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Date: October 17, 2022
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Your instincts are spot-on. How he reacted to this seemingly small thing speaks volumes about his character, patience, conflict management skills (or lack thereof), and selfishness.
When people ignore that nagging feeling that something is not right and stick around, they end up in way over their head wondering, “how did I get here?
When I was in my mid 20s I also thought I wanted a baby and then when I actually had a baby at 33 I was so thankful we waited until we were financially stable and had a home with multiple bedrooms and a lot of help. Being pregnant, having a newborn and raising a toddler is HOT. It’s expensive. Childcare is expensive. It is all much more difficult and expensive than you think. Look into daycares in your area to see how much they are per month, and show her the costs.
I would have an honest discussion with her that you aren’t even considering kids and marriage until you’ve been financially stable for a while. And tbh you need to let her leave if that isn’t OK for her. You’re both entitled to want what you want but you can’t force the other person into wanting what you want.
I don't recommend it.