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Her telling you shes worried after no reply is a manipulation tactic. I would just send a “hey after some thought this isn’t going to work out for me, us continuing to connect will only hurt us, wish you the best but I need to focus on healing myself and moving on” block her and if she tries to contact you tell her she is being disrespectful by not honouring your boundaries or just don’t respond
And what if she’s not comfortable inviting you to her house right away? Especially if you feel like strangers and she’s fresh out of a long term relationship. Maybe consider her comfort and ability to relax as well instead of trying to coerce her into inviting you.
“Your sister may be pretty in a magazine type of way, but you see that everywhere, and it's incredibly boring in a cookie cutter way to me. I much prefer your beauty and the fact that you have an absolutely incredible inside. Your sister made magazines, but that's all she is, and why she keeps trying to take what's yours. Your sister is insecure because 100% of her worth is entirely made up of what people today find beautiful, and that will fade as she ages. She knows she has no other qualities, and she knows you have the whole package, and she tears you down so you don't see it, because she needs to feel superior in some way.
I think that is unnecessarily harsh. OP is 19 and learning to navigate as an adult. Also, some men can get very scary, very quickly when being told 'no.' This guy has already shown that he doesn't respect the word no, so she wants to tread carefully. Especially since they go to the same school and share mutual friends. A block is not going to protect her in person. I can understand her hesitancy to escalate what could be a messy social situation and make a shitty person upset with her.
The D pics were unasked for and appear to be a manipulation tactic. Since he is now pressuring her to reciprocate.
OP is a teenager in an uncomfortable position and asked for help and advice. That doesn't make her stupid. It shouldn't be an invitation for harsh criticism and shame.
I agree. In no world does that even seem reasonable. She’s claimed she hasn’t been sleeping well the last few nights so we’ve slept in separate beds. Which would explain why she’s been tired.
Sounds like he’s cheating on you with someone who is 19. He’s emotionally, mentally and verbally abusive, LEAVE HIM. You’re not old at all and there’s no expiration date to do anything.
Her telling you shes worried after no reply is a manipulation tactic. I would just send a “hey after some thought this isn’t going to work out for me, us continuing to connect will only hurt us, wish you the best but I need to focus on healing myself and moving on” block her and if she tries to contact you tell her she is being disrespectful by not honouring your boundaries or just don’t respond
Best of luck!
I left the story. Idk why she added me because we dont talk and she knows we aint together but what she does ain’t my problem
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And what if she’s not comfortable inviting you to her house right away? Especially if you feel like strangers and she’s fresh out of a long term relationship. Maybe consider her comfort and ability to relax as well instead of trying to coerce her into inviting you.
I wondered about the projecting too…
“Your sister may be pretty in a magazine type of way, but you see that everywhere, and it's incredibly boring in a cookie cutter way to me. I much prefer your beauty and the fact that you have an absolutely incredible inside. Your sister made magazines, but that's all she is, and why she keeps trying to take what's yours. Your sister is insecure because 100% of her worth is entirely made up of what people today find beautiful, and that will fade as she ages. She knows she has no other qualities, and she knows you have the whole package, and she tears you down so you don't see it, because she needs to feel superior in some way.
She's still thinking about her ex 5 years later… She always will So he needs to leave her
Maybe she needs a probiotic tablet? Her stomach might be unbalanced
I think that is unnecessarily harsh. OP is 19 and learning to navigate as an adult. Also, some men can get very scary, very quickly when being told 'no.' This guy has already shown that he doesn't respect the word no, so she wants to tread carefully. Especially since they go to the same school and share mutual friends. A block is not going to protect her in person. I can understand her hesitancy to escalate what could be a messy social situation and make a shitty person upset with her.
The D pics were unasked for and appear to be a manipulation tactic. Since he is now pressuring her to reciprocate.
OP is a teenager in an uncomfortable position and asked for help and advice. That doesn't make her stupid. It shouldn't be an invitation for harsh criticism and shame.
Also..are you a man?
I agree. In no world does that even seem reasonable. She’s claimed she hasn’t been sleeping well the last few nights so we’ve slept in separate beds. Which would explain why she’s been tired.
Sounds like he’s cheating on you with someone who is 19. He’s emotionally, mentally and verbally abusive, LEAVE HIM. You’re not old at all and there’s no expiration date to do anything.