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Date: October 25, 2022
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Came here to say this. Thank you.
Have you tried just stopping showing him affection for a couple of weeks to see if he notices the displacement of affection? Maybe he will recognize how it feels to see your attention and affection on the cat and not him.
Your first sentence is what has been in my mind this whole time. I'm an adult and if I tell them she will be with me this summer that is final and they have to accept it. I get they are helping with the apartment but I don't think they can force these choices on me.
And honestly, before their actions towards her, I really put them on a pedestal and was very close and trusting of them. But they have disappointed me, often gossiping amongst each other and being so rude to her and disrespectful of me, and made me want to create distance from them for some time. And I am entitled to that.
Should have just gave her a surprise box of puppies and a 50 gallon bag of Puppy Chow…
Even the ghost would text if he really cared.
His phone is obviously dead
I’m refusing cuz I already thought all these options through. Like I said, they wouldn’t work. I’m just looking for an option that would actually work.
What's your question though
What was the notification? Ask to see his profile if he has nothing to hide
I mean… yeah, right? She didn’t want to have sex but she says she “caved”, so that means she consented. Even if she didn’t really want to, he didn’t force her to say yes, didn’t coerce her. I’d say this isn’t rape, just a miscommunication. If you don’t want morning sex just say so. If you’re bratty in bed, have a safe word so he knows when you legit don’t want it.
Sounds like a solid plan! I hope everything works out for you!
“I told you…. chocolate or vanilla?”
sisters just have a way ?
That sounds good, thanks for the advice.
It looks like everyone learned a lesson that day.
Might as well have some fun with it, not everyday you get to traumatize your entire family at once.
Definitely get some cream filled pastries for dessert.
This is a you decision. This isn’t really one to crowdsource. You can talk to the woman you’ve been dating (I assume you’re dating women, not girls) and tell her that you took her saying xyz as breaking up and that you want to stand by that. Or you cancel with the new woman.
If you date now when you’re in this maaaaaybe agreement with someone it’s kind of crappy to both women. Use your words and be honest and sort it out.
He sounds jealous and possessive.
He shouldn’t get so upset when someone else shows interest in you.
He felt hurt/attacked that someone had tried to ask for your number and he wanted to hurt you right back. That’s not a healthy way to deal with those feelings.
Tbh he sounds immature.
You could try having a conversation with your bf about the way he handled the situation. Reassure him your not about to leave him for anyone else, but he can’t react that way and needs to realize that with how great you are – it’s likely some other people will notice.
There are two things that are almost impossible to recover once they've been compromised: trust and feeling safe.
Two things:
Get therapy. Not in a rude way, but like, this level of insecurity means you won't ever be able to have a truly fulfilling relationship. You'll greatly benefit from it 🙂
Take the challenge, dude. Make her cum more. Get better at sex. Give better orgasms. Be an attentive lover. Make her forget the other dude. Don't do it with the mindset of “I'm gonna beat this dude!” Because that's cringe. But, use it as an excuse to step up your sex game.
My advice? Read books. Read erotic books by women. Straight up, I got better at sex after I fell down a rabbit hole of fantasy erotic books bwahahah. I was just made aware of the small things that I may have missed that turned me or my husband on and I naturally just felt more in tune to my body. Porn sucks. It's fake. At least when you read, you're not seeing people act. You're just imagining what's being said.
Consider two safe words. One is like a yellow light and the other is a red light. The yellow light safe word would mean something like “slow down. I don’t like what’s happening right now but we can keep going with less intensity” while a red light word is “stop right now”.
Sometimes people aren’t enjoying it but don’t want to use the safe word and make it all come screeching to a halt. They just want one particular activity to stop while the sex continues. This is where a slow down word come come in.
I have ADHD and i still manage to do my part in my relationship to keep the house clean and make sure enough money is made. And when I slack and my partner notices, we talk about it, work out a plan we’re both happy with, and continue on. You’re using it as an excuse. Learn to compromise or you’ll never be happy.
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The answer to your question is maybe they can be just friends. From the sounds of it he might want to put a timetable for her to get on her feet. Otherwise she could take advantage
Do you refuse to go to weddings if they serve alcohol?
You absolutely tell her, she deserves to know.
Don't ever stay with anyone like that. He isn't teaching you lessons, he's breaking you down. You can't even imagine how much worse it's going to get if you stay on this path. I recall a story of a female friend I had, she didn't leave her abusive boyfriend and let him hurt her for years, until he held her cat out of the window of their apartment and taunted her. That was her switching point. You may think that you can withstand any pain, but people like your partner will find what hurts you if only through trial and error.
Your spirit is going to feel broken whether you leave or stay, but it'll only heal after you've left. Please be ok op.
If her appearance is your primary concern, then you aren’t worth keeping. You didn’t mention any potential medical issues/concerns, only her appearance and that you’re no longer proud to be her partner. Let her go and find someone more deserving of her.
This is not irrational anger! If he gets off and doesn't even try to get you off, that's just plain selfish. OF COURSE it makes you angry. Have you considered getting a new boyfriend, you know one that doesn't make you angry?