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Date: October 18, 2022
What this guy said. Make it a video with music behind it like those cheesy tik toks. It’ll warm the girls heart
I was going to say don’t punish the child for his dads fuck ups, but this is punishment for your daughter 🙁 poor kiddo. This is a nude choice for you and I stand by it. Maybe even don’t go or ban him until his moral improves.
Take away the rape issue, are you guys compatible? She wants to party, be in wild groups, and get high af, it sounds like you want quiet nights in. That's not a basis for a long term relationship.
It sounds like you are hoping she will stop partying and see the merits in couch and Netflix. That's far from guaranteed.
Coming back to the rape issue, do you want to be with someone who for whatever reason puts themselves into regular sexual contact with others and doesn't want to do anything about it? She is putting you and her at risk of STDs and unplanned pregnancy. It's not cheating if there is no consent, but as you are not there, who knows what level of consent is involved?
I put a lot of thought into a gift and it fell a bit flatter than expected before… some are a hit, some are a miss
the person who received the gift doesn't get any blame beyond not giving me more to go on
there's nothing wrong with still being thankful…
hope your gf can get over it herself.. it's not like your daughter got pissed off and threw it away
I wouldn't even think about testing someone. It's disrespectful and says from the outset you don't trust them. He sounds very immature.
If I assume he is doing something dishonest (and not just completely irresponsible) then I think that is exactly what he did, because our pattern was him getting paid, holding the checks, me reminding him to deposit, and then me seeing a ‘larger than one check’ deposit and not counting the weeks every time. He will say going to the bank weekly is annoying (for why he holds them), and I remind him he can deposit with his phone bank app, but he has never deposited them that way.
6 months and you're 19 lol. This is ridiculous
I've also experienced similar things. Being compared to other women can mess with your head. I also think something may have happened in her past to cause this.
You’re in what’s called a “trauma bond” with your abuser. That’s why it seems impossible to leave, even though you know this isn’t healthy. The emotional abuse has rewired your brain, but once you know this isn’t yourself, you can start searching for answers. People are so quick to say “why don’t you just leave”, and this is why. They don’t understand how deep a trauma bond is, how it fucks you up. But please seek help, find a trauma informed therapist, please ask someone in your support circle to come over and help you pack and leave while he’s not home. Hope you get out of this soon.
Your brother in law is disgusting and so is Ellie. Don't believe a word of this “drinking problem” story Ellie is feeding you now, she simply used her proximity to you to carry on this affair with your BIL. She wasn't lied to, they both did this together and aren't remorseful at all.
Let's imagine your BIL did pretend your sister had a drinking problem in order to cheat on her (absolutely repugnant thing to do btw). If you knew your best best friend's sister was struggling with alcoholism, and you were as intimately involved with the whole family as Ellie was, why would you throw the lives of this woman and her children in more turmoil by breaking their family apart and banging the husband? Nothing justifies her behaviour. Nothing. This girl is not your friend and was only ever out for herself.
Cut all ties, I hope your sister has a good lawyer and you guys can move on together and heal.
Those two bog trolls deserve one another and they can rot. He'll most likely fabricate something about her when she ages out and get another unscrupulous sidepiece pregnant in 10 years anyway.
Don't contact her again. Depending on how long she's been using, she's got to have some consequences to help her see she's at rock bottom
Wow, thank you so much for sharing your story. I am so grateful you took the time to respond. Im so glad to hear you got help and you and your wife are together.
My biggest worry is when he becomes suicidal again and he’s pushed me, his family and closest friends.
He says I’ve been possessed by the devil and that I’m trying to ruin his life. Do you think it’s helpful or hurtful to reach out to him just letting him know I care and love him? I’ve been struggling with knowing whether I should reach out or not.
I am aware 35 does have some statistical elevation in risk, but I hope no one reads this and panics. In my province the average age of first maternity is 31. My mum had me at 35 and we were both healthy as could be. Same for my sister who had her youngest at 37. That being said, it's more than fair if OP's gf doesn't want to have more kids for any reason!
Yes. He’s cheating. He created this issue so that he could use it as an excuse to leave.
If you online together, you need to make a plan to move out. Get yourself off the lease.
You need to block him. He sounds like a habitual cheater.
Now the whole internet gets to look at that butt!!!!
No. That’s the reality. You guys have been contemplating whether to break up or not. Duck my life. Either you break up or you don’t. That means indecision and the first time you realize that things are not perfect with future partners, you will always be regretting it and romanticizing “what if”.
Life is short, and if you’re looking for peace and happiness you should chase that. If leaving your husband will you ultimately make you more content, maybe you should consider it. If working things out will make you more content do that. Basically chase what will ultimately bring you long term happiness.
Bro read what you've just written. She's abusive , you need to leave
Your wife sounds like Violet, the one with the Mercedes, swimming pool, and room for a pony.
To me it sounds like she avoided the funeral. Being on the phone was just theatrics, a wafer thin excuse for missing the event. There's some reason for her behavior and I suspect it's related to the ultimatum. She was at a stage where she was contemplating divorce and looking for reasons to fuel her grievances.
Yikes
What are you afraid of?
You have three kids already, do you really need more? If you do break up and start dating do you really want to run the risk of getting a hook-up pregnant and paying child support for a kid you’ll never see?
Just get the vasectomy.
Block him. Once you meet with him, he'll want to go somewhere as a “date”. Then he'll want to go somewhere private. Asking to be a best friend is really damn weird.
Appreciate your advice! Will admit it’s all a bit over my head, but it’s good to know there are other options like this. Unfortunately I can’t imagine him doing that would be more work than what he views as a simple solution right now, but I may try to bring it up to him and see if he’s discussed trying this. If it were me, I’d probably do something more like this to get rid of it now.
He “felt so bad for her”, but has literally acknowledged sleeping around with other people behind her back? Are you sure he felt bad for her? It doesn't sound like he was helping her at all, it sounds like he was ruining his life.
His narrative with his Instagram photos seems like they've been put there to try to convince you he won't cheat on you. Otherwise, they wouldn't have come with the attached description of why he never did it before. People who post pictures of them literally marrying their spouses sometimes still cheat, they don't generally care what they look like online.
It really does sound like he's lovebombing you and your flatmate is the one to trust about this.
You shouldn’t have asked a question like that, is what you should’ve done. You need to decide if you can trust her or not, and break up with her if you can’t, and let go of this anxiety if you can. Or go to therapy and they’ll help you, if you can access it.
A 30-second Google search will provide the answer. Honestly, I don't know why people argue about things that are so easily proven one way or another. The fact that neither of you chose to find the answer is telling. You're more concerned with winning than knowing the answer (both of you).
That is something that I hadn’t really considered, thank you for the input.
I've also seen oh well he's my husband so.. it can't be rape. Ffs.. it's just not right
Just break up with this PoS
Not that it justifies it in any way, but I've met a few North American-born, ethnically Chinese people who have a real complex about their identities. While they feel (maybe fairly) that white people don't accept them, they know for d-mn sure that Chinese people in China accept them even less.
I know I can't really get what the feeling is like, but I can appreciate it's tough and some such individuals seem to retreat into some odd views on the subject.
Welp then. No that is not intimate. Like at all.
I honestly don't see anything wrong with YOUR behave OP. Your friend acted weird by lying about her birthday, yes. But it's fine to have drinks and have a friend sleep over. No matter the gender. If your date was uncomfortable with it she should've told you instead of basically ghosting you. That's just immature. Even IF your friend has a thing for you – your partner needs to trust you to make the right decision.
Dangerously deluded.
You're no victim, that's for damn sure. People drop their own family's narcs for much less than this.
People who have drinking problems. Don’t think they have drinking problems
Why does any of this actually surprise you? His age difference with her was 12 years and with you it’s 9 years. It’s clear he prefers younger women. At some point I feel you will be too old for him and he might start looking to replace you just for that. Regardless when there’s such an imbalance in income and/or assets it’s always a good idea to have a prenup in place. Also he proposed to her and he proposed to you. You say you didn’t win but if you’re still in contact with your pageant circle he could “trade you in” for the winner or first runner-up. If you have any doubts at all, either don’t marry him or insist on a prenup.
It sounds like you’re going to have to deal with it. This woman knows no boundaries, and likely will never stop. My grandma is the same way. ?
You guys for real think it’s cheating to be into a fictional character? Give me a break! Let a woman have a fantasy.
As others have already mentioned lock down your credit. This should have been done after the first time. If he loved you dearly he never would have done this to you and he has done so three times.
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Sorry I meant after thinking about what you commented I came to that conclusion. Thank you for your help.
What kind of relationship would you say you have with her now? Does she treat you like a peer, or does she see you as a kid to mentor/give advice? I think the first step is to test if she’d be even willing to see you as an equal.
23M, my girlfriend of 1.5 years is 28F. I was attracted to her right from the start, but thought she’d probably just see me as a kid. But when we became friends she treated me as if we were equal in maturity, and that’s how I knew it had the potential to grow further.
Break up. 2. Don't get married until you are 30.
Exactly, don’t bother trying to find ways round his stealing by wasting your money buying lockboxes, just leave him. If you’re paying the bills already what do you need him for? Save any extra money in a bank account in your own name and get on with your adult life by yourself. Some time on your own will teach you who you are as a person.
Thank you for the information, she has been diagnosed depression, anxiety and ptsd, but not schizophrenia. Her behavior is extremely erratic and she has told me she sees bugs and feels them crawling on her, so I wouldn't be surprised if she is schizophrenic. Her doctor is aware of the situation, she regularly visits with samples of her skin