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Well said.
And if this anxiety continues, seek professional help. If a person, man or woman, can't handle a push that led to an accidental falling and the opposing party was genuine in remorse [not hostile], then said person should seek therapy or at least a support group. That sounds more like you being triggered from the incident, not the incident being the root.
Both of you honestly, OP and girlfriend, should probably get some help. It's not okay to push another person and you said she felt trapped [and you did technically trap her]. You said she pushed you out of fear, not anger. That's a problem. Never once was I afraid of my husband and we have been together for over 9yrs so a shit ton of arguments. She shouldn't be afraid of you or putting hands on you.
And ultimately, I think the whole truth is not being said here. This is heavily one-sided.
She’ll have 4 under 3 eeeek!
To address the first part, thank you for that context. That's very helpful. In saying that, at least you two were honest with each other, but the problem here is that you pushed forward in the relationship based entirely on potential; potential you had no reason to believe would be realized considering he said he wasn't interested in moving.
To address the second part, let me now back up and tell you about me; I'm a guy and I'm happily married (to a woman to be fully transparent, but it doesn't matter for these purposes). I tell you this so that you understand I'm not here being negative for the sake of being negative. I love love and I wish you nothing but the absolute best.
But as it relates to “wasting each others' time,” you need to understand I'm not coming at this from a perspective of being emotionless or that memories made and bonds established mean nothing if things ultimately end. I don't believe that at all.
The point I'm making is focusing on the very beginning, or at least very early into the relationship. It's also fundamentally important that we're looking through the lens that we're talking about a relationship we view as long term that ideally we want to be forever. As such, if one or both of you knew from the beginning that this was highly likely going to end when you ultimately decided to leave LA, then it's a “waste of time” because you set yourselves up to develop deep feelings knowing it would end it crushing pain.
You made great memories and enjoyed your time together. Now, you're giving it up. You obviously don't want to for those exact reasons. Let me be clear; I get that this is absolutely devastating, and I'm truly so sorry you're dealing with this. I'm honestly not trying to be a jerk as if it's so easy. But in a perfect world, you don't want to put yourself in a situation where you know you're going to end up hurt. That's honestly not healthy at all.
If she use the old “i didn't feel loved” argument. Why didn’t she told earlier? Why did she wait till you had this big show-down. To think that you were together for years planned to marry but she couldn't even say that she wished more compliments and more attention.
But you also should go to therapy. If you have the prefered women type like this, it must be a reason. And to be honest, if the woman is depressed and has body-dismorphia, doesn't love herself, it is not helpful for her that you never say nice things. I know you wrote you try to be better, but i just want you to realize that it is a bad match to behinn within and you should try to find a woman without those “traits”.
I always think it is naked to ever overcome cheating because there is no excuse for it. But to even be a chance the partner must be honest right away and not forced to confess because the other told you. And they shouldn't play it down. It was their decision. It wasn't a mistake. To put to much salt in the food is a mistake. Did she slip and then landed with the mouth on his dick? And since she couldn't find hold with her hands her reaction was sucking like a suction cup? Yeah, no…. And of course she tries to push it to the alcohol. Of no, it wasn't her fault, she was the victim of the alcohol! I also wouldn't be surprised if she at one point tries to play the victim “you can't leave me, i would be all alone. You can't do this to me. Oh no, it hurt so much. Pleeeeaaaaseeeee” And you feel forced to console her, but it is her fault.