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Languages: en
Birth Date: 2002-01-10
Body Type: bodyTypeCurvy
Ethnicity: ethnicityIndian
Hair color: hairColorBlack
Eyes color: eyeColorBlack
Subculture: subcultureRomantic
Date: October 23, 2022
Firstly I seriously feel for you, I’m so sorry for what you went through in the past and how it affects you now. I’ve been through similar experiences and I know it’s not easy.
That being said: you guys have ZERO communication. He’s not good with emotion so he avoids it thinking you want be left alone but you never told him you didn’t want to be left alone but avoid telling him because you think he wants to leave you alone. Jesus. Neither of you are mind readers. The same can be said about the sex part after that. If you said yes and acted like you were into it then how on earth was he supposed to know that you weren’t. I’m sorry if this is rude but you guys both need to be adults and use your words even if it is hot for you or you’re just going to continue to make things even harder for you in the future. Maybe try unpacking this in therapy because it seems like you both would benefit. Also not to be that person but you have no problem vocalizing to reddit exactly how used and horrible you feel but can’t say it to your own bf?? How old are y’all like what.
Wtf did I just read
Is she still accomplishing everything she needs to accomplish at work? Has she changed in other ways? Does she still leave the house regularly? Is she more tired, listless in general? How does she feel about wfh? Does she love it or does she miss the office, coworkers, structure? Also, does she HAVE an actual desk/proper space to work? I personally have a desk at home but I hate using it so I sit at the kitchen table. Maybe there's something wrong with the space.
If she is doing absolutely fine and it's just that she's lying in bed all day– try approaching it from a health perspective, bc tbh it is a health issue, spinal health and def mental health at least. This will be good if you can include yourself in it. Like, “I feel like we've been getting complacent lately and I don't think it's good for us. Want to try some health stuff with me?” If you haven't, you can also try taking her out for a lunch date or something. Give her a “reason” to get dressed.
If she is NOT doing fine, chilling in bed is probably a symptom of a larger unhappiness. And in that case don't just bring up the bed and hoodie, bring up the larger mood. “I feel like since last year you've not been yourself. How are you feeling?”
Basically I get where you're coming from. I also wfh and it's super important for me to have boundaries between life and bed. And it's super easy to let go of those boundaries and get complacent… but that means I have to keep it up.