You don't have to stay elsewhere, just control your own schedule. There's no reason why you can't have breakfast with her almost everyday and chat for an hour
In the future make plans with all your friends ahead of time. Then let your mom know which days you're free to see her one on one.
Eh…..Sexual Roles and Identity are not known to be impacted by
ADHD unless you are reporting that you have difficulty in focusing
on expressing your particular view of these. That would be something
to reflect on, but more importantly the fact that you conclude that
you are “less of a man”…..which simply does not follow. FWIW.
You don't have to stay elsewhere, just control your own schedule. There's no reason why you can't have breakfast with her almost everyday and chat for an hour
In the future make plans with all your friends ahead of time. Then let your mom know which days you're free to see her one on one.