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Sasha Silver, y.o.
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Date: October 23, 2022
Lets Explain what is out there, lies, pain, abuse, theft, a wsist of time. Getting a good relationship on your first try is rarity, nurture and blossom and fuck what is out there to learn.
Doesn't even sound like your that bad. We aren't robots. You weren't being physical. He wants to change you and have control. Screw him. You be you. Someone will love you for being strong minded.
Exactly. She a huge asshole for doing this and I’d seriously rethink the whole relationship.
For her it wasn’t the majority, usually she was so fun while drunk, but 1 in 20 times was a complete nightmare. Her bipolar disorder during the most severe times had psychotic episodes linked to them, so I think the drinking would occasionally trigger a miniature psychotic episode.
I think you touched on so much of what my wife has been feeling and has tried to express to me. Yes there is a lot of foot stomping and “I want a baby or else” sort of behavior but she has tried to genuinely express how she feels and I have tried to be receptive and understanding.
You mentioned not being able to treasure her pregnancy the first time. She has mentioned that too. She wants to experience pregnancy and not feel ashamed and like she has to hide it. She didn’t do any of the typical things that many pregnant women do, like maternity photos or even a baby shower (she refused a baby shower even though it was offered – she felt too embarrassed and didn’t want to be the center of attention for her pregnancy). None of that is a good enough reason in itself to have a baby but I know these are things she feels because she told me.
Now, if I can just manage to memorize that speech you’ve written there, it might be a start! I think you’re right about how to approach if and probably right in the nose about what her initial reaction will be. It’s so very hot to express these things so gently and clearly on the spot when she’s brought the topic up for the millionth time. I never bring up the topic so maybe it’s time that I do.
You need to explain to him that going overboard like that doesn't help you or support you, it adds to your plate. Instead of feeling taken care of, he makes you worry yourself sick about him. Is that what he wants? That isn't 'devotion' or 'sacrifice' or 'support' or whatever he thinks it is. It's self-centered and just adds to your already tremendous burden.
Do you honestly think the better option is to let him prey on 18/19 year old girls some more?
I accidentally locked my kid in the car when I took him to a PT appointment. If my husband used that against me in arguments, I’d tell him to get fucked. Parents make mistakes and you did the right thing by getting him checked out. It could have had bad consequences but it didn’t.
Wow, not for nothing but it took a whole 2 months of taking care of a mentally sick loved-one before your “fiancé” snapped, hurled insults at you, and presented the “it’s me or her” ultimatum.
You might love her, but this is a glimpse of what will happen if anything happens to you in the future. It’s like you said, you’ve been actively doing everything you can to get your sister the professional help she needs, and you don’t plan on doing this forever. You should be very concerned that your fiancé essentially ordered you to make a decision, without discussing how you both feel about things first.
Postponing a break up because of Christmas is silly. What does a day on the calendar have to do with your failed relationship?
Yeah it doesn’t make any sense, why is it in the room at all? Was the rest of the house not available? The laundry or kitchen makes the most sense
first thought is to move the cat food personally… that being said if you two have or ever plan on having kids her habits need to change… any medication taken by a child accidentally can be a VERY bad situation for you all… if she cant see that then she needs to be told so… how does she expect you two to continue and grow a life if she cannot make basic good decisions.
You're a cheater. Period. Your husband could be abusive, but you're entire post could also be seen as justification for you monkey branching to the next guy who would give you the light of day.
And if all of your friends are so supportive as you claim, you wouldn't be making this post.
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Well when you put it like that….Sheeeessssssshhhh. I've had such a hard time with communication that I've written it off as stress for the both of us on multiple occasions. I just know that everyone is dealing with things, and they handle them differently, but in doing so I've been neglecting myself in the process, which is why I'm where I'm at now. He does apologize later, usually, it's always the same excuse. Him just being upset, and not really meaning what he said, but this isn't the first time we've talked about this topic, and his reasoning for what set him off just doesn't make sense to me. I've put alot into this relationship so I wanted to do my best to salvage, but I can't salvage something that isn't there…
There will be drinking and dancing at the wedding and if you aren’t there because you are being a child and having a tantrum, expect her to hook up with her ex-hook up. If their sex was meaningless in the past, it will be meaningless now. You’ve only been dating her six months and this will give her the perfect opportunity to see what her life is like without you. If you can show her you aren’t jealous and realize people can be friends with their exes, you have a chance at a long relationship. Otherwise know that you are going to be another ex but not one that she will stay friends with.
Remember the placebo affect is a real thing, what you think you deserve (etc) is usually what you will attract. Switch up your thinking from “I'm doomed at 27” to “things are always working out for me.” And yeah dick will do that to ya, the thing is men are teachable creatures, you can teach the next guy and use him just the same.
It's ok op, don't give up on love. It's just around the corner! But for now maybe you should focus on yourself outside of situationships!
We have a family friend who went through a psychotic break. It took heroic efforts on the part of her adult children to get her the help she needed. She is so grateful now she is back to being herself. She feels guilty for the 2 years she caused pain to her loved ones while she was untreated. I honor her courage. She is a great person and her children are grateful she is back. They were definitely traumatized by her psychotic actions- but they love her and only want her to be healthy and happy. I appreciate she is honest about her regrets- but she is a good person and we love her so much. It’s reassuring that you take responsibility for your actions and own what you did. That’s the most important step. With that you have the ability to make things better in the future with serious attention to maintaining your mental health. It seems like you might benefit from a support group of others coping with similar issues? You could ask your therapist if they know of any in your area. I’m wishing you patience and compassion for yourself and your loved ones.
thats not a red flag, but it is a sign of potential incompatibility. Try and hang out in person more often? I hate texting so I tend to be more like him, but once you online with a partner it doesnt matter.
Weird. My friends with relationship trauma literally fan girl my marriage as their favourite healthy relationship to hopefully one day model. Your friend is being weird.
Use your therapist to help you find the language you need to broach the idea of separation and divorce. Seek a divorce attorney and make sure to shore up your assets and move them to a different bank if necessary.
Make an exit plan. Pack a bag. Have a place to go. Ask for help from your family and friends.
I wish you the best of luck. Don’t lose hope. Stay focused on your goal of getting out and then take a breath and keep moving.
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You need to give him a set deadline to move out and stick to it instead of just encouraging him to look for apartments. Give him 30 days or something, but there has to be a deadline, and if he doesn’t meet it, draft an eviction letter.
Damn, you bring up a lot of good points. I think the best decision is just to talk to E at this point from what you are saying. Reflecting back on myself another reason why I am against it is because then it would feel like I didn’t do it myself, but that is idiotic, since you should always use all of your available resources.
Also to clear some things up, I definitely want to stay friends with both of them. I think maybe at the very beginning I thought I could use E to get to G, but I now genuinely enjoy Es company so it’s not like that anymore.
We dated for 2 years. We were married shortly after the 2nd year.
You'd be surprised with cat owners, I'm a cat person myself but my partner is on another level having hand raised his cat, he insists on leaving his door open a jar for his girl despite his mother being under the same roof and his room being right in front of the kitchen area (main highway right past his door essentially)
I feel like he already posted this on the AITA sub weeks ago and everyone said the same thing.
Great! You know where to drop her off then.
I see your point and how it could be interpreted that way. That’s not what I meant by “fun”. Damn she probably thought the same thing too
Run. This is over the top.
Bro what????? 3 years “together” and 3 breakups during that time? Mannnn, gtfo of that relationship. My brother in Christ, pull your head out of her ass because you have it shoved so far up in there you can’t even see that this is shit.
I read your edit and am glad you cut losses, but dude, DO NOT go back to that. Like ever. At all. Idgaf what she says, “I’ve changed”, “i love you”, “blah blah blah”, fuck that. On to greener pastures my dude
Also block her everywhere so she always wonders what could’ve been because fuck that girl
You’ve given him enough time to decide if he wants to marry or not. At this point I’d advise you to move on if a proposal and marriage are important to you.