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Jerry (he/him) and Christian (he/him), 22 y.o.
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Date: October 23, 2022
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I know it’s over.
I can totally relate being sick and tired of these lingering thoughts and feelings, but I can assure you they will fade away with time. In german we say “time heals all wounds” and as cheesy as it might sound, it is true.
Especially once you open up again and meet somebody new. They will help you wash away these thoughts and make room for something new 🙂
Do you know how much you drank? Could you have been drugged?
Trust I had the same reaction ? but I wanted to be respectful
Okay well you’re a terribly shallow and selfish person.
9 months is too soon to be getting engaged, and if you’re this materialistic you’re just not ready for marriage in general.
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Run run run
Ok. You deserve better. Sorry king. But you do. Bail. You are young. You deserve better than this.
Some do, a vast majority don’t
You have your head on straight. Good for you!
You're in a crap situation, I'm so sorry. You are not alone, please know that.
You have options. Your husband is being very selfish. I'm sorry to ask, but does he love you? And do you love him?
This is exactly what I said! He would just be repeating what he just experienced with his ex.
He needs to leave her That's the best solution
You're being insanely dramatic over a hair straightener.
I just threw out a hairdryer, 2 old electric razors and a bottle of dog shampoo that was in my bathroom cupboard. I forgot they were even in there, and we don't even have a dog!
Maybe the dude just forgot it was there or doesn't care because it's not a big deal.
Can you please not say things like this around a bunch of sad sacks like us? ?? that is beautiful and I’m so bitter about it haha
“Either do something about being hopelessly addicted to porn or I’m leaving you”
Honestly, she's probably got a hormone disorder that makes her crazy on her periods. She needs to see a doctor
Do you want to introduce these people to your family and friends? Do you want them to say the bigoted things in front of people you love? Would the people you love respect you if they saw you tolerate this? Do you plan to have children? Is this a family you want your children raised with?
If you've already downgraded your relationship then you might as well stop wasting each other's time and move on. You're obviously not feeling it so why force things?
I’m not going to pile on you about what you said. I’m sure you feel bad enough already. I have an issue with people who pull do the type of thing your fiancé did. It’s ALWAYS after some type of major commitment. She’s allowed to change her mind but why now? Ring bought. Venue booked. Invitations sent out and vendor’s locked in. And now she drops this bomb on you that changes the course of your life. It is manipulative. You’re locked in, emotionally and financially, and she changes the dynamics in such a huge way. If she had told you within the first 6 months you may not have stayed. She knew that.
But it’s a story they can tell their grandkids!
we have had many issues throughout our relationship of me leaving it details because I don't want to justify them (things like what food I eat, what games I play etc)
…she makes you justify what FOOD you eat??
So your gf admits that you aren't meeting her needs in terms of affection and your response is to ask if she wants to break up?
If you want to keep this relationship you're going to have to find a way to compromise on her needs in a way you can handle. Romance doesnt have to be expensive.
You two also need to get better at communication. She waited a long time to bring this up to you, and your reaction was very childish. She also said some things that like you said, cant be changed, but maybe she meant she wants to see more maturity from you. Personally I'd be upset like you were, but i think you two need to talk about what she actually wants from you because it cant be for you to age 4 years.
The man is dying. Let him online
What the person below me said, MagicCarpet5846, he NEVER cared about my feelings or thoughts on anything, he didn't care if he embarrassed me out in public or humiliated me at all and when he treated me like crap in front of my brother when my brother was helping us move across states that was the final straw, once we reached our destination I made plans to leave and did so, I just finally reached rock bottom with him. Sometimes it takes far too long though to reach that point.
You could phrase the situation that out of the x-number of women you slept with she was the one you chose. If she can’t leave sleeping dogs lay, and you’ve exhausted therapy, then you may need to divorce because she’s got something mental going on that you can’t solve or fix.
Why are you ignoring the comments telling you to cut off this friend? She has literally chosen to put you and your children in danger, that is not a friend.
If you are digging through her phone, you are insecure in the relationship. She is very young and seems more concerned with having fun than being in a committed relationship. Find Someone whose values align with your own.
If you send him a picture or two of your room, it may relax his anxiety about your trips.
Nothing is wrong with the relationship.
Yes, something is wrong in the relationship. Your boyfriend is very hurt and unhappy about your unwillingness to incorporate him into your happy space of these glamping trips. He is hurt and offended that his partner of 2 years is unwilling to invite him on these trips she loves so much even a single time because apparently his very presence even once out of the twelve trips you take every year would ruin the entire thing. He is in fact so upset about it that he's brought his feelings up repeatedly, and your “huge compromise” has been inviting him on other trips (not the point) and calling him for a few minutes before bed.
You are simply not compatible. This would be a big deal to a lot of people, and that's ok. You're into it, he's not. Neither of you is necessarily wrong, just different, though I think he leans closer to the majority view on this. But who cares? I'm sure you can find a partner one day who would be 100% fine with these trips. But your current boyfriend very clearly isn't, which is in fact something wrong with your relationship.
Lol you didn't read the entire post
Sleep is a bodily function. It’s nice to have a meal together but can you only eat if your boyfriend is there?
On the account stuff. Change all the passwords, get new cards, and set up multi factor authentication that is linked to your mobile phone only. Create backup codes for if you lose your phone, and store these with your brother. The backup codes are important to be able to retain access if you lose your phone, but they will also let someone bypass the MFA which, as you online with someone who’s stolen from you, means they can’t be at home. Basically, have a plan for if you lose access to your newly more secure accounts.
Make sure your phone PIN/passcode is changed too, and that your partner doesn’t know it. Set up your phone so that the Lock Screen doesn’t show the content of messages until you unlock it. Change the passwords on your email, FB, etc as well. If you’re not confident you can remember them all look into a password manager like Lastpass (many others are available). We recommend these in workplaces all the time.
You should do all this immediately, to secure yourself against further theft.
As for the other stuff. There’s no wrong answer. Some people would leave after this level of broken trust, some wouldn’t. No wrong decision.
I will say that your partner likely needs a lot of help in improving their situation. A test you may want to consider for your decision is (as it sounds like you’re considering staying) “I will stay as long as I have evidence that they are actively engaging in treatment as directed by their healthcare professionals, support groups etc”.
Working on yourself is hard and can take a long time. Doubly so in the case of addictions, which never really go, you just learn to manage them and get better and stronger about abstinence and such as you progress in life. That’s why I’m suggesting thinking about the threshold they have to meet being “are they working on themselves and their treatment” rather than “I want them to have got things under control in x months”.
Setting a time limit is totally reasonable too it’s just perhaps more of a gamble in your part. Leave, or stay and have a clear idea of what you need to see in order to remain in the relationship. Secure your life and accounts regardless; partner has lost access privileges indefinitely. Good luck
Tell her after that crap she's pulled you can't see yourself moving in with her or marrying her in the future and if she says she'll do better ask her for a detailed plan of action and don't accept answers like “I'll do whatever you want” …..or just dump her lol
Kick her to the curb and grow a spine. You do realize she wanted to be a good backup while she went screwed the other guy. Like come on man
So you realize you made a mistake by working so hard for this relationship and this woman who obviously isn’t worth it.
Now you’re here asking whether you should get back with her? How many mistakes do you need to make before you realize your life will be better without her and worse with her? Say you get back with her, which would be 2 mistakes, are you going to leave after the next time she cheats? Or are you going to make 3 mistakes? 4?
Leave her and find someone who deserves you.
If it feels to fast to you, then it's too fast.
This guy sounds like a codependent nightmare. And no, this is not what adult dating is supposed to be like.
I can't tell you what to do, but I know what I'd do if I had a boyfriend who was acting like this. I'd break up with him.