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You don't sound like you're leading her on. She seems comfortable with you as friends and some friends might cuddle. That being said if it escalates any further from thst, you should make sure to mention that you value her friendship and don't want to break that relationship by being false with her pretending you have romantic feelings when you don't.
Best of luck OP. I know it’s hot. The fact that you’re worried about doing what’s right shows you’re a great mom. ?
Also why does it matter if it was a year ago? We were together a year ago
A few months?! How long are you going to wait, she's an adult if she doesn't want the responsibility she's not going to randomly wake up soon and think any differently. She might be glad to remove the pup anyway if it's causing her stress.
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So be good and maybe something good might come your way
I like that, hadn't thought of that before. Not gonna hold my breath, but you never know.
Should keep my expectations lows to avoid further pain.
Can you get him out of the house for an hour or so? I'd setup a nice bath, shoulder rub, meal, etc to show that you appreciate him. Make him feel pampered since words aren't working on him. Also if you were wanting a second job and his back can handle riding around, why don't you do food delivery and have him tag along? Half of my door dash and Uber drivers have someone in the car keeping them company.
Your call. But seriously OP how many “he's gonna kill you” do you need to leave. Because as almost every post here has said, he's going to kill you if you stay. And it isn't if he kills you, it's when he kills you. You have the entire recipe in your house for domestic homicide or homicide suicide combo. A man who's Jobless, an alcoholic who never got proper treatment for alcoholism, a person with mental health issues (and you didn't mention treatment or meds), and he's extremely physically (throwing things is physical violence) emotionally, and mentally violent, and lastly he access to guns one of which he put to your head. Honest I'm sorry but if you don't leave you're going to die. You're only 30, way early enough to start over. You've had 10 years of hell. You are going to need years of therapy to heal from this and be okay. But you will also find a much better partner. I'm sorry but fuck 10 years, it sounds like you shouldn't have stayed for 10 months. And just FYI for anyone else reading in a similar boat, this is why you have to understand that certain red flags need to be immediate “we are breaking up and never getting back together”. Gun to your head is one of those. In my opinion so is throwing and breaking things during an argument. OP it sounds like you have had tons of these red flags in your 10 years. Seriously leave now or the next red flag is going to be your bedsheet because he will kill you and they tend to do it while you sleep, just FYI.
Talk to a lawyer. This is obviously much bigger than a single incident. But I say talk to a lawyer because you legitimately need legal advice as it relates to custody and your living situation. Good luck.
I am sorry this is happening, but her mind is made up.
You didn't mentioned if you had any kids, that is usually one of the hardest ordeals while separation.
While this is hot, is not the end of the world, it would look like it for a while, but you will bounce back at some point.
Stay strong!!
The friends always know.
Hell yeah!
Dump him. He’s too controlling and too old for you.
How often do you see each other? It sounds as if you have never met in person.
Breaking up will be good for you both, as you will have to get yourself together as well and start building your own network.
And if she clearly told you she doesn’t you love anymore, then it’s over and you don’t want to stay with someone who doesn’t love you, life’s too short for that.
You could probably come to an agreement with her about being able to share the house for a few months max until one of you finds a place to rent. Do you have a job atm?
Someone who begins their statement with “LMAO”, clearly lacks emotional intelligence.
His behavior is not that of a well-adjusted or an accepting and loving person. His constant guilt tripping is going to wear you down. He is a bigot, and a manipulator. Do not stay with this person.
Do they approach all their plans with such spontaneity or just dinner with you guys, and if so are you 100% sure that they're inviting late and it's not just your partner relaying the message late? Are you declining more invites than you're accepting?
For real
HPV
How would I be using him? When he's just trying to have sex?
Tell her she needs to move it if she’s exploring new looks. If I want to change things up, I do the work. It’s not fair to expect you to do it just because you’re a man.
I mean that’s probably his worst. You’ve been together for 10 years and this is the worst thing that’s happened?
Yep I know surgeons bringing in close to a million and they pretty much live paycheck to paycheck. I’d be more concerned with her spending habits
Yeah ok man. My conversation with my sister says otherwise. Lots of projection in this thread.
Your welcome
You don’t have to translate anything, that’s fair, but making someone learn a language from scratch to communicate sometimes with your relatives is not a reasonable expectation.
To be blunt — you can’t do shit. This is between him and his mom. Sure he’s paying rent, but it’s still her home and he doesn’t appear to have an issue with the curfew.
Is this a cult? group thinking?
Then I have to stare at an overflowing hamper. He doesn't “punish” me like a child.
I was more thinking what are the consequences for HIM. e.g. he has no clean socks or underwear or shirts to wear to work because he didn't bother to do his own laundry. You don't need to spring it on him, say, “Hey, starting in April I won't be able to keep doing your laundry for you, just wanted to let you know.”
I grew up in a household where my mother would severely punish me if a single sock hit the floor in my bedroom, even and especially as a child, so I feel like the house needs to be tidy all the time.
You can want to have a tidy space, that's fine. Maybe you need to learn to relax a bit (e.g. it's OK for a glass or book to stay on the coffee table for longer than 30 seconds), but what you describe is “a room of your home being “completely full, almost up to the ceiling in some places, of his things”. That isn't reasonable, I don't think.
Well wouldn't that be nice, move in with someone, don't pay a penny, don't save for a down payment…. get half the property.
What an offer!
I think what she's looking for is a hand out and she's utterly unrealistic. You might offer to let her buy her way to half, down payment plus matching principle payments until now, pays half the mortgage going forward. Of course she won't be able to afford that.
She probably has tons of debt, that's why she can't buy a place of her own. At least now you know what she's looking for, some guy to put her on the life track her decisions have previously prevented her from enjoying.
so it wasn’t really a horrible thing in our mind, and we didn’t really consider it abuse.
A clear effect of what your parents did, it has messed up your sense of morality and you're repeating their behavior.
I genuinely can't fathom what kinda of person you have to be violent to a toddler. Hitting your children is gonna do more damage than good for them, it's not like that's an obvious thing to understand.
You need to understand the difference between fear and respect.
I don't think your girlfriend's intent is to make you fee bad. More likely she is telling you that you're not “adulting”.
Mature 26 year old adults support themselves. They live independent lives and make their own decisions. The fact that you're leaning on your parents for financial support, living arrangements, even food says you need to start taking responsibility for yourself before you consider being a husband and/or a dad.
Start making attempts to be self sufficient. You've taken step one, having a job. Next, start educating yourself on the cost of living and budgeting. Take it from there. Best of luck to you.
I think you're not really getting the idea. The men this person is talking about think they're not good enough to have sex with a woman without paying.
I’m not sure where you live or who you surround yourself with but the objective reality of the world isn’t this Reddit thread. I can’t believe I even have to say this but there are still tons of women who reinforce toxic masculinity and gender norms. At least in the US, 45% of women identified as pro life before Roe was overturned.
I’m also a bi guy and I’m not even going to begin to describe the level of homophobia I’ve experienced in past relationships perpetrated by women. Respectfully, you don’t know what you’re talking about and you’re also part of the problem.
Remember that before around 25 year old you are still maturing. You wont recognize yourself in a few years.
At that age take your time, there is no set date
I'd say a Disney trip with blended family units is not a good idea if you haven't been together much. Too many ways for friction to happen. (No tickets? OMG)
But you did nothing wrong breaking up with him.
Ultimately it's up to you to weigh it up.
But she's disrespectful and I personally wouldn't have it.
this should be your que .. to exit the building
Then a great opportunity to talk to them about it.
Yes. It is about your lack of ambition and focus, resulting in envy of others.
It sounds like some kind of cultural attitude that he thinks he’s in charge and owns you, and you think you need to obey without question. I don’t know where in the world you live (probably not the U.S. because you said “uni” instead of “college”), but there must be resources that you can reach out to for help. Please do so and leave before he begins to physically harm you.
The sooner you run away the better.
I’m assuming drugs which was what I based my comment on, but your brings up even more issues …
Honestly, it sounds like Emma needs therapy just by herself.
Red Forman “Bad things don't happen to you because you are unlucky. Bad things happen to you because you're a dumbass”
Sh'es lying to herself, she's in a rebound and I guess she's not too sure of the guy she left you for. Could be a multitude of things, but I suggest just block her dude. It's over. Move on.
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The OP is a grown ass adult who can advocate for themselves and can support themselves.
They are are simply incompatible now because the husband does want a child, this child. Incompatibly amongst couples is nothing new and where one person was at the beginning of marriage may not be who are years later. People can change their minds. The husband certainly changed his mind for this one specific kid he clearly bonded with since she was little. They're both going to suffer but it's for the best to separate and move on instead of forcing one or the other into something they'll regret and then breed resentment as time goes on.
My advice depends on whether or not you and your boyfriend are on the same page about this friend. Does he also feel like she intrudes on your time together, or is he less bothered by her than you are?
First things first; if you haven’t already – then sit him down and say exactly what you said here.
If he says “yes we’re in a relationship” then you tell him these two things are what you need/want from the relationship. If he says that he can’t or doesn’t want those two things – then you two are just not compatible.
Which is perfectly fine! You’ve only known/dated for a few weeks and now have arrived at the point of finding out who you two really are, what you like/need from each other and if you’re willing to continue.
But honestly, it seems like you already know – deep down inside – that you’re not in a relationship and/or you do not want to be in this relationship.
he makes you feel like you’re weak and stupid. you know you deserve better than that.
Therapy. Go NC with the SIL. Work on yourself. Your wife cheated on you and you never fully processed or recovered. Go get help.
I dearly love my husband and I also like my mother-in-law but there is absolutely no way I would’ve begun our life together by moving into her house with him. And it’s not that your boyfriend’s mother is necessarily controlling, it’s more like having to explain yourself everyday on what you’re doing.
He doesn’t get why it’d never feel like mine.
Well, it wouldn’t be yours. Like ever. It sounds like he hasn’t lived by himself before so he’s just at home there. I’d also be concerned about if he knows how to do stuff like laundry, cooking, etc., general life stuff.
Jealousy is very unattractive. You should only speak up on a situation when you feel boundaries are being crossed.
This right here sounds like clear cut Jealousy due to your insecurities.
For the record. You should cut the side eye shit. She may find it cute now, but once she realizes you're not really joking (like we can tell from this thread), it will make her see you differently.
Yes, there is nuance. Like many things in life.
She's baking him a cake for his birthday. Not taking him out to a romantic candle lit dinner with just the two of them. Unless you left that part out.
As someone who's into videogames, I can't imagine dating someone who doesn't even like them. Let alone mess with my gaming, or say they hate people who care about them. Would she do that with any other hobby? If you were cooking, would she throw the pan to the floor? If you were painting, would she mix your paint together?