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Date: October 23, 2022
Dgdex, 22 y.o.
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I know what I want to do, which is teaching. I was supposed to be starting a PGCE (teacher training) but couldn't find a place to live! in the area of the university.
I currently tutor English national curriculum on the weekends and pick up English second language teaching during the week. (I have a TEFL qualification)
Do you know of any career counselling services in the UK. I've only ever had one in college and another in university and they basically amounted to “do this quiz and find out what job you should do!”
NVM, there’s a mod post that reposts the content. TY!
Everything you mentioned, you need to mention to her. Talk about it and tell her why it's important to you.
At the end of the day, people will continue doing things they love and no one can truly change that but themselves. If my current relationship has taught me anything, people will change or be willing to do something for someone they love if they want to. It's all about effort and love. If they love you enough, the effort will be there.
Talk to her. Get her to talk about why she's so worried about doing these things with you “properly”, and see where it goes. If not, you're better off finding an outdoorsy/experience person like yourself.
Pls read the update. Feel as though my intuition is valid here. Lol
Op, I agree with the others. What you described is a very common for of sexual assault. He 100% new what he was doing and exploided your vulnerable position.
You might want to keep what you were wearing unwashed in a box, there might be evidence on it like sperm – just in case you need it or decide later on that you do want to press charges.
You might also want to consider getting professional help, aka mental health counselor or a psychologist. You might have one in school.
Honestly, probably not, I saw things like him bringing me home tea bags and doing the dishes as a sign of affection, but there wasn't any kind of romantic affection, not even sitting on the sofa together to watch films (he'd sit at his computer all night or sit next to me scrolling through his phone)
Yeah, we have a two year old and he's genuinely a great dad so I won't to keep open communication, but it's making it naked.
I think random stranger advice always leans too heavily on “just break up.”
Instead the focus should be on everything you try before that point. Everyone already knows breaking up is the final option already so you aren't saying anything new.
So if the question is literally asking for those better tactics, a response of “you could just break up” doesn't bring much to the table.
Frankly a very real possibility here is that she doesn't 'get' that it upsets him as much as it actually does, and so in a sense she's unaware of the problem's true severity. And that's a communication issue, and communication and conflict resolution techniques can help.
It's only after you exhaust all your options to try to heal the relationship that you should be asking the “do I stay or do I go” questions.
This is divorce worthy. No going back from this
Have the friend do it and let your sister know she’s starting to be into you
He hates the idea of letting others down or having them be disappointed in him.
I hate people coming to work sick. It’s so awkward avoiding them. I’m not trying to be mean, but his niceness seems to be driven by anxiety and fear of failure rather than care for other people. He shouldn’t be at work sick if he genuinely cares about other people and being anxious about letting people down is a burden he has to handle if he wants to keep people safe.
You are allowed to feel distrustful because well he kept information from you. That they are coming over to work out for example. How long has he decided not to tell you? What else has he not told you? Like does he meet a buddy for coffee for past 10 years you didn’t know about? It just keeping information from you assuming you will be a bad guy about it so yes you can feel hurt too. Because he doesn’t f trust you to tell you simple things in his life if who is in your home with your children. It like you don’t matter in his home bubble.
Good luck
Not anymore but she did continue to talk to him initially
Closure simply means putting your past behind you and moving on with life. Your ex can (and should) do that by himself.
Is meeting your ex worth risking the happiness of your marriage?
Yes, if he was yelling so often it got you evicted? Christ girl. Also, if he is going to dump you because he is so insecure? Yikes. Super red flags.
Then let me ask a different question- how do I stop caring?
You likely need to somehow arrange it in your head, that your husband’s behaviour is not a sign that he loves you any less. I’d likely find a therapist for that part, because I would really struggle there.
How do i make myself important and not depend on him for my happiness?
Find your own hobbies. If you want to visit a friend, do so. If you want a holiday, go without him. He has made this decision for him, but he can’t control you into it. It will mean you will distance yourself from him, but that seems to be the only way.
How do I focus on myself while he is busy focusing on his mother?
Do you have a hobby you always wanted to explore? A course you’ve been wanting to take? Something you enjoy, but he doesn’t, meaning you usually don’t do it? Make sure you have boundaries, such as your own, MIL-free space. Get in closer contact with friends. Do whatever you need to do, to feel good.
???RUN
You don't have a choice. Would you really want to live! the rest of your life as a lie if this guy turns out to be The One! Even if the brother managed to keep it quiet? Tell him immediately.
Even if he just broke up because he wasn't over his ex then…
OP has been second best once. I wouldn't want a second try at being dumped.
Sweet words = love bombing. Watch that manipulative tactics up!
No way. Don't.
Please run fast and call police and have them write down as much information.
Thanks – I was under the impression that it was slightly more commonplace.
You need therapy, you’re that jealous and insecure that you’ve banned him from talking in a group chat and hanging out with his friends… simply because he dared like someone before you…. She isn’t his ex, she’s a friend, he’s dating you-not her, he slept with you-not her…
Then why ask if Im joking if you agree with me? Just to be a douchebag? I guess I didn't follow the rules of posting, my apologies. Please don't report me to the internet police. I promise next time I will do your way. Thank you for sparing me. You really are a hero.
What kind of pictures are they? Framed? Social media? On his phone?