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Date: October 17, 2022
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I'd break up with him just for the amount of lies he told.
This sounds like OP can’t leave because she doesn’t have an exit strategy. Always have savings to make sure you can leave or at least a car to sleep in. Start calling friends and family to see if you can bunk up.
That's how I feel.
To me it sounds like a friendship that turned sour.
Honestly man I’ve read the other comments here and it sounds like maybe she just doesn’t understand a lot about what you like, I’ve been there before, it sucks that it isn’t a gift you really would like but I always at least appreciate the effort with things like that, since you’re a mechanic and you like cars she probably just didn’t understand much in depth about the topic and was trying to be thoughtful and keep your interests in mind, I’d say just be appreciative of the thought and maybe try and be more in depth about specific things that you’d want next time, I’ve been gifted gun mags for calibers that I didn’t own a firearm chambered in and things like that before and it just comes from a place of thoughtfulness from someone who doesn’t share the same depth of knowledge of your interests as you
Thank you so much. It does bother me, but I tend to feel like I’m overreacting or being too sensitive so I didn’t know if I was being reasonable. As long as we’ve been together, I’m not sure we’ve ever had a direct conversation about where our boundaries are as far as crossing the line, especially on the internet! I’m gonna try to have one tonight though ??
OMG, run away. You will never get it right for this one. She's looking for reasons to fight with you. Enough of the games, it sounds like she's either incredibly immature, insecure or already looking at moving on to someone else. This is not a relationship, it's a hostage situation.
Man it's not about YOU. You're only thinking about what will make YOU feel better, when she was the one who got raped. You are not the victim here, she is. Focus on her feelings not yours.
Beating him up won't make her feel better. She needs to feel in control of the situation, in control of her life because that's what the rapist took from her. If you don't listen to her wishes, you're taking away more control from her. It will help YOU but it will harm her.
I know you care about her and you just want to be there for her so I don't wanna be harsh but it just needs to be said. You're being selfish. And weak tbh. A strong person would be able to set aside their ego and need for personal gratification, to help their friend. Going against her wishes will make things worse for her. Is that what you want? Do you have so little control over yourself?
Help her and protect her by LISTENING to her and respecting her. Let her process and deal in her own time, in her own way. She's told you exactly what she needs from you, that's what you do, that's how you help. This is not about you.
I’m gonna hop on the opposite side of this.
There’s something like 30% of men raising babies that aren’t theres. That’s a hell of a lot of unjustified emotions, wealth, and expectations being crushed.
While I’m a firm believer in crazy genetics because of how my family is, get the test. Better to know for sure. Will you be a dick if you’re wrong? Sure. But if you need to know you need to know.
Get married. Lol
…how anyone writes some of these posts and just immediately does not see the problem is amazing.
yeah, that makes sense! thank you
So you dont actually have anything that would coroberate this, you just assume?
The key is balance and compromise. I’ve had to give up a LOT of my overall gaming time since becoming a husband and father. I’ve also lost most my friends over time due to those and other responsibilities. Adults are just busy and schedules don’t always line up. My suggestion would be this; make your wife the priority but set aside 1 night a week to play with your friends. A set night would be best but that also just depends on everyone’s schedules. That could also be her night to hang with her girl friends.
Also, where do you play relative to where she sleeps? As someone who can’t sleep with a TV on (noise not light) let alone someone yelling in the next room, I can sympathize if you’re loud and close and she can’t sleep. My wife will try and watch TV from our bed when I’m trying to sleep for work and it always pisses me off (there’s 4 other TVs in our house!)! Point is, if noise is the issue, just be quieter! Or move your setup farther away.
how would you react if you found out your 'friend' was simply being nice to you because they wanted to fuck you and actually had no interest in being friends with you, it was all a long-term ploy and your 'friend' actually doesn't care about how you feel or anything that you've told them, they only care about getting some action?
this is so not worth it
its been a year Ld
find someone who is attracted to you
What do you mean?
If your partner won't support you emotionally what's the point of your relationship? Do you support her emotionally? If so, how is that fair?
If anyone spends any time in male oriented subs will see numerous examples of this. Threads specifically talking about male vulnerability and having the same conclusions I typed out. It is anecdotal stuff, but isn't virtually everything that gets discussed relationship wise? I'll get down voted because people won't like the overall message.
You were sexually assaulted.
NTA. 24 years old is too old for those types of games. It almost seems likes shes window shopping to see what all is out there.
Can you please tell me more about eye contact?? How much shall I stare, how should I maintain it and is it really that important
Or….. someone else knows what really happened and she's trying to minimise the damage if they happen to tell you.
You're the problem here.
yeah that was my reaction too…
Something fishy, and if not fishy , should be worrisome. Have you been over to meet the animals in this menagerie? Are they real, or is your BF giving you excuses? Has he been psychologically impacted in any way by this craziness? Or could your bf perhaps have behavioral issues such as lying or defiance? You also mentioned he’ll be living with just his dad soon, which suggests something else is going on in the marriage which may explain some of the groundings. BUT … no matter how you think about these answers, your moving away gets you a chance for a fresh start with someone not carrying a storage room full of baggage
Why was it more of an issue 20 years ago? I believe you but I wouldn’t have really thought that so I’m curious.
Please don’t wait for him to leave, you leave. It might take a while for you to see it but this is no life. This is no way to live. Think of the freedom of going to a store, or going to a baby shower without having to worry about the reaction, the nasty messages etc it takes a while but suddenly you will realise how much better life is without this person, and sometimes being alone isn’t as lonely as being with an abuser. I know from experience, it will be hard but it will be worth it
You're not married and although you feel as if you leave in the middle of this you're responsible for her, you're responsible for yourself first. You didn't sign on as a fulltime caretaker for her.