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M , y tongue can do better job of teasing you than my words can. #asian #squirt #young #shy [371 tokens remaining]
Date: October 23, 2022
M , y tongue can do better job of teasing you than my words can. #asian #squirt #young #shy [371 tokens remaining]
Are you in close enough proximity to meet up for lunch and/ visit his office? Kinda make your presence known?
Yeah then probably sex, you cheated before that though. It wasn't rape you chose to drink and be alone with the guy you knew you were close with. Did he know you were? You should tell your bf and see what he does. Or you can prolong it and let it blow up in the future and live! with the guilt in the meantime. Definitely don't get married and have kids and then let him find out. Next relationship don't get drunk at parties on your own. Also, here you are drinking again, I see a pattern.
Probably, but to be honest it is concerning he would talk to anyone in that way, so even if that is the case, it’s not encouraging. How people handle conflict is far more important than how they deal with being in a good place.
You can be in a committed relationship and not live! in the same home. Until you and the BF can afford to online on your own each of you can live with your respective parents or other relatives. Think of military couples for instance.
It's honestly none of her business. You're an adult now, and your relationship is YOUR business. Keep her in the dark from here on out.
Or the sister and the ex are friends and she offered her a place to stay.
It could be since you didn't tell him why he just felt like he couldn't do anything to help. And if you told him you blocked him or that's its over when you blocked him he could be feeling really upset/ sad and just might not want to talk now. I mean I agree he should of been more attentive when you said that but you are basically telling him the relationship is over because of that, he may be taking that as already a done thing or he is trying to figure out how to approach you to reconcile.
Nta. It’s reasonable to feel this way.
It's illegal to provide a firearm for someone who's not supposed to have one, people have been charged for this.
In many states OP could get both of them into trouble just for owning one while cohabitating with a felon. Even in more permissive areas she'd still be obligated to prevent him from accessing it i.e. storing it in a safe that he doesn't know the combination to. This entire situation is playing with fire.
Dating is expensive and should be reciprocal. That said, you are t obligated to take your girlfriend to high end restaurants for every special occasion. It should be perfectly fine to either take her to a mid-range restaurant or cook her a meal at home or get take out.
Where does she take you for your birthday?
I think it’s fine if you’re honest with her that you feel things are unbalanced. If she wants to take turns paying, that’s fine but that means she gets to pay for the $400 Valentine’s Day dinner if you pick up Subway.
Report via multiple written statements to HR. Immediately.
You're a damn fool, she sounds amazing
Tell your asshole husband “hell no” and start looking for a way out of this marriage.
You've been in therapy for a very short period of time. This is gonna take time. Therapy isn't an instant fix. You need to give it more than a few weeks to a month.
sounds like it.. i still believe things are not over until he decides he cant do more than that
its hilarious to drop your spouse because theyre mentally ill?
do you actually know anything about obsessive love disorder/limerence?
Also, call your bank, credit cards, scan for viruses, change EVERY password to everything.
You keep defending them in your comments. How about you start defending you dignity and your self worth. The facts are they have talked about this behind your back, He wasn’t to have sex with someone other than the one he is supposed to be in love with and your friend wants to have sex with your boyfriend. And to top it off they are both pressuring you to allow it. If your best friend was in this situation what would you tell her? You are being majorly disrespected by two people who should respect you the most. I know it hurts to think about but it is happening. You already know they will sleep together if you walk away, just think about when you are sick or busy or working and they have time alone, you will always worry that they will have sex. This is something you don’t come back from, maybe if they brought it up one time and left it when you said no, but they will eventually sleep together if they haven’t already.
“I’m not okay with this. If you want to have sex with one another then you have lost my friendship/relationship.”
To be honest, the very fact neither has stopped pushing this is hugely concerning. They want validation from you to betray you essentially.
I would personally end it with your boyfriend and take some time from your friend for now explaining you feel the situation is not appropriate.
I feel like. At some point, someone’s an adult and they need to take ownership of their own feelings. There’s resources in the world that she can reach out too to process this news that doesn’t involve his fiancé yelling at you for answering her question.
What can you do? Be there when she opens up.
I would recommend you come join us in Reddit/infertility. I was so intimidated by IVF and it turned out to be not so hard for me, both physically and emotionally. There's a range of experiences but the subreddit is a good place to lurk and ask questions. We have a that every Wednesday for newbies and you could always chime in there. We also it's the best group you never wanted to be part of.
Exactly! The telling didn’t have to happen at a party with people around but ever day OP waits it becomes a betrayal to his friend. It will of course hurt but ATLEAST she will know the truth.
And if it’s some personal open marriage thing then still. OPs friend will know that her old pal from high school is a real friend who does what’s right even if it sucks.
Just general tip: a gang bang with someone as intoxicated as they claim she was (or intoxicated at all) is just gang rape.
Wait, where is gaslighting coming in?
We had a fight a few days ago because he posted a video of him dancing with a woman in a club on his Instagram story. I asked for a break up and he said I’m selfish and that I’m not thinking about our son’s future.
Yeah I was trying to differentiate that but I caught him looking at my social media a couple of times too. & some of the nicknames he called me seemed flirtatious. We don’t work in an office so it’s not a super professional environment.
One thing you want to do is once you call it off, make sure everyone knows why. Don't be vague, be detailed like you were here. Don't leave room for him to fill it with some story.
It's very simple, you're being used. You're the safe male she doesn't really want but keeps you as a back up option incase her sexual ecounters with the men she really wants goes wrong.
Absolutely DO NOT be involved and under no circumstances sign a birth certificate for a child that isn't yours. With a mindset like hers the way it is, even if hypothetically you somehow magically became the man she really wants in her mind it would likely only be temporary until another guy that fits her ideal image shows up.
You're better off distancing yourself permanently for your own mental health.
And God forbid they split up.
I'm opposed to situations where one adult is totally financially dependent on another.
I get, extending the period of maternity leave for longer if finances aren't an issue, but with some professions, taking years out impacts your career. All too often, it's women who are affected by this.
I think he used that as that was the final straw. If she hadn’t gone through something terrible it would just be the same cycle but finally they’re both thinking bc a life altering event triggered a butterfly effect.
Do you talk about things that she likes?
Who you sleep with while single shouldn’t matter for future relationships. Sleeping with others as a way too cope with feelings isn’t the best coping mechanism as so you’ve stated it doesn’t make you feel any better. Find a better way to release your frustrations. You are free to move on and pursue other relationships but don’t pursue them just as a means to get over or wait for someone. Live! your life don’t wait on someone to return your feelings. If the time for you both ever comes then let it, but don’t dwell on something that could or couldn’t happen. Online in the now.
You know she’s gonna get railed – she’s doing you a favor
IDs showing addresses. Pictures from their wedding 10 years ago. Social media documenting through the years and more.
You need to remove the app. When asked, just say “Oh, I removed that.”
Not only did YOU CHEAT, you encouraged your friend to cheat as well. You both need to get dumped because you’re both cheaters.
I couldn't read all of this. I've been with my husband 12 years, married for 10, he's never once told someone I belong to him. What the fuck?
Why are you working to save a relationship that shouldn’t be saved?
He doesn’t respect you and your children. HE CHEATE DO YOU. You can spin this open relationship shit anyway you want it to – but it wasn’t open when he met her and got emotionally involved with her.
Get therapy and a divorce lawyer.
It's only a deal breaker if it ends the relationship when the person does it. This clearly isn't a deal breaker for you, it's just something you don't want him to do. So you need to decide if him taking a random hit off a vape once in a while is really worth ending your relationship over.
I’m not married. Is that a standard vow or did you write your own?