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Birth Date: 1983-04-27
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Date: October 21, 2022
OP is stringing herself along. He was clear that he didn't want to marry her and she keeps expecting him to propose for some reason.
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Sitting alone in McDonalds and I am tired. Let me walk you through the events of the morning, my boyfriend and I have been together for a rocky year. Today is a beautiful day and we planned to take a bus to a nearby town to spend the day and enjoy the rare good weather.
We met at the bus station and found that the bus we were meant to take wasn't running today and we would have 2 hours to spare. He said “Okay shthead let's go for coffee”, I told him not to call me a shithead and this has been a conversation every 2 weeks since we've been together. He calls me a “term of endearment” such as whrebag, slt, shthead, f**ker etc. And I ask him to not call me those names, that I don't find it endearing. He says I'm too sensitive. But paired with his nasty jokes, name calling and general reluctance to say nice things to me I find this really naked to put up with.
I accused him of crossing my boundaries and brushed me off, we kept walking and I soon realised that I was I'm fact walking alone and that he had stopped further behind. I rang and texted him, he ignored my calls and finally I got a text to tell me he was gone home. When I tell you some version of this happens every few weeks. I am tired. I know this man is not for me but I'm afraid to let him go and never find someone I like so much again. But I can't put up with this shit and crossing such a simple boundary as “please don't call me bad names” is such a red flag for current and future terrible behaviour.
Please reddit give me some courage to leave this man 🙁
“I kinda make my boyfriend to text him why I am not invited”
Case Closed in favour of your boyfriend
Just because he didn’t make contact doesn’t mean he’s not violent. If he took a gun and pointed it at you, you wouldn’t think he’s innocent just because he didn’t pull the trigger. This is no different. He’s trying to condition you to feel bad about defending yourself so that you’ll feel too guilty and ashamed to get help when you need it, because you’ll feel like you don’t deserve it.
None of this abuse is your fault. It doesn’t matter what you did or think you did or what he claims you did. If he didn’t like it, he could leave. You do not deserve abuse, and I really hope you get out safely soon.
Zombie relationship. Get out.