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You should leave him. All of those stds were present long enough to lead to pelvic inflammatory disease which can absolutely have an impact on your reproductive system. That is a huge thing. Do not stick around for him to get the chance to give you something worse.
What are you thinking OP ? He had sex (protected?) with a stranger in the bathroom. You need to leave him to sort out his own issues and not be a part of his life anymore. This is not behavior he will easily change.
You need to sit down with her and have a serious talk about her alcohol and drug use. She can absolutely still enjoy parties and not allow her rapists to take that power from her. But drinking and getting high at these parties to the point of blacking out is not okay. This might be her coping mechanism though. I know you said she’s tried therapy and said it didn’t help but it’s important she tries again to talk about ways to healthily cope with the things that have happened to her. A drink is fine but excessively drinking/getting high is putting her own safety at risk as well as your relationship. If she doesn’t work with you on this, it’s time to move on. Not because you don’t love her but because doing this to herself is also harming you.
then Ben refused to meet him for whatever reason and then he said he was UNCOMFORTABLE
So how is expressing interest in your wifes life and discomfort from her hanging with a stranger that only wants to see her when you’re not around controlling again?
INFO: if he was not consuming porn but still masturbating daily via a head full of fantasies — some involving you, some involving a host of other people from his personal past and the pop culture present — would this still be a problem?
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We met in June (both aged 30), he was living with his Mum after a break up, had a job etc but was just working out his circumstances. I had a house which initially was me alone, then a friend moved in, then another couple moved in and by this time he was there 5-6 nights a week too (probs within first 4 months of dating), but didn't properly move in until the other people all moved out, maybe April of the following year?
It was pretty quick, we were already saving for the trip we got married on within 4 months of meeting, but it was just right. That was 14 years ago. Still together.
I’m just shocked that a 30 year old man married a woman who was 20–CLEARLY too young to get married—and then cheated on her.
Take screenshots of everything. Call a lawyer FIRST THING TOMORROW. Divorce him. Move on. Heal. Do NOT get married again until you’re at LEAST 25 or 26 and you’ve been dating the person for a few years.
Bro your wife is probably cheating on you. That is absolutely weird and not normal. She's falling asleep with the shirt since the affair partner isn't around.
The second girl I really liked spending time with her but she kept trying to rush things a lot and then when I started to ask her out she became more withdrawn and made me feel like I was crazy. That’s why I said it made me feel like it was like she regretted what she got into.
The first girl, I agree that 7 months was far too soon. She was madly in love with me and she does still like me (she told me so herself a few weeks ago) but also told me she doesn’t see a future given all the arguing we’ve had
I don’t know his exact heart condition so I can’t comment on that. You should do more research into cocaine itself, they have a bad rap because of the 70’s and 80’s and what the media put out. I wouldn’t listen to most of the peoples here advice, when it comes to steroid use. I’d go to r/cocaine and ask your questions there, if you’re worried about his health it’s good to get a full understanding and it might calm your worries
A few times a week is pretty typical for a long term relationship. Once a day is a lot. And this dude sounds like a manipulative asshole. You should only have sex when you want to have sex and anyone who wants to guilt you into it deserves no sex. I'd drop him by the curb with the rest of the trash and find someone who respects you and is invested in your happiness and not just his dick.
I regrettably read one of my ex girlfriends journals that I found unexpectedly that she wrote while with her ex bf, years before we dated. It ruined me, even though it was years prior that she wrote it, before we had even met. She was obviously deeply in love with him and I couldn’t imagine her writing that way about me. I felt like she was settling by being with me from that day forward. I’d imagine you feel the same. I’m sorry, I know it hurts.
30 minutes away means no hotel required. Take her to stay in the hotel yourselves if she is wanting to try if. Honestly talk to her about it. I have to wonder why she would feel the need to stay in a hotel for an event 30 minutes away. I suspect even if not intentionally perhaps she is wondering what might happen with the colleague. It could also be she wants to get really drunk and doesn't want to be seen like that or other reasons. At least she told you about the guy and has been honest as far as we know to now. You need to talk and set boundaries if necessary.
Even if a dude is trying it, that doesn’t mean she has to give in. ??♀️ Loyal partners will stay loyal even in the face of strong temptation. I don’t buy into the bullshit of “It just happened!” Cheating is always a conscious choice. Not wanting to admit you chose it doesn’t change that.
You should leave him. All of those stds were present long enough to lead to pelvic inflammatory disease which can absolutely have an impact on your reproductive system. That is a huge thing. Do not stick around for him to get the chance to give you something worse.
What are you thinking OP ? He had sex (protected?) with a stranger in the bathroom. You need to leave him to sort out his own issues and not be a part of his life anymore. This is not behavior he will easily change.
You need to sit down with her and have a serious talk about her alcohol and drug use. She can absolutely still enjoy parties and not allow her rapists to take that power from her. But drinking and getting high at these parties to the point of blacking out is not okay. This might be her coping mechanism though. I know you said she’s tried therapy and said it didn’t help but it’s important she tries again to talk about ways to healthily cope with the things that have happened to her. A drink is fine but excessively drinking/getting high is putting her own safety at risk as well as your relationship. If she doesn’t work with you on this, it’s time to move on. Not because you don’t love her but because doing this to herself is also harming you.
No he didn’t he said he would LIKE to meet them
then Ben refused to meet him for whatever reason and then he said he was UNCOMFORTABLE
So how is expressing interest in your wifes life and discomfort from her hanging with a stranger that only wants to see her when you’re not around controlling again?
INFO: if he was not consuming porn but still masturbating daily via a head full of fantasies — some involving you, some involving a host of other people from his personal past and the pop culture present — would this still be a problem?
Agreed, but you're the one who said the blanket statement that there is to be NO opposite friends. Nothing about earning trust to even begin with.
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We met in June (both aged 30), he was living with his Mum after a break up, had a job etc but was just working out his circumstances. I had a house which initially was me alone, then a friend moved in, then another couple moved in and by this time he was there 5-6 nights a week too (probs within first 4 months of dating), but didn't properly move in until the other people all moved out, maybe April of the following year?
It was pretty quick, we were already saving for the trip we got married on within 4 months of meeting, but it was just right. That was 14 years ago. Still together.
I’m just shocked that a 30 year old man married a woman who was 20–CLEARLY too young to get married—and then cheated on her.
Take screenshots of everything. Call a lawyer FIRST THING TOMORROW. Divorce him. Move on. Heal. Do NOT get married again until you’re at LEAST 25 or 26 and you’ve been dating the person for a few years.
This whole thing is super concerning to me. He's a walking red flag and OP should run far and fast.
100% All of the “friends” saying you shouldn't have just told you “If you ever let me use your stuff, whatever happens to it is not my problem.”
Bro your wife is probably cheating on you. That is absolutely weird and not normal. She's falling asleep with the shirt since the affair partner isn't around.
The second girl I really liked spending time with her but she kept trying to rush things a lot and then when I started to ask her out she became more withdrawn and made me feel like I was crazy. That’s why I said it made me feel like it was like she regretted what she got into.
The first girl, I agree that 7 months was far too soon. She was madly in love with me and she does still like me (she told me so herself a few weeks ago) but also told me she doesn’t see a future given all the arguing we’ve had
I don’t know his exact heart condition so I can’t comment on that. You should do more research into cocaine itself, they have a bad rap because of the 70’s and 80’s and what the media put out. I wouldn’t listen to most of the peoples here advice, when it comes to steroid use. I’d go to r/cocaine and ask your questions there, if you’re worried about his health it’s good to get a full understanding and it might calm your worries
A few times a week is pretty typical for a long term relationship. Once a day is a lot. And this dude sounds like a manipulative asshole. You should only have sex when you want to have sex and anyone who wants to guilt you into it deserves no sex. I'd drop him by the curb with the rest of the trash and find someone who respects you and is invested in your happiness and not just his dick.
I regrettably read one of my ex girlfriends journals that I found unexpectedly that she wrote while with her ex bf, years before we dated. It ruined me, even though it was years prior that she wrote it, before we had even met. She was obviously deeply in love with him and I couldn’t imagine her writing that way about me. I felt like she was settling by being with me from that day forward. I’d imagine you feel the same. I’m sorry, I know it hurts.
If she defined it herself as cheating then I'd have to say yes she cheated.
Good on him.
lmao a truly cold-blooded nonresponse. you love to see it
30 minutes away means no hotel required. Take her to stay in the hotel yourselves if she is wanting to try if. Honestly talk to her about it. I have to wonder why she would feel the need to stay in a hotel for an event 30 minutes away. I suspect even if not intentionally perhaps she is wondering what might happen with the colleague. It could also be she wants to get really drunk and doesn't want to be seen like that or other reasons. At least she told you about the guy and has been honest as far as we know to now. You need to talk and set boundaries if necessary.
bro she cheated on you before and now wants to do it again, why tf are you still in this relationship
Even if a dude is trying it, that doesn’t mean she has to give in. ??♀️ Loyal partners will stay loyal even in the face of strong temptation. I don’t buy into the bullshit of “It just happened!” Cheating is always a conscious choice. Not wanting to admit you chose it doesn’t change that.