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DEFINITELY move on and stop seeing her. At least for some months until the feelings have subsided. I dated a woman once who also wanted to be friends shortly after and I agreed. It was awful. We would still hang out and I still had unresolved feelings for her. She was still very flirtatious. On occasion we would make out or leave a party together and have sex. But underneath the physical desire she had for me, she still did not want to be with me. And while my emotions for her grew, hers stayed the same or diminished and the unrequited feelings made me very depressed.
You might be looking for someone here to say “stay friends with her! As she gets to know you she will fall for you and things will work out!” Trust me. If someone tells you who they are, believe them. If she said she is not interested BELIEVE HER. Set a healthy boundary, walk away for some months and go no contact until the feelings subside. If you see her again after that and your heart skips a beat, walk away again until you're healed.
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Like not pineapple on pizza type of opinions, I'm talking a man who acts and talks like he's sexist and misogynistic, but when called out on it denies it.
No, going through someone's phone is not a shitty thing if you got reason to suspect something awry. A shitty thing would be if you stole information or used it to hurt her.
You did the right thing. Most people would agree. Reddit is a cesspool where the Facebook rejects go because no one on Facebook likes them. .
Going through someone's phone is literally petty shit. Cheating is risking disease. Cheaters should be charged and don't split the fucking money like the idiot suggested in top vote. That's fucking dumb. Sue her ass in court and take everything.
Quite frankly, the only thing that stops people like this is changing your number. My ex harassed me for YEARS after we broke up. He'd change his number, or use a friend's phone. Eventually I changed my number and it was the only thing that stopped the calls.
Girl, leave his ass
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Looks like you have an opportunity here brother.
Ew he cheated and you forgave him?? I have zero sympathy for you. You reap what you sow and you reaped a big ole cheater. He sounds like a nightmare partner. Look at your finances you posted, wtf? Why are you with him lol
You're clearly sexually incompatible, and at this young stage in your life should really just break up and move on already. Why sign up for a miserably sexually frustrating long haul when you're already “feeling miserable” in your own words?
Sounded like the first ditch effort.
Stop. Dating. A. Man. Old. Enough. To. Be. Your. Father.
Sometimes I wonder if most of these stories are made up when there is a huge age gap or if the girl was being groomed from a younger age.
Probably not. You could try rectifying it by agreeing to seek therapy and couples counseling but even then you fucked up bad dude and she probably won't stay with you.
Gosh who knew that being married and pregnant at 18 would be a bad idea
L E A V E.
No. You can't fix her and it's unfair of her to ask.
Reddit is full of porn ?
Imagine that he is looking through a photo album, they are memories that he is processing. Really this should be with someone that knew her, but I guess you are his go to person.
Imagine you are some how both looking at a recording or film and he was in it so he is telling you all the bts details as he recalls those details.
He doesn't want to relive the memories, just go through them with someone close to him.
As another poster said, he broke up for a reason and chose you.
Just be careful not to make this a marathon with no breaks, instead consider managing this as short sprints where you take breaks and do normal things like get coffee and some fresh air or whatever runs for normal for you. You can offer to do something with him to maybe go somewhere they went and then come back to the present day after, otherwise you will both be exhausted and emotionally drained. (not everyone can do this but do try as it will help you with balance).
That’s not helping this case mam
This is so disgusting. Not just that you think wearing boxers only around a minor is appropriate… But the fact that you would try and put her in the middle of your spat with her mother. If she is uncomfortable she obviously won't tell you that. Her seeing her mom's body is different then seeing the weird boyfriends junk. And even if she is comfy with it, it doesn't matter. It is inappropriate and minors have parents for a reason (hint, it's because they don't know what is or isn't appropriate).
Get your big boy pants on and throw on some joggers when you leave the bedroom.
Dawg this is such a simple compromise
Honestly, if my partner cheated on me once or twice a long time ago and hasn't since, I wouldn't care to know. ?♀️
To be fair to your fiancé, I think you need to break off the engagement. The longer you let this go on, you’re being unfair to yourself and you’re being unfair to him.
I can’t tell you if your friend will take you back, but I don’t understand why you would be so torn up inside over someone who was intimate with you but never pursued a relationship with you in the first place. It sounds like you two were friends with benefits, and there is no certainty that by leaving your fiancé, you will be able to rekindle any relationship. There is also no guarantee that you two will share any sort of romantic feelings. You may have them, but he may not.
However, you’re not in love with your fiancé. You have to end the engagement and to break it to him as soon as possible. You’re stringing someone along who wants to spend the rest of their lives with you when you’re not really even committed to them.
Even if things with your friend don’t work out, work on yourself and healing from this, and do what’s best for yourself and your fiancé by being honest with him and yourself and to also do your best to move forward.
“I’ve texted and called and it’s silence. “
You should be the one ghosting her, not the other way around.
Even if she’s not cheating on you(X to doubt), she is still being dishonest with you. If you are determined to stay together she has to be okay with a new degree of scrutiny and frankly distrust in your relationship until she regains your trust. Good luck.
Ask for the video. Look at the file details and see when it was created
When you said she was like this since your early days of dating, that she thrived off attention no matter where it came from, why did you decide to marry her? This breakup was 14 years in the making.
If it’s assault he should report her but I sense this was just bs to get out of responsibility that he’d been hitting on/ getting with this girl prior and wanted to get it on.
Yeah you have to break up. He’s gross. That’s not normal and it’s not ok and you gotta dump him.
The trust is gone. You long for something you'll never get back – and that's the relationship you had before you were cheated on. Everyone takes time to heal after a breakup – particularly if it was a marriage and the person you thought you were going to spend the rest of your life with betrayed you.
Your ex didn't even volunteer the information. She lied to your face right to the bitter end – and only conceded when confronted with unquestionable evidence. There's no coming back from that imo. If you take her back; you won't be happy either. You're better to invest that energy in moving on and filling your time with hobbies / friends / anything to take your mind off her.
i feel so terrible because i haven’t even spoken to him about ending things. i really need to. this feels so wrong and it makes me so panicked. he might be sexist, racist and cruel but i need to know exactly why he pulled this on me. i need the clarity…
i feel so terrible because i haven’t even spoken to him about ending things. i really need to. this feels so wrong and it makes me so panicked. he might be sexist, racist and cruel but i need to know exactly why he pulled this on me. i need the clarity…
i feel so terrible because i haven’t even spoken to him about ending things. i really need to. this feels so wrong and it makes me so panicked. he might be sexist, racist and cruel but i need to know exactly why he pulled this on me. i need the clarity…
i feel so terrible because i haven’t even spoken to him about ending things. i really need to. this feels so wrong and it makes me so panicked. he might be sexist, racist and cruel but i need to know exactly why he pulled this on me. i need the clarity…
Here is the sense you need: 1. You would be just a side piece until another comes along 2. Even if he left his wife for you (not gonna happen) he will cheat on and disrespect you like he does to his wife now
The right man won’t care about whether you’re a virgin or how many exes you have. If someone is hyper focusing on that when considering you for a relationship they aren’t seeing you in your entirety as a person. The right person will appreciate you wholly and see other aspects of you as more important for compatibility.
So, since this argument…has he scrubbed a toilet, mopped the floors, or done the dishes without being prompted? Actively seen a chore that needed doing and then did it without expecting praise?
If not…this is emotional abuse. He played the divorce card, then uno reverse, bought some flowers and cooked a meal, and flounced back to the life he had before. Where you did all the chores, worked, and went to a school where you transferred because he didn’t like living near your dream school.
He’s going to do this again.
Leave now.
“Lets go to that address together. Right now. Knock on the door and find out who it is.”
I'm willing to bet that it's some womans house.
I'm also willing to bet his credit card has a charge for the restaurant.
Is it possible it's his name he's lying about?
You can tell him you want to leave lots of info with family before you go anywhere
Get name Address Workplace Car licence plates maybe
Agreed. I did this for years until I had therapy and learned!
Y’all watch too much porn.
Nothing weird about this
Why would any self-respecting adult woman think you're a catch when you say, “Hey yeah I'm looking for a long term relationship,but also a FWB situation so whatever works.”
Trust me, it's a turn off.
I'm literally in exactly the same boat as you with curly hair, facial hair etc. and we have pretty much the exact same grooming habits lol except I pluck all of my face hairs since it lasts much longer than shaving. Don't do it for appearances really they just drive me crazy. I could not care less what people think about my appearance either. Waste of time and energy. My husband cares less about what people think than I do which is nice. To be fair though we're a decade older than you guys and I'm pretty sure I remember caring a lot when I was 22 so you're just ahead of the curve.
You have prioritised his mother feelings over his. It was obvious he would feel betrayed by you. Even her version was the only truth, which it is not, you should still talk with your bf, and if he so wishes never contact his mother again.
You can forget about getting married any time soon. In fact using reverse psychology, you should suggest yourself to postpone thoughts of mariiage until he can trust you again.
Follow it up with declaration thst you will not contact his mother under sny circumstances, even if she is lying in her deathbed. If you have been thinking about having children in the future you need to declare you will support his mother never beung able to meet them.
Get the abortion and leave him There isn't any other solution
I’d like to see him say that to the judge after he’s arrested