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Just like a fart.
If you have to force it, it's probably going to be sh!t.
I am actively praying that this is a made up story.
Aside from the obvious transphobic reference to “germs”.
Welcome to the world of anxiety and overthinking! But for real, it likely is stuff you just haven't dealt with yet and have to learn how to cope with. You're doing well by recognizing that your worries aren't logical. Keep doing that! Also remind yourself that things change when they settle into routine. Him not texting as much or forgetting to respond could be a sign that he is comfortable with your relationship. If he's not giving you anything to worry about then try not to invent things. I know it's hard, but try to just enjoy your new relationship!
Your bf is an immature asshole. I would be hurt and disgusted too. He clearly doesn’t value marriage or monogamous relationships in general. You’re not being manipulative. He told you this is why he rather keep shit from you UNACCEPTABLE… dump him
If abuse started out as extreme, most women wouldn’t get caught up into its cycle.
Get out from this guy and never, ever look back.
there are many kinds of schizophrenia, including kinds where people only take meds for a few years because their particular type is episodic and not chronic. it should only be done under strict medical supervision to watch for signs of an episode, but it’s not completely unheard of. we don’t really know what op’s gf’s is or if that’s possible for her, that’s something he would have to find out himself before making any decisions.
36 is closing in on it, but it's not unheard of now days of women having kids into their early 40s.
I do think a year is better, but I don't know if he could get her to agree to it.
Fair enough. Not a lot to lose for the time being then it seems. Worst case just some fun outings and etc.
As a bi person with many friends I have the potential to be attracted to, who also have the potential to be attracted to me, the problem isnt having those type of friends, the problem is your lack of boundaries and your inability to make your partner feel secure.
Giving them a key and access to your phone doesnt automatically equate to feeling safe. Your actions towards her and other people does. You making your ex fix a gift for your friend, who had lied to get you to come out with them and invited herself back to your house after drinks? Having dated for that short of a time, and with your assumption that she is the one with a problem and insecurities that actually you dont want to deal with anyway, automatically putting it all on her? I wouldnt feel safe in your ability to be a good partner I could trust to make good desitions on their own either.
Even in the comments, you continue to do it. It went from my ex is insecure, no fault of my own. My friend might actually be a problem, I probably should have seen the signs, but instead of working on myself I'll just not have friends that could be attracted to me. At 34 you seem to have the emotional intelligence of a pet rock.
The 1 downfall is you ll worry for the rest of your life. So take that into consideration.
Ye we have we do if he does show up we ask him if he’s ok and he says yeah and we have talked to his mum about it. Sry for not saying in the post
You are 30 years old way too old for this type of relationship.
Your therapy should be the only thing you are focusing on at this point, you need a lot of it before you can be in a healthy relationship.
I read the first page and it seemed pretty harmless, but then I clicked the link to read the second page and it seems really suspicious. Why not ask the other person? Just put some feelers out. It sounds like she rejected him, so she might be willing to tell you what he said
Tbh I moved in with my husband after we dated for six months bc both our leases were up. It isnt necessarily fast, but I was 25 and he was 28. I asked a year in if we were attempting a long haul that would lead to marriage bc I need clear and concise expectations.
Yeah, its off with his sister, and it isnt something he likely admit to. But it seems like they already have a rule to maintain a degree of distance. I cant really tell.
Yeah no. 6 months isn’t invested enough to deal with this mental bullshit.
That’s why if you do it anonymously she won’t know that it’s you at all. That’s why I thought she wouldn’t be able to hear you. She would think you were just jealous.
As others have said – if you feel uncomfortable talking about this or you both are not open about this stuff in general then you shouldn't be living together in the first place. From how you described your relationship you seem to be more like a date then a couple – still strangers in some areas and still uncomfortable in some topics.
Besides it's just icky, you don't want to be with someone who makes you ick. If he's doing it in a bed and not the bathroom, where does he even finish? In a sock? On the mattress?
People need to stop saying this, police will not confiscate a cat given away. Literally ever.
Don't, move on.
Yeah I don’t know what it was I just didn’t expect it and I really wanted to spend the night together as I felt like I needed it cause we haven’t been having the best weekend. Altho there have been very nice moments that I should probably put my mind to more than the not so nice moments. I really struggle with anxious attachment so this sort of stuff doesn’t help a lot. He knows this too.
But yea it definitely calms my mind a bit and you’re very right. I should’ve not said something straight away when he mentioned the need for time alone. Should’ve thought about it from his perspective first. Cause I know he had a mad busy week. But still for some reason it feels like a rejection when he wants the space and rationally I know that’s not true that it’s not about me at all but emotionally my mind spins then
You think you “disprespect” a lobster by not eating it?
You think a lobster would prefer to at least be eaten if he was going to die?
No one deserves to be told the things that person told you and then have the person who is supposed to be their partner call them a liar or try to make it their fault. Asking someone what their problem is with you is as straight forward as you can get. In two years you are going to be looking back at this in a positive light and wondering why you didn't love yourself enough to end the relationship on your own. Your skin will crawl at the idea of being around these people again.
No, it’s not that. I guess I was expecting more affirmations when I posted, like “yeah man keep at it. Been there. Give it time, it’ll all work out.” But I was (rightly) forced to confront some unpleasant truths about myself.
As this curveball in my life forced me to do a lot of self reflection I’m wondering which of my actions were a result of manipulative past relationships. I was great to her before, and continued with some of the same during (genuine compliments on her ideas, her contributions at work, her looks, her in her role as a mother, etc). But I felt that I as a man was lacking and shut down. She naturally pulled away too because I wasn’t contributing and I wasn’t as open emotionally and for whatever other reasons.
Cooking and cleaning was up to me, but she took care of the family budget, of enrolling kids into after school activities, mostly her to help with the homework, etc. So that’s the stuff I’m going to get involved with now.
We all change. And we were not both without our issues. But we were great together and I believe we can be again. She doesn’t. She doesn’t want to work on us. Maybe it will change. Maybe it will not. It’s a sudden demand from me now that life is getting back on track. While she made peace with the old situation and possibly checked out. So yeah, I’m happy because I saw a future, family vacations, maybe buying a house in a couple years. She just wants space and is not thinking that far.
Get out mate. Plenty more fish in the sea. If I know now what I do abouy my wife, I'd have never asked her out 12 years ago
If they’re loved ones, they will sympathize and support you, not judge you. Lean on them for comfort. It’s part of the job.
She always drinks, so yes.
They can call them an ambulance then.
Actually, he is doing pretty well. He's got a great job, doing well financially, has many friends he enjoys hanging out with. He loves to travel too and he's doing it solo.
That specific relationship did traumatize him to the point that he refused to date anyone else after. He's got some interest from others, but he's just not willing to date or even be with anyone in a serious partnership after that mess.
I can't say I blame him though. He's still too stubborn as in, he's not willing to go into therapy and such. Although we (the family) encourage him to do this.
You dated a 27 year old who was going for a 18 year old. Idk what you thought the outcome was gonna be lol
This doesn't mean anything. I had a friend who could eat two Wendy's double a day for a year, and gained no weight. Didn't even exercise, either. People eating more/less doesn't mean shit, at the end of the day.
Well either you need to talk about it or this issue will never get solved
He's not immature or quirky, he doesn't have a weird sense of humor.
He's a bully.
He thinks it's hilarious that a teenager passed out from distress, and he's a PEDIATRICIAN?
HONEY NO.
A pediatrician should care about an ill child, he shouldn't mock them.
That's disturbing.
It’s been her way or the highway the entire time. She’s just been subtly reminding me of that over the years. This kind of abuse can take a long time for the abuser to come to his senses and realize what’s going on which is why I can understand some people on here think I’m the asshole.
I mean you COULD’ve met up with her one-on-one, or called/texted her, and said “hey your husband has been leering at me and making me really uncomfortable. I don’t want to be around him anymore. I don’t think we should see each other [as friends] anymore.”
Because you’d be taking on a lot more drama as a friend to that lady (she has her hands full, trying yo work on a marriage with a cheater ? and raising her kids and she should probably have friends that are at the same life stage as her) and a lot more danger being around that guy (he came to your house alone?? And you know he’s a cheater. Lock your doors and have people around you. Who knows what he would’ve done to you??)
At the end of the day, she needs to lean on a lawyer and a support group, not a 20 something woman from her old job. maybe she could piece together why you ghosted.
You’re fine, OP.
So if she liked you in a suit and tie you'd wear that around the house? Why can't you just let her be comfortable at home like she should be and you both can dress up when you go out?
Please break up and get rid of the dead weight. She doesn’t work, doesn’t do much around the house, why are you supporting her lifestyle?
You both sound insufferable. Please don’t procreate
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