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Blocking her posts would have been totally fine, you are right. I feel like asking for nsfw filters is attempting to control what she posts, though.
This guy is a massive creep ew
Don’t give in to your family’s demands.
When your brother asked you to be godparents, what did they mean?
The religious thing? If you are atheists, why would you want to be a godparent?
Or did they mean, well, taking in their kid if they were to die? That’s called ‘guardian’, not ‘godparent’. There is nothing religious about guardianship. You can take care of that by writing it in your will. You don’t need any religious services or rituals for that.
I make a face that is very very similar (like a grimace) to pain when I’m enjoying sex extremely. A lot of people have weird sex faces, and I used to be self-conscious about it, so I’d “act pretty” until I felt comfortable enough with a partner to be able to let go.
She might be the same, or not enjoying it – talk. Ask her what she’s like to try, what she enjoys, for her to be honest about stuff, because you want it to be pleasurable for both of you. Talking openly and kindly is the key to great sex, not avoiding it.
I had a female house mate. We’re married with kids now. Lol.
No…they have no respect for you. WTF… stay with someone that doesn't you blows my mind
I would talk directly with the wife. Why keep waiting to see if David did or didn't? You gave him a deadline and if he didn't, he is not going to tell you that.
i think spanking is not necessarily bad, but in this situation it is verry much so, spanking should never be done as a first response or when you are mad, and never too very hot or more than 1, but in this situation i think it was un acceptable, especially at 3 and when she is autistic
and doesent even know why he hit her.
It really depends on the law in your jurisdiction. A local family lawyer will give you a more accurate answer than random Redditors. (No offence meant, anyone).
Yeah it’s her discussion i am not getting involved but it’s just feels uncomfortable
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Honestly I’d go down there in my PJs and just turn off the base. Explain to his buddies that you have work in the morning and if that shit doesn’t stop, they all unfortunately have to leave. It’s your house too and you work to pay bills. If your man wants to act like a petty teenager, he may need to be treated like one.
My past two dates have ended with me being told this. Which means its not a guy thing its just how people date nowadays. Everyone's afraid of commitment and wrapped up in “being young” it seems. Really sucks wish people were more blunt.
It's because not sleeping together with your baby is way more of a big deal than whether you end up sleeping in the bed at 2am or not will affect your relationship.
However sleeping apart will affect your relationship, it'll be better than waking them up when you go to bed.
Honestly what do you want people to say? Sleeping in the same bed is irrelevant once you're going to bed at 2am and they've been there since 9pm.
Just dump her. Yeah her mind is all twisted up from avoiding and lying to her dad, but the sick thing is that her lying is inversely turning you into the very thing she’s trying to escape. Just look at the extent and detail of your writing here-her twisted psychology is warping how you relate to her. To subconsciously counteract her secretive, paranoid personality you are developing her father’s control freak tendencies.
Your GF needs therapy and counselling. But first of all she needs to feel the consequences of her deceit. She needs to see that she’s hurt you but crucially that you are not using your “hurt” to manipulate her, but only to protect yourself from her. She needs to see that your feelings, and personhood are as real and legitimate as her own. To do this you need to dump her and go no contact.
The sad truth is that those who have been abused-severely-often become the abuser or attract abusive situations. The abused wrap themselves up in the armour of self righteousness, to protect their wounded souls, but that armour can divide them from the world, and from being able to develop genuine relationships.
Of course this is a very sympathetic interpretation based on limited data. It could also be that she’s just a narcissistic only child who is playing everyone against each other and lying about everything for no real good reason besides her being a control freak herself. Have you ever spoken to her friends, or mother, for instance, about the abuse? Have you observed it yourself? This could just be your GF’s method of keeping you from interacting with her parents.
In any case something ain’t right and it’s not your problem. The GF needs to realize it’s her problem and that she won’t have healthy relationships until she becomes a genuine honest person.
This sub is INSANE.
OP you have every right to feel betrayed but I want to make it known that if your husband posted this situation on the sub every single one of these people telling you he’s the bad guy would have told him you were cheating on him. His situation has been posted on here so many fucking times and everyone insists the spouse is cheating. Once I saw a very similar situation, OP posted updates that her husband was not cheating and the person who told her he was admitted to faking the evidence and posters were still saying something was fishy and that her husband probably cheated.
This situation is absurd, and while you have every right to be hurt if you were cheating he would have been completely in his right to kick you out – pregnant or not – so all these people saying he’s immature over it are off it.
Your husband filed for divorce, made it known you were separated, and then slept with people. That is not cheating. Don’t let anyone convince you it was
You both need counseling to navigate this situation. Whether you stay together or not is up to you but this is about Reddits pay grade and these posters are full of shit.
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Well she sounds like she’ll be a fucking terrible psychologist.
The total and compete lack of ethics. The boundary violations. The emotional vampirism. The obsessional vibe. The nuttiness of saying she’s been crying about it in her bed? Mate this is fucked. It’s totally unhinged.
I think here’s what you should do: move out. Just make your plans in silence apart from whatever legal notice you need to give. Or, if you happen to have the power to, evict her. Try not to antagonise her or get overly confrontational because protecting yourself comes first and she sounds toxic. But do not continue to live! with a person like this. Remove her from your life.
Yeah, it's a super weird location anyways, no?
Um no. Do not let him move in with you. All it’s going to do is cause issues before y’all break up
Ex deceived me
Age gap checks out.
You're acting like a 23yo and he's acting like a 21yo. That does not make it ok .
This is very abnormal behavior for his age and you obviously don't know any better bc you've been putting up with it.
You know it's messed up but you're still willing to go along.
I don't think this is a good relationship for you.
But in general I will say it's not a good thing to call anyone incessantly. If they ask you to leave you should leave period. If they didn't mean it then that's their problem and they shouldn't ask you to leave if they don't want you to.
Also waiting for 3 hours seems really excessive. there's no reason for that just talk about it when you're both ready
Basically if you're in a relationship where someone is waiting for hours to speak to their partner, one or the other partner is calling each other over 2x consecutively, someone is calling the cops.
It's not working and it's prob not gonna work .
Also see age gap.
Greatly put, seems like the most mature and civil thing to do, thank you.
OP and her alleged “family” on-line in outer space. No family member from all 3 sides to be heard of. ??
Marijuana is definitely not safe for children and should only be given for extreme cases like epilepsy. It causes the brain to develop irregularly, in all reality you shouldn’t do drugs until your brain is done developing in your late 20s. Your husband is a fucking dangerous moron.
Lol right? Soon as I saw there was an age difference between OP and fiancée I came here looking for the comments implying he’s a sex predator. Was not disappointed. Stay classy, r/relationship_advice
Your wife needs to get away from her family, they sound extremely toxic, especially the sister. She also needs some professional help, this isn't really something you can help with. She needs to work on the years of comparison with a therapist. All you can keep doing is reassuring her, being there for her, showing her love/affection. It may be tiring and draining, but she is your wife and needs you more now than she ever has before. It's not easy having a sibling who tries to take everything from you and that you've been compared to constantly. That sounds like a nightmare.
Be careful, she’s probably lying or twisting around the therapists words.
Date someone that actually likes you.
I don’t think your boyfriend is very nice, actually I think he’s an asshole. You shouldn’t feel bad, you didn’t do anything wrong. Obviously you want to spend time with him on his birthday. He clearly doesn’t want to be with you, I hope you don’t go back to him, because you deserve so much better. He gaslit you, turning it around on you. You didn’t do anything wrong but care for your boyfriend. Girl, drop him, you deserve better.
The police are awake.
Yeah, my bf and I “wrastle” and he’s much larger and stronger than me. There was one time where I tickled him (my signature move) and he jerked his arm and swiped a pillow but thought it was me. He immediately stopped and asked if I was okay with a panicked look on his face.
My background is similar to yours, so that is coloring my answer, I’m sure. But I don’t think it’s normal to use any substance every day throughout the day, especially at work. It wouldn’t be normal to drink alcohol while working, at least not in any job I ever had. It’s not in your control, though. You’ve told your girlfriend how you feel, I think now you need to let it go. Or move on.
Sounds like an excuse? Refusing to admit that he can be a dick sometimes.
My child is 8 months old
Jesus wept your boyfriend is a loser. Break up with him
I was sexually assaulted by a friend of mine. I was piss drunk, she was not. So the moment I saw that he was all fucked up I instantly sympathized with the guy. He genuinely could have just been way too fucked up and didn't know what was going on.
Textbook
Consider it a blessing! You don’t have to have sex with him.
If you want to be rid of the entire group, this is it. Saying something that crude and cruel to him in front of your friend group will definitely alienate you from all of them. They will see you as overreacting and just mean.
Honey, learn now, mom may make her choices, but as far as your love life, mom doesn't get a vote.
Wtf is a talking stage?
Please, talk to him about this. It's OK, and it's going to be painful regardless. It's easier if you end on good terms.
Unless there are kids in the mix, never trust “oh, they’re just an ex.”
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Please read what you just wrote. You are in an abusive relationship, hell, my ex used to do shit like that too and it took me a while to see that it was not ok and that I deserved better and so do you.
Kick that “man” to the curb and take back your power, your car, and your dignity.
That sucks you're on a waiting list. So many people are suffering because there's not enough therapists. Is going private an option, or is there a waiting list no matter what?
At the end, add “I love the person you are, but not the roommate you are.
And you the flatmate are now hurting John the best friend of mine”.
You probably have good times because it's YOU who is caving in to HER and what she wants.
Not all men expect sex when they invite you over. Creep.
Listen to what they say. One guy said he l only wants casual. That told you right there.
Slow down and ensure they are quality guys before sleeping. Wait a few months. Ask them questions about what they want and look for. Their dating past. Is it slow and stable?
There is no rush. If they bail quickly, that’s what they want.
Doing fun things is nice. Sounds like you have lots of things to keep you both occupied.
He isn't worth any more of the energy you have, he can't accept he isn't your priority but instead of being a grown up and finishing things he is choosing to act like a spoilt brat. He needs to find someone who can give him what he needs, and you need to find someone who isn't so dependant on others. Sometimes walking away and going down separate paths is the only way. I'm sorry you had such an awful day yesterday
why is this being downvoted? i’m confused.
Oh no, he definitely forgot.
To come up with a plausible excuse.
To respect hi
Don't be creepy. She said she doesn't want to see you any more. You don't fish for “tips” on re-attracting her. You give up on this one and start romancing another.
OP, feeling a bit of fluttery attraction and hoping to take it further so maybe love will develop over time is normal. Hitting a previously only platonic associate with declarations of love is not, not at all. You're not the one who's deviating from social/psychological norms here, he is. So don't chastise yourself for not being able to feel things that simply haven't happened yet. Beware of this guy too, because coming out of the gate this very hot is usually a sure sign that a person's got some emotional deficiencies. Try to slow him waaayyy down so you can have the opportunity to really get to know him over a period of months to see if maybe you could “love” him. Right now neither of you truly have the kind of exposure to one another to be saying things like that. Good luck
DO. NOT. DO. IT. He is setting you up to take him back so he has a ready victim waiting for him as soon as he gets out of prison. Felony assault and domestic violence are very, very, serious crimes. He must have really messed you up to get that much prison time and that serious a charge. Why would you want him back? So he can do it all over again and maybe kill you this time?
Don't be stupid. This is the game abusers play with their victims. He already knows he can manipulate you, and he's too much of a coward to try to hook up with another woman when he knows he can manipulate you into taking him back so he can go right back into beating you half to death.
Respect yourself. Love yourself. Because this man never will.
If you give access to all your money then he will spend all your money and control you for it. Then you have no cushion or financial help when you need it. The compromise would be a joint account that covers bills and a separate personal account. The minute he takes money out of the joint account for other things rather than covering the bills, you stop depositing money in that account. Do not accept any excuses. That money must be paid back too. Also do not do any joint loans unless you are married not about to be married or thinking of marriage.
YES. Stop giving him work. His unemployment is his problem. Tell him whatever you need to. “Sorry, work is slowing down so I don't have any assignments for you.” “Sorry, nothing to give this month!” Tell him to start looking for his own job because you giving him work was just a temporary thing. Whatever. Tell him whatever. YOU need that money to get the fuck out, OP.
Give yourself a deadline to move out. Save every fucking penny which includes not giving any to him. Until then, view him as an unpleasant roommate you need to tolerate. Don't argue, don't antagonize, just try to maintain.
Start looking for an apartment, and/or roommates. Make a plan, do the plan.
Try to separate these two issues. It's obviously never a good idea to invest in real estate with someone you don't have any legal commitments to (unless it's solely an investment and all the necessary contracts are in place for what will happen if the relationship fails). But if you have no money then there's really no way for you to participate fully in this purchase. It's not like you're going to get a mortgage if you're not qualified. So it's unclear how he expects you to even do this. Maybe put that part of it out of your mind since the most he could do is buy a place in his own name then quick claim you onto the deed. The fact that he still seems to be one foot in/one foot out of his past relationship is certainly something you should be paying attention to. But it's unrelated to the fact that you're just not in the right circumstances at the moment to be involved in his real estate purchases.
This is the way. Any other division of expenses will potentially cause resentment.
Just don't do it again. Leaving a group chat over one comment is a bit dramatic.
If he panics about the future I just give him time to think it through before continuing the conversation. He’s been in therapy for about 5 years but I don’t know what’s discussed, one would hope he’s discussed his commitment problems with his therapist but I suppose I’ll never know. He also talks about his fears with his mother, who has usually slapped some sense into him (metaphorically).
He’s a private tuition teacher and about 50% of his students went to live! lessons due to covid and never went back – so there’s at least 50% of his income that would remain. The rest, he plans to work in a school part-time until he gains his own crowd again; he’s done that before so not impossible. It was the same plan he used when he went from full time employment to self employment and it worked pretty well the first time.
I can understand having doubts in a relationship because I’ve certainly had them in every relationship I’ve been in, but I don’t really act on them, I may just talk about it with a friend and realise I was being silly (or not silly, and actually ended the relationship which was 100% the right decision), but idk he just does it TOO much for my comfort. He’d never lived with a partner before me so him getting over that was a big step, one that was his idea initially not mine. I was just taken aback because moving to the other side of the country seems like a huge step for someone who panics when we celebrate our two year anniversary etc.
Where do you get this information from? And even if it were that way, isn't it good for this stuff to end? Let's not make assumptions and give our opinion on something else than we know. And even what we know is only part of the story told by one of the parties.
Could be a medical cause. We don't have an age. Older adults especially can have transient psychosis associated with medical issues like urinary tract infections.
But this stuff sounded fairly manic moreso than psychotic off the little bit shared in the original post. That does resolve independently sometimes in only a period of several days after onset. The problem is that it is often followed by substantial depression, and the damage you can do during a manic episode can be pretty lasting (financially over-extending, engaging in sexual infidelity, reckless drug abuse, violence, etc depending on how it presents).
I never said you weren’t actively looking for a job. Working full time at McDonald’s would provide more value than you’re currently providing. Have you thrown your hat in the ring there? Or are you above that like you’re above doing basic chores?
A counselor told me “someone cant make you feel guilty unless you give them permission”