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Everyone has experienced trauma, and I know what a trigger is. This is not acceptable. Full stop. This is not “reacting in heightened ways,” it was multiple days of harassing, berating, and trying to manipulate someone who dared to not make your inability to regulate your emotions their priority. The mental gymnastics you're STILL engaging in to keep yourself the victim here is truly breathtaking.
You were given advice in my response. You don't want advice, you want to continue to justify your behavior and remain the victim. Classic narc shit.
It really got me mad, though I didn’t attack him. I simply asked why he was asking that and was in trying to connect weird dots. I could tell by his tone he wasn’t ok. Not sure what I’m supposed to say nicely to that? I couldn’t believe that me innocently showering meant something negative
But you don’t need to be married. If you delay the planning but not the wedding, so there will be less time to plan the wedding?! Why can’t y’all just get married after she graduates. Or when it’s calmer. You still haven’t stayed why you need to (not want to) get married right now. I’d rather break up an engagement or have a long engagement than rush into marriage while overwhelmed.
Everyone has experienced trauma, and I know what a trigger is. This is not acceptable. Full stop. This is not “reacting in heightened ways,” it was multiple days of harassing, berating, and trying to manipulate someone who dared to not make your inability to regulate your emotions their priority. The mental gymnastics you're STILL engaging in to keep yourself the victim here is truly breathtaking.
You were given advice in my response. You don't want advice, you want to continue to justify your behavior and remain the victim. Classic narc shit.
It really got me mad, though I didn’t attack him. I simply asked why he was asking that and was in trying to connect weird dots. I could tell by his tone he wasn’t ok. Not sure what I’m supposed to say nicely to that? I couldn’t believe that me innocently showering meant something negative
But you don’t need to be married. If you delay the planning but not the wedding, so there will be less time to plan the wedding?! Why can’t y’all just get married after she graduates. Or when it’s calmer. You still haven’t stayed why you need to (not want to) get married right now. I’d rather break up an engagement or have a long engagement than rush into marriage while overwhelmed.
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