didn't communicate properly. You get to be mad for a day and then drop it. Only bring it up if she's going out again and reiterate that you don't want to think that she's been abducted and murdered so can she update you on her ETA if her times shift.
You’re wasting the best years of your life with a flower that doesn’t want to bloom.
You don't. You get some therapy to fix your self esteem and let the other women have him.
National Domestic Violence hotline
800.799.SAFE (7233)
Call and talk to them about control and pressure by a partner and what you need to do to leave this relationship and be solid in your boundaries about photos that you share.
Please forgive me for my anger I presented earlier. That seriously isn’t me. I’ve just been betrayed over and over and over. I give everything, my heart all my love etc. that’s my problem, I’m investing into anyone…maybe? Well not just anyone but someone I fall for slightly then I do what I can to make it my dream. I need to stop. I’m a good man with a good heart with many flaws but I grow every day of my life, and I’m doing it for my wife. Whoever she is, I will love her and tell her she is beautiful every day of her life. I’m so sorry everyone for my anger. I’m at the gym now…I’m sorry.