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If you reject him, he will say that he was just trying to do something nice and you were unreasonable.
If you let him give you the gift, then he will later claim that you were leading him on.
In either case, he will try to make you the bad guy. But only one of those options has you free of his poison.
Just say no and block him.
Totally normal, rational behavior in his end….
How recently did her grandma pass away and were they close?
Grief short-circuits your brain amd can cause irrational anger.
I don't know what to tell you but she needs therapy and you need to talk to her more.
Sure, you can end the relationship over this but I would give it a couple of days and talk again.
If she isn't working on getting another job I would try to back out of the deal.
HERE IS THE PROBLEM WITH HER COMPLAINT:
If she wants to get the HOUSE then you get to ask about money.
If she wants you to be concerned about her MENTAL HEALTH then you find a way to back out of the house deal.
Frankly, if she is upset that you don't seem concerned enough about her mental health then the ANSWER is to back out of the house deal so that the LARGE financial pressure is removed from her plate.
Going into a large commitment like this when your partner is self-destructing is a big No.
I don't think this lie is a relationship ender but I do think it is a sign that she is struggling much more than she was willing to admit. She wanted to appear fine and strong.
Find a way to back out. Then just hug her a lot. You'll know in a few months what you want to do.
Stay in the apartment! He can’t make you leave either. You’ve been there longer and just refuse to deal with him. Stand up for yourself and ignore his abuse. Don’t argue with him about anything. Just pretend he doesn’t exist even if you are stuck together in a small space. Once he realizes he can’t intimidate you, he will get bored and find another victim. File for divorce so he knows you are really done and prepare to be a single mother. Don’t threaten him with child support as that could make him angry and maybe even violent. All those details will be part of the divorce and will be done after the baby is born. Fix up your apartment for the baby, be happy, have a pregnancy glow, even song lullabies and you will be surprised how fast he gets out of there.
I did! But he texted back “something is wrong with me. Help” in this funny way and I went along with “seems like your rules don’t apply to me hehe” . Yup. That was it.
I have a problem with being swayed easily, going into the conversation where he apologized, I had the intention to break it off but was swayed with his “nice” words and apology. How would I go about bringing this up and breaking if off clean this time?
Again. She's your cousin. You don't do anything. Date someone outside of your family.
It’s natural to feel frustrated by her not contributing at all to cleaning if you doing it all yourself is true, but the way you phrased this sounds… off. Discipline? And you want her to take out the trash whenever she disposes of a feminine product? That is multiple times per day.
He doesn’t really post anymore. But he doesn’t care about anyone else tagging him. All the other tagged photos are there.
Lmao what a pathetic attempt at a troll post. Way to obvious dude.
“I am not naive that is always a possibility but at a family friendly festival with only 12,000 people, with witnesses everywhere, as well as the fact I’m not naive and can sense the creeps, not an overly trusting person, the chances of this happening is unlikely.”
Famous last words. People are just as likely to be assaulted in large crowds as anywhere else. If you're surrounded by 12,000 people then unless your head is on a 360 degree swivel then you'll never see or hear some creeper come up behind you while you're enjoying yourself. Odds are, no one else will notice someone creeping on you either. One, their attention is on their own fun. Two, for all they'll know, you're together and won't know anything is amiss until you start screaming.
I'm not saying not to go. If you want to go, then go. Just understand the risk of going alone. Just because someone went to Bali and it was fine doesn't have any bearing on this event.
Work drinks are normal, drinks on a Saturday or well outside work hours is weird. Maybe you can suggest a happy hour close to your work and decline anything on the weekend.
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I don't think I'd wake up early to have an hour and a half conversation with my husband so I think that's really an odd request.
If I were you I'd be looking for a different boyfriend. It is absolutely clear that your “love languages” are not the same OR you are not in the same place in the relationship.
so decided to meet up with another guy to see if it would “shake” the feelings I had,
Sounds to me like you’re aftaid to admit how you feel and are literally playing with your own feelings. You don’t “catch” feelings you know what you’re doing and the company you enjoy. Stop denying yourself and be true.
Can guarantee she will have explored more than the French countryside while she is there
I guess how I should go about telling her is my main issue. She might get violent, I don't expect her too but I don't know exactly how well she's gonna take this.
There are various ways of sorting finances. Lots of couples each have their own account plus a joint account that they contribute to proportionally to their earnings, to be used for shared costs like mortgages and groceries and utility bills. We just have separate accounts and we divided up the various things to be paid in proportion to earnings.
He paid for the mortgage, and it so happened that it was all paid up just before I started freelancing and earning a whole lot more, so even though he'd said he would start paying some of the bills that I'd been paying, I took them back once I saw that I was earning more than I had expected.
We neither of us think money is worth arguing about.
Most importantly, we neither of us make passive aggressive remarks about money, especially in company. Any time anyone has tried to insinuate that I'm a gold digger, he has defended me. He has put all the property he's invested in both our names so that even though we're not married and the children will inherit practically everything, I will still have a decent share. He did this because even though he's the one who has earned the money to buy the property, dealt with renovations, found tenants, dealt with collecting rent and maintenance and repairs etc, he was only able to do all that because he had me taking care of the house and the children for him.
I’m sorry, her OWN friends don’t want to be around this guy. You showed her proof. You expressed how bad he’s making you feel. Your partner should be defending you and prioritizing you. Instead she is dismissing your concerns and calling you manipulative…
There’s nothing you can do now except break up, this isn’t something open communication can fix. You’ve communicated and she trampled on your feelings. She chose this guy.
Yeah I understand that, when I did it I didn’t think through, it was my bad but I didn’t do it with bad intentions
Thank you, the x and y example is what I've needed. I am not going to consider divorce as I love her and have been through far too much to give up on our relationship and I will not give up on my marriage unless she decides to leave. I am prepared for even the scenario of if she ever does cheat we will be marriage partners and friends but not lovers. We have our 4th marriage counseling session tomorrow and I am going to try and express my feelings about her behavior as something that harms my trust and feelings in the relationship and not as a behavior she has I find unacceptable. Perhaps I've been clumsy in expressing it to her and it came off as an accusation that made her defensive.
If it doesn't work immediately I'll keep trying different suggestions or ways to have it understood until she hears me, I change, or our marriage completely breaks down. I still feel it's worth fighting for.