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Bill/Ellis/Frida/Nick, 25 y.o.
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Date: October 16, 2022
You're female, you attract all kinds of men. You're only choosing to see the ones who aren't available.
Men can be unavailable in different ways; they can be long distance, they can be cold and unloving, they can be married, they can even be gay and completely uninterested in you. Choosing unavailable men, no matter what makes each one unavailable, usually means that you are protecting yourself in some way. Whether that's protecting yourself by being able to distract yourself with chasing them, or protecting yourself from being vulnerable in a real, open relationship, or protecting yourself with never having sex, it's usually at the core of the types you go for.
There's also the “other woman” type, where you might not feel so much that you're protecting yourself (but you still might be) but your overwhelming attraction to taken men is that you can tell that on some level, they play the partner role that you would like to have for yourself. Like you can see that they're loving, maybe they're a good provider, they might be that guy that everyone knows how great their relationship is, or even more so, if they have beautiful children. Your subconscious easily sees these things as “desirable” and you want that kind of attention. Much like a cat who will only sit on your lap when you're using it, you just want to be the object of someone's healthy desire.
There's something else in there that tells you that you don't deserve one of your own though. Or maybe it's that the thrill of the forbidden is more tantalizing than settling down in a “safe” relationship of your own. Or you enjoy ruining the perfect picture that you see, or fulfilling your parent's criticism that “you ruin everything.”
Whatever it is in there, it's not really your fault, but the actions are your choice. You need to figure out why you think you don't deserve a healthy relationship, and you need to stay single while you do it, otherwise you'll be choosing men who aren't right for you in other ways.
An ultimatum can be really tough to give but it is the best thing you can do for a relationship. Especially if you’re a giver especially if you’re the one that bends and allow somebody else to set the tone of the relationship. If you have never said a boundary it’s high time you did.
Do not be upset and do not backtrack stand your ground. He’s probably waiting for you to cave but I don’t. You were serious this time and it’s literally the only power you have to change things in a relationship.
I wish you luck.
It really doesn't matter what his reasons are about why he doesn't want to get married.
The only thing that matters is if you can online with him not wanting marriage. If you cannot, then you should probably leave the relationship. If you can, then you're good.
Damn… That's truly a mess. Don't sleep with people who are in a relationship. If she can't respect her relationship, at least you should do that and distance yourself.