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You move on together if you want to stay together. If he needs to see there are no monsters under the bed, are you okay with showing him? Providing he's doing work on his end? It takes two to make a relationship work. He can't just crown himself with his past trauma, and reign supreme. He has to work through it, too. Ask him what he feels he needs to be more secure, and if it's doable for you, do it. But, he needs to communicate, as opposed to shutting you out. There are steps available to help a person move past trauma, but they need to do them. You're there to support him through it. Not to do the work for him, and be cross examined by a hostile person who views the world through a filter of pain and betrayal
I would talk about love languages and ask what his are. You clearly seem to enjoy gift giving and getting gifts as a sign of love, and he probably just isn't the same way. I think that's a good way to start the conversation and then you can mention during the conversation how it makes you feel when you received gifts that don't seem to have thought behind them and why it's important to you that you; ex. that it's important that you feel like he listens to you, the gifting is a sign of love to you, and why you would appreciate it, etc.
First, couples therapy is all well and good, but you need to be seeing an individual therapist. Having your husband AND your parents think you were a cheater is awful and traumatic. Couples therapy isn’t going to really address that. And for it to happen while you’re pregnant is just more trauma on top as your being slammed with all these different hormones. Second, I understand you wanting your child to grow up with two parents together as your own step dad didn’t love you as much as his bio kids, but an unhappy home with two parents isn’t better than a happy home with one parent.
Your husband took the word of the person who he (claims to have) turned down for sex about you cheating. Either he is an absolutely bloody idiot and didn’t think she might be lying to fuck your life up, or he just wanted an excuse to fuck around without it technically being cheating. And I’d bet money that Ali is amongst those people he slept with. I don’t know how you can even look at him after his actions.
I’m so sorry you’re going through this.
That also happens in post college life. People get to eat with each other
Ewww literally eww what on this Gods green earth would someone almost 30 be doing with a teenager.
Jesus. Can these men not handle women their own age because they have standards?
So they go after young girls who can't even drink legally and settle for well it's legal so I'm not doing anything wrong?
OP wtf do yall have in common?
What do you connect over? You going to college and him getting ready to talk about kids and marriage?
Do your parents approve of this relationship?
Where do you see this relationship going?
Has he dated younger women in the past?
Why did he say he thought you being 18 wasn't fucking weird for him?
I can bet you unless he has creepy fucking friends people our age generally find a dude that's 27 dating a literal teenager gross nd predatory.
You have zero life experience. Im sorry to be harsh but you don't. This man can mold you into anything he wants and that's probably why he's out thinking its okay dating someone near a decade younger than him that's basically just out of high school.
Fucking hell.
I don’t know, this story sounds extremely fishy to me. I don’t buy the boyfriend’s account.
He is possessive and mistrustful and they already argue about her having male friends. She wanted to stay sober and they argued about it – was he pushing her to drink? How did she get from “I don’t want to drink at all” to blackout? She only has his word that she was acting this way and he has every incentive to make these claims as a justification for his possessiveness.
If I were OP I’d ask other people who were there what happened. I wouldn’t be surprised if their version of events was very different.