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It is NEVER a good idea to become a stay at home mom because the dude wants you to. NEVER. Why any woman would make herself dependent on a man in this day and age I will never understand, ever.
Yeah that’s all well and good after like a year or so maybe and having in-person meetings, but it’s only been two months on an essentially on-line conversation. It’s a nah for me.
If she's known you since she was an adult while you were just becoming a teenager, I hate to say this, but your woman is a predator.
Nobody at 19 can be at all expected to know when or if they'll be married, have kids, or stay in their religion. All of these feelings can and will change significantly over time.
It is NOT a good idea to stay in contact with this person. There is a power dynamic you clearly aren't able to see due to your emotional investment and comparative lack of experience, but it's there. Wait until you're 24 and then think about what kind of person dates a literal child.
I’m dead with this. That is WORSE than him trying to shove it in your face somehow
Did you read the post at all?
You will regret it, but you'll only realize it once you experience more relationships. It sounds like you've been dating for 2 years already. The pro sides of your girlfriend: attractive, intelligent, ambitious, sweet and you have a great sex life. Cons: she wants to communicate during the day, since you only see each other that sparsely. This is a completely normal behavior. It's called being present without being physically present.
You mention she nitpicks and points out you can never do things right. What are those things? Is it that she is being unreasonable or you are extrapolating her comments to make you feel less guilty of things you might not be doing?
You even said yourself majority of the times things are great, but you just wonder if another girl would be better -> which from the sounds of it means someone who is willing to be a part-time partner who only communicates when you want to and doesn't “ruin” your vibe.
You are still young, and you'll learn that you had something great later down the road. It will just be another of the many lessons we all learn in our lives.
You have good judgement to think he may be grooming you. I’d distance myself from him if that is how I felt
i'm so so disappointed. his friend is in a very serious condition yet he's being so cold to him
Honestly I totally get it. I used to really like anime when I was younger until
If he is awake and consciously kicking you, then fuck yes you leave. That's abusive.
Yes, as long as it doesn't affect you, who cares? right?
Can he disappointed he was looking forward to birthday sex and didn’t get it?
Sure
Should he be understanding of the circumstances and that just because you agree to it a year ago you were not obligated to do it?
Absolutely
Should he still be caring about it two months later?
Very no
Sometimes you agree to sex and then later when the appointed time comes you are too tired or just not feeling it
It’s happens
You might not like it in the moment, but you get over it quick and just move on
The fact he didn’t is telling, and not in a good way ?
I feel like I really messed up
Well you didn’t, so no need to be feeling that
But I guess really think if you want to be with someone long term who would “rethink the relationship” because he didn’t get sex when he wanted it
And
we have only said “i love you” once in our relationship and he was drunk. I dont think he remembers
In 6 years?
Why would you be ok with that…
I have recently said it as a reminder to him of how much i care about him but he did not say it back
Just wow
If you were some teens just starting out in a relationship, maybe that would fly
But you’re grown adults in a 6 year long relationship
There’s no way that’s acceptable ?
You pressured him into sending a picture he did not want to send – this is unacceptable.
it’s not his. contact police and don’t let him have the ring.
If you're in a happy, solid relationship, you shouldn't care about someone else's feelings for you.
Does she want you to get a new dick too?
Anyone can walk into a police station and make claims against anyone.
Where are his bruises? Dud he go to hospital to ne checked by doctors? Were there witnesses to this “assault?”
Come on.
Even if he was that crazy to go try say you harmed him, who will believe him??
Just say you threatened him to break up and he left angry, so everything he says is a lie. Lol
It's time to leave. You are dragging him around. He doesn't have to stop when you let him being like that. Kick him to the curb and let him stay there. He is not a sad puppy shivering in the cold, he is a grown ass man mooching from woman he doesn't love as much as he loves drugs.
Because he used his brain.
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It’s his family that we’re living with. He can’t game in any other room because it would ironically wake the other family members up.
I recently did a very short stint as acting treasurer for a non profit, and I think there is a principal that applies equally to relationships: “It is not enough to be honest and moral. You must also be verifiably so.”
In the context of finance, this means that there are well documented receipts and invoices for everything, signed off by appropriate individuals, and filed as neatly as possible for the purpose of auditing. In the context of a relationship this means we never get to demand trust. Instead, a good partner will act in a way that is trustworthy, so that trust is a non issue. Each side demonstrate through their actions that their partner's comfort it important to them.
Regardless of whether you are actually trustworthy, you are acting in a way that strongly suggests that you are not. As an outsider only working off your description of the situation, it sounds to me like you are deliberately deceiving yourself and are mad that your BF isn't buying it. Even if you aren't consciously intending on cheating, you are making it abundantly clear that his comfort is not a priority to you.
The cynical part of my mind would suggest that on some subconscious level you know exactly what you are doing, and this is about control in your current relationship as much as testing the waters to find a new partner.
How much of it was in his phone? Was it a lot in his search history?? If it was then the simple explanation for that is he's looking at gay porn.
You're 26 do what you want ?
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Thanks. I am really into this guy so I'm probably thinking way too much. If he wasn't such a nickname-giver I might not have wondered this, Lol.
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It's three years in, and she's exploring her options. I recommend that you do the same. She doesn't seem all that attached to you.
Why go on a break for 2 months?? Break it off permanently. This much drama early on means it's doomed. Setting with multiple women and offering money and you're the one that needs counseling? I mean you do since it sounds liek you have trauma which more than likely make you attract these toxic AH. Guys like him can smell vulnerable codependent people like you from a mile away. They lovebomb and are the perfect partner until they've got you hooked and then the cracks start to show. Break up with him, stay single and continue therapy. Take this from a former codependent pleaser. And do so now and don't wait until your 40s like I did
Why does he feel the need to loom at topless women when he is in a relationship? To me it's a deal breaker.
Of course you should cancel it. Good luck with the divorce, get the best lawyer you can because it sounds like you'll need an absolute bulldog.
this is genuine porn brain rot. you’ve never had a girlfriend before and yet you’re jumping straight to kinks? Maybe just try having regular sex first.
I mean…
This man is to provide and care for a child for the foreseeable future.. He is going to form a lasting connection with this person and dedicate his life to raising him/her.
Every man should be able to ask for whatever reassurance they need before making a life long commitment like that regardless of the reasoning behind it.
Your ego really isn't a higher priority than that.
Four fucking months? Jesus just leave
So she refuses to ACTUALLY take care of her problem and see a professional and instead intends on using you as a stop gap measure for how long? The rest of your life? Really? You haven’t been dating her long enough to be that attached. Break up and move on.
I don’t think it’s that easy to change people’s minds. You have one set of beliefs and he has another. Probably he is as dedicated to his beliefs as you are to yours so why would you expect him to change.
Actually ain the story I’m more concerned about the fact that you’re 23 have no car, no money and seem to be completely dependent on your boyfriend. I think you should be developing yourself, develop in your career and develop in your life rather than dependent be on a man.
It’s definitely possible to have a successful marriage with somebody who has different political views I think of that may Mary Matalin and James Carville for example. I guess you just don’t talk about those issues where you don’t have agreement.
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Not. She developed feelings for a coworker, not have an EA. Two massively different things. She attacked the problem correctly and he is punishing her for it. A lot of people develop feelings for other people. It's how you act upon it that matters and she did what you are supposed to do. At this point, she probably should of did everything she has except tell him. If I'm her, I now would consider making this break permanent if this is how he deals with honest communication.
I appreciate your insight. I just feel hurt but I also want to see it from his side.
If previous sexual experiences come up randomly/organically in conversation and you have a fit, then you're being insecure, yes. If, as in this case, your SO is weaponizing previous sexual experiences in order to antagonize you or create insecurity, then you're having a normal reaction to being intentionally fucked with.
You're young enough and the relationship is new enough you're best served by immediately moving on. Practice boundary setting/holding with a new partner who isn't trying to perpetually get a rise out of you.
There’s nothing that can be done to make me comfortable about going hence why I’m not. I just need advice on what to tell her so she’ll leave me alone about it.
You’re being very immature and making an ass out of yourself. She’s with YOU, she’s trying to bring YOU to an important event for her friend, that’s pretty indicative of you being important to her. What are you so worried will happen if you’re in the same room as this guy? He’s literally just some guy who doesn’t matter anymore, so much in fact that she doesn’t think twice before bringing you in front of him. Apologize to your girlfriend, admit you’re just feeling insecure, and go to the wedding.
I feel worst for kid 1,2,3… there will be no time or money. Their free time will be babysitting.
Worst off i hope they get scholarships. We were shuffled through like cattle until graduation and then left with. “Well what now?” College?
if he won’t tLk about it, something fishy. i said go on an break to figure it out and talk to the girls
How do you think that someone whose feelings and boundaries are being clearly booted aside and ignored, could not possibly feel jealous? And resentful and insecure.
Those are three different emotions and he's feeling one and a half of them.
So why is jealousy such a tabboo emotion here?
It's not taboo. It's just not accurate. It's not what he's actually feeling.
Whether its jealousy, resentment, insecurities (or some combination of all), the guy feels *ty because he's being treated *tily by both parties. Its MUCH easier for him to direct his resentment towards the issued husband, but the GF is just as much to blame.
He knows that. But the feelings to each are different as well as the way they're treating him is different.
In fact, the GF is almost entirely to blame, because if she really cared about this guy then she wouldn't be treating her husbands behaviour like it was practically a non-issue.
And yet if the husband wasn't snooping the GF wouldn't have anything be wrong about, so that instantly negates the concept of her being 'almost entirely' to blame.
She's part of it, for sure. But this is a three-person relationship and so it's a three-person problem.
Geez I would choose my sister here. Listen your sister needs help getting away from a relationship. If it were me I would be dropping anything to get my sibling if it meant them safely leaving a bad situation.
Have another convo with your gf. Stress the importance of helping your sister in an emergency. If she cannot understand that then she’s not the one for you.
That depends on if you're genuinely asking or if you're trolling. I'm happy to discuss if you're actually looking for advice and not just to argue.
Nah. If I’m paying for someone I want what is owed. I don’t want anyone expecting me to pay for them, or to round down, or just guesstimate costs. That’s how ppl get taken advantage of. In a relationship you guys just need to find a compromise where both needs are met. He is def no am AH for doing this, but your way is not wrong either.
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This is what I thought – that the conversation was a breakup designed to let OP down easy.
Honestly, OP, cut your losses and break up. He's been lying to you about his sexuality. He's been cheating on you. After 8 years together, a relationship worth keeping is one that's unquestionably solid, not collapsing all around you.
It's an unfortunate fact of life that people experience immense growth in their early 20s. If you're dating a high school sweetheart and get incredibly lucky, you both grow together. Most of the time, you grow apart. That's what it sounds like is happening here.
This guy is not the only person who's ever going to love you. This is not “as good as it gets” in terms of a relationship. You deserve better — start believing it and stop wasting your time on someone who doesn't have the emotional intelligence or maturity to behave like a real partner to you. Your boyfriend may really love you, but he is not at this time capable of treating you (or probably anyone, to be honest) the way you deserve in a romantic relationship.
Don't fall prey to the sunk-cost fallacy that since you've been dating for 8 years, you have to make this work. You don't. The sooner you stop throwing good money after bad, as it were, the sooner you can start to heal and realize your worth.
Good luck and take care.
Lawyer, police and contact your workplace.
Your girlfriend is dumb as dirt, sorry.
i should’ve put this in the post but i did get my permit recently and have been getting some time on the road in.
If she isn’t willing to stop seeing them then she clearly doesn’t think the relationship is as beautiful and great as you do.
Hey, when I finish it, you’ll be the first to receive a copy, dspiral
You should, it'll make you feel better.
Sexual compatibility is important in a relationship, you don't have it. Dont have much else to say.
You didn’t just kiss another person, twice. You put yourself in a situation to be able to kiss a person, twice. That’s a choice, not a mistake. Get your drinking under control and make good choices in the future by not putting yourself in situations that will ruin your family. He isn’t dwelling on it because he doesn’t want to think about it. You have a man willing to give you a second chance when most would have dropped you so don’t blow it.
This is the exact plot to the book, The Last Mrs. Parrish
About getting an uber home at 330 am when she was going to someone home
It sounds as if you have different goals in life and different ideas of how to be happy. The gaming ids made to sound as if there is very little time for you. I think in truth you have outgrown each other and you’ve come to a parting of the ways. You are unhappy and trying to make him fit into a mould that he doesn’t want to fit.
DON’T get married. Do you really want to be reminded every few days that he’d rather be with another woman? Where is your pride? Your self worth? He talks about her a lot . A LOT. If it was you going on about a past lover do you think he’d stay? No. Don’t be the third person in your own damn marriage.
Let's throw the analogy out of the window and talk simply for a second. No doctor is going to give a healthy 20 year old a vasectomy, it would have to be crazy circumstances to have them give it the okay.
Make foreplay satisfactory before you allow him in. He must get the sheets wet to earn entry. I put my wife first, and eat dessert like it's the first time in my life everytime. Love it. Tell him to stop being selfish if it needs to be blunt. In your own nice words,,, or you need to make him cum prior, with alternative media, To make him last longer inside.
Is he paying for it???
Dating is going to be tough for you if you can't handle your partner ever interacting with men.
This is more about your self esteem than his bank account. It might be good to focus on deriving a sense of worth outside of your spending habits and not comparing yourself to others. There is more to offer someone than finances.
If the only thing stopping her hurting herself is you destroying yourself in this relationship then really all you are doing is delaying the inevitable. Drowning yourself to keep her afloat ends the same in the end, she drowns all the same.
All you can do is end it then contact her parents, friends, even the police and put them on suicide watch. If she does anything that is out of your hands and the hope is that she will get the help she needs.
But this pattern you're stuck in helps nobody. She is only getting weaker and more confident of the power of aggression and abuse and you are losing what little hope and willpower you have left. Time to make the nude choice.
Read the title and thought it was about him getting midnight snacks and waking you up when he got out of bed. Then read the post. Good lord.
That’s a very good point I hadn’t considered! He sounded so flustered when the message popped up and just came out with that.
I get your point , but if you see it from my perspective i don't have high hopes from people. I have craved love all my life and he gave me that . Its nude to leave things like this even tho ik its going to get wrong . I don't come from a place where i can openely accept my sexuality now as i am not financially independent , makes all of this much harder.
You literally babied and took care of her for two days and offered to help her on the third. It's a cold… what would she be like if she was seriously sick?
It doesn't sound like anything would ever be enough unless you give up every other person and activity and only rotate around her.
You did more than enough and went above and beyond. Don't let her tell you otherwise.
You shamed her for her very vanilla fantasy. How was she supposed to feel exactly? Did you tell her what you wished she had done instead? Or just say “I don’t like it when you talk about things we havnt done yet in detail”?
I don’t think telling someone you want to try something new is the same as what happened.
You have to just ignore your mom. Acknowledge that she is a rude narcissist with anger issues, and thus you shouldn't care what she thinks/says about you.
Talk to your dad. It's great that he treats your gf well but he should talk to her about it. If he can't their marriage has serious issues!
Condoms. Put yourself in control, not her.
Do yourself a favor and end things now. It will save years and years of heartache. Do not stay.
i do understand that is it neither healthy nor normal. i don’t trust him given the nature of how we started talking. i could be wrong but it doesn’t matter since he has no interest in reassuring me of anything. he usually just makes fun of me for bringing things up.
i feel he was indeed either ignoring me or punishing me which i think he’s done before. especially the ignoring.
being used like that is not a nice feeling at all. i signed up for it so i am stuck with that. running away from this part of myself won’t help either since i keep meeting guys that use me