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If you still live! with them, yes.
Push and pull, push and pull… And you still tug along.
She should make up her on mind. There is nothing you can do about it. Return the gift, its way to expensive for the time you are dating here and especially the way she treats you.
Honestly I think you’re the problem.
Spot on. Dude is obsessive in his need to know what his GF is doing at every moment of every day. Get a fuckin' hobby OP and leave your GF alone when she is doing shit. Jfc she's a grown woman
I feel like it’s more likely he was expecting op to cheat cause he’s actually doing it, otherwise why would a guy in a 3y relationship with no indication of cheating ready to marry that woman be so easy to persuade and to call off the marriage? Like op has said she has more guy friends and the dude had no problem so I highly doubt he’s that insecure outta nowhere
Hi I am 25F here, think I can be of some help. You and I seem to be very similar, and I have experienced this issue several times in my romantic relationships. The deal here is simple, she is trying to force compatibility out of fear of losing you, you want to leave because you know in your heart she is not the one, but you stay because of guilt. A solid relationship cannot never be built on fear and guilt.
She is going to be hurt either way, either she stays with you, someone who doesn't see a future with her and really just wants out, or you break up with her and she is going to feel hurt for a while. Either way you can't prevent her from being hurt, either way her feelings are not your responsibility, either way you should do whats best for you. She will be grateful in hindsight as it will give her the opportunity to meet someone she is more aligned with.
You are so young. Why force compatibility with someone out of pity, when you could go out there and find someone who you really click with? No point holding eachother hostage in an unhappy relationship out of comfort, when there is someone else who is waiting for someone just like you? and just like her?
I know it's scary, you don't want to hurt someone you love! I personally think ending things would be the most loving thing to do. Sometimes we just need to accept that things aren't working, you can spend your whole life trying to fit a triangle shaped block into a square hole, or you could just find yourself a square block 🙂
Don't let fear hold you back. Cut the shit & end it.
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Get Benadryl in the blister pack. Or a daily pill box.
Good question, I threw that in to make sure it was known I was uncomfortable with the idea for reasons other than if she was like a 1. If I were single 5/6 is something I wouldn’t turn my nose up at. Even if she was a wicked 10 I would still be uncomfortable.
I mean what did you think would happen when you hooked up with someone whose brain STILL isn't finished developing? You were older when you got together than he still is today.
People need to stop acting surprised when their partners do things that are developmentally on track with how their relationship started. Your partner that's significantly younger than you is going to act significantly younger than you, no matter how old they turn during the relationship. A part of them is stunted at when that relationship began.
He lied by omission, that's a big problem. He cheated, and that was the demise of his relationship. He messed up, real bad.
Well, it's not like OP appears to be quite the catch neither by going behind his back to ask the ex wife for the apartment back and ending up opening an enormous can of worms.
You’re right, thank you. I’ve got to work on myself for getting upset about these things
When you feel like you want a divorce, it’s best to just prepare for the inevitable and stop trying to fix things. Move on and away from these crazy ass people
someone who has been there
Oh, I feel that pain
This is exactly it! Don’t send the letter OP.
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I honestly have trouble believing that he doesn't understand. You say you've explained it multiple times. I think the real question you're asking is: how do I get him to CARE about the impact this is having on me?”
This would break my fucking heart. There's nothing worse in my book than saying to someone you love, “I'm hurting, I'm drowning, I need you,” and getting nothing. I'm so sorry that you're in this situation.
The article “She Divorced Me Because I Left Dishes By the Sink is written by a man who was once like your husband, maybe he might have a better shot at getting through. If he asks if you're threatening to divorce him, don't make ultimatums you're not ready to follow through on. He won't take anything you say after that seriously if you do.
You deserve better, OP. Hugs.
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Therapy isn’t needed just because someone has feelings you don’t agree with.
She needs the therapy because she's pressuring him and doing so because of her own insecurities… so agreement is irrelevant my point still stands
Thank you. I wish more people had the balls to say this.
You need to have a really long think. Really think about….
The story is that she had been texting with an ex, telling him how much she loved him and how he is her life and how thankful she is for him.
Then, after you are done thinking. You need to have a conversation with her. Are you willing to work through this? I don't know, only you can really answer that.
Think, have a conversation, and then make a decision.
Good job! Kick ‘em to the curb if they just want to use you.
First part—duh, she’s the problem. Of course someone would still be with a partner if they didn’t ruin the relationship. Then came the part where bf is obsessed with ex and constantly brings her up every couple days—OOH, bf is the bigger problem for sure.
OP asked the wrong question, I think she wants to ask him if bf wishes he was still with his ex and it if op’s observation is right, bf totally wishes he was with ex.
OP needs to delay the wedding and they need to stop being fiancés. The bf needs therapy and figure out if he’s actually invested in this new relationship and if he’s willing to let go of the past.
Having been in her position…just end it tactfully. Make it about your shortcomings not being good enough for her.
My ex tried skirting around the issue, but I knew. His behaviour when we were together, when he touched something he didn't like, and finally catching him screwing his face up when looking at me, where I could see him in a mirror behind me, let me know the real reason. He was a terrible liar.
Also: Don't contact her later, suggesting FWB until you, “find someone better”; and absolutely do not send her a list of things “wrong” with her body, that you believe she should “fix” before getting very hot in front of anyone else in the future – even if you think it will allow her to “avoid embarrassment”. I guarantee you she will not appreciate the sentiment.
Just want to say I sympathize and hope things work out for you. If my wife ever asked for this I would end the relationship, but I'm not telling you to do that – feel things out for yourself and see where it goes in time. Maybe some other folks who have been through this type of request from a spouse will have more insight. Best wishes.
So basically, this roommate is just telling other people in her life that you're a psycho?
If it were me I'd just ignore it. People can probably tell that she's not particularly with it and will see that you're sane when they meet you. Don't give crazy people energy.