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Your poor wife ? How would you feel in your gut if your wife was on here asking the same thing with the same situation? I understand human attraction, it’s normal. But marriage and faithfulness is a choice. I recommend blocking blondie on everything, taking your wife on a date and really remembering why you LOVE your wife so much!!!
Stop having any more babies for at least 5 years.
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Alcohol, “insert excuse why we should go bag to your place”, let's talk about how very hot it is to be committed in a relationship, 2am, Bedroom. I'm just saying… if it quacks like a duck, walks like a duck, it must be a f*ck. I mean duck. They totally played twister
Depends, how do I go back I time and stop Hitler from committing the genocide?
where exactly have i said that i hate him? i don't.
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The issue with answering a question like this is there is no winning if she is sensitive about it REGARDLESS of if he genuinely likes it or not.
If he doesn't like it then she's made a life altering change that if they do go their separate ways will be something she obsesses over as a mistake. And there's no way to tell her he doesn't like it without making he feel bad. (and as others have pointed out avoiding the question in this way will just have her convinced he hates it and just doesn't want to tell her because it's her own mind convincing her that something is wrong with her)
If he does then she might either feel like he isn't being truthful or that he didn't like her nose as it was before and that there are other parts of herself he doesn't like. She might start asking him about that and treat herself as a Barbie doll to be molded to an arbitrary standard of beauty.
As you said, what's important is how she feels about herself. And it's clear she doesn't feel good about herself, OP can't make her feel good about her insecurities. That's something she needs to come to a understanding of herself.
Do you get that that's incredibly selfish of you ?
Wouldn’t that be years later. Who even thinks like that. If you really want someone your not even thinking oh I don’t want people down the line commenting where he’s at. You want to show that person off. I am not wrong in asking if it is a red flag. She’s allowed to have her boundaries sure but to go years where not even a hint that she’s in a relationship. I’m insecure to wonder if that’s a red flag?
No.
Sure but those people shouldn’t be partnered with people who do enjoy and actively want sex because everyone is unhappy.
Thank you for your comment! Our situation is complicated. The friend who he is hanging out with is someone my boyfriend doesn’t like for me to be around because in the past this friend confessed that he had feelings for me and it ruined the friendship we all had at the time. My boyfriend (years later) reconnected with him and they became friends again, but he doesn’t want me to be around when they’re together. I just feel nervous to bring it up. The reason I think he knows is he’s been acting really weird about his phone lately and secretive. His friend was also asking about borrowing party supplies on Snapchat like a week prior to all of this so I feel like it was planned out in advance. My boyfriend also told me about the plans like 3 days ago
I married a mama’s boy. It didn’t bother me much in the beginning because we moved across the country and he voice wasn’t as present in our lives… and then we moved back home. That woman was the third person in our marriage. His vows were that I was the priority at the altar and when I reminded him of that he asked me what he was supposed to do. She came first. She always came first. Family comes first.
“I fuck you. I sleep next to you. You made me family when you gave me your name and married me. So what about me?”
“I don’t know…”
He had no identity of his own outside of who his family told him he was. This delayed him seeking help for his alcoholism, because they didn’t think he had an actual problem despite 3 DUIs. This delayed us going to couples therapy because that’s for failures, according to them. You think now is bad?? This does NOT change after marriage, it gets worse.
Review your wedding contracts, see what you can get back. There are cancellation clauses written into wedding agreements for this exact reason. Recoup what you can and then thank God all you lost out on was the money you can’t get back, as opposed to the time you would’ve lost married to this failure to launch. Then review your state laws regarding the ownership of the engagement ring. In CA it needs to be returned to the party who proposed as the marriage did not occur. If your state has the same law, prepare to return it. Get your stuff together to move out. FIND A GOOD THERAPIST! Deal with the breakup in a healthy manner. Then when you explain why you left this dude, be fiercely honest. Give him the real so he knows how to get his shit together.
And here’s the last part, it’s really important: go on-line YOUR life. Invest in yourself. Do the hard work. Go out and do all the things you missed out on in a committed relationship. Rediscover who you are and expand your support system.
You can do this. I believe in you.
sounds like she felt very seriously about what happened in the fight. i agree that this isn't typically a healthy behavior, but it kind of depends on how fed up she is with whatever you fought about. could have been the last straw for her.
or she could be immature and just want to hurt or piss you off.
He said he didn't want the kid… And now he doesn't want the kid. Tide goes in tide goes out. I think you are looking at single motherhood here. If you wanted a baby bad enough to carry this guys child you got your wish and now you have a baby. Hope you have an excellent life with him/her but I don't think this guy is going to be a big part of it.
It's exactly the time, because your baby will be born chubby. And will remain chubby until about 1.5 yrs old.
If she doesn't solve these issues now, your child will suffer them.
RemindMe! 48 hours
BS, that’s old enough to be mature and in an adult relationship.
I wouldve done the same thing
Actually we don't have kids, luckily but if we did, I wouldn't even be within sight of him, let alone the same house.
At first I told my wife I refuse to be in the same house as him but when I realized that she still intends on seeing him (at least that was her intention 2 years ago when we last talked about it), I told her I'd never let her be anywhere near him without me.
My ex girlfriend was somewhat like this. She knew she was horrible to be around until she had get morning coffee and cigarette so she got up before everyone else. Have you tried sleeping in or maybe going for a morning run
You did nothing wrong. You simply told him you wish he included you in his celebration which is reasonable. If he doesn’t want to include you then let him celebrate everything on his own. Block him back and move on, he’s not worth the energy or your emotional well being.
If he doesn't want to be affectionate you can't force him to. Perhaps it's time to find a partner who you feel like reciprocated your affection without having to ask
So it’s more damaging for that to happen than for her to stay with her abusing family for possibly years longer? (asking genuinely bc I saw this from another perspective)
I think you need to think really very hot why are you doing this. If I was asked to do this, I would tell him no and if he doesn't like it, he wouldn't be my boyfriend anymore.
Where your parents controlling? Did you have privacy in your life? Why do you think the request of making videos and sending to him when you go out is a reasonable request? (It's not by the way) Have you ever thought about his request or did you just do it?
Yeah there's a lot to process here. Short version is if you're calling it a cycle of misery… it's time to move on.
She is going to treat you the same way she treats him one day. You don't want that. You had your fun. Cut it off. Let her get her life straight. Don't end up on the news because the boyfriend came to pay you a visit. You know what you are doing is wrong and it is time to stop.
Bottom line is that she also knew he was abusive, from the beginning.
The nerve of her to scold you for not warning her that the man she was stealing from you was a jerk. He was the type of man to just throw away a relationship for a pretty little thing.
They both cheated on you, and she is acting like you are of low moral character. That's Rich!
Your family sounds very toxic. Please get some counseling, and know that, even though they are family, they will never have your best interest at heart. What happened has nothing to do with you. You Are The Most Innocent Of Bystanders!!!
I couldn’t finish reading this. Your boyfriend is going to lose his teeth and fuck up his health if he doesn’t get his shit together. Once the periodontitis progresses past a certain point it’ll be pretty much impossible to save his teeth and his jaw. Dental implants are catastrophically expensive and the process is long and painful. Everything I’ve read about dentures sounds really uncomfortable.
This might be a dealbreaker for me. Not because of the dental issues—but the refusal to prioritize like a fucking adult.
I have an incredibly similar story when I was 16, I feel like I'm reading my own story. I hope OP reads this. He's just going to destroy himself trying to make this work
I think the girl is trying to get the guy to co-sign for her, not actually on-line with her. Which if the dude has any brains at all he won’t do, but who knows.
Look honestly this is on him. Not disclosing this for a full year was not ok and it's not up to you to make it ok.
If you're not into his body then you're just no compatible and that it isn't it? Maybe you can find a way to be friends but it's not fair on either of you to continue a romantic relationship where a sexual one is not going to be possible.
Have you discussed what is an appropriate amount?
He may be asexual. My sister is a lesbian but she’s also asexual, she has the same thoughts on vaginas from what she’s told me. But she definitely loves women.
I know it seems like the default answer on here but this relationship doesn’t have a happy future if you aren’t compatible sexually.
Well, my child changed my life in the best way possible. You are a grown adult, you can make this work with one baby, even if eventually it doesn't work out. If you want the baby.
Every meaningful part of me, responsibility wise, developmental wise grew 100X from being a mother. I was also more focused less selfish, finished two degrees work for my self. My husband died of a brain tumor when my son was 6. I did everything right in getting married and was still on my own. But we did it and I am glad. It changed my personality.
Sometime what you need is a good breakup.
My advice is to forget about her. She'll sprinkle hope on the guy that shoots his shot if you two ever get together too.
Your girlfriend shouldn't pay for anything. The car was sold it's not her problem and no one intentionally tried to defraud the other. It's tough luck but it's your co workers problem.
You came here admitting this was a you problem and asking for advice on how to deal with it. This person suggested therapy, and you’re reacting as if you’re looking for validation that someone else did something wrong so you can blame them.
This is so sad. There’s so much here to worry about. In case you are wondering, yes, you can do better than him and have a relationship with someone who sees you as an equal unlike current bf, who won’t discriminate against your friends, and loves you just as much, if not more
She’s been taking a couple of vitamins every day and her diet has gotten a lot better. She doesn’t eat red meat but eats almost everything else. I think she also has stomach problems and her head always hurts but maybe she needs to get a better diet like you mentioned. I’ll try to talk to her about seeing a therapist. Thanks.
Your gonna need backup on this one my guy. At this point your kid is more important than uour relationship with your wife
I know where it's coming from. You're displaying empathy and compassion. But being kind must never trick you into succumbing to the cycle of abuse. You say he has PTSD, and he's been through so much in life. That's awful. I feel for him. But now.. he's taking it out on you, and innocent person, that he supposedly loves.
How long before he emotionally abuses you so much that you start to subconsciously do the same to your own children? How long before your children see this behavior and completely normalize it, and proceed to subject their future partners/children to the same abuse?
How long before his relentless emotional attacks break you down fully, and you just.. give up?
This must stop. And it has to stop NOW. Not tomorrow. Not next week. Not when there is a “good moment” to discuss it. You have to stand up for yourself right now.
I am not telling you to divorce him. But I am absolutely telling you to make it crystal clear to him, that he is never allowed to mistreat you this way ever again, no matter what you do. And then fight your corner. And if he truly loves you, and if he does have your values as you think he does.. then he will apologize sincerely, and stop, today, and never again hurt you in such a way.
But if he doesn't.. if he turns it on you, if he makes excuses, then I think you have to admit to yourself that you were wrong about him, and you don't share your values as you thought you did. And you must then make new decisions based on that information from there.
And remember.. you standing up for yourself doesn't mean that you're not acknowledging your own flaws. If anything, this post is start proof that you have self awareness, shame, and the willingness to do better. But you also must recognize priorities. And priority number ONE is to never again allow your partner to emotionally abuse you. No matter what he's dealing with. No matter what “mitigating factors” you can think up.
You're stronger than you think. Stand up for yourself.
exactly! & he is already cheating. no one does all this crap just to argue
Did they mix up “hanger” and “hangar”? Because that would make a bit more sense.
In so sorry that happened to him. He needs therapy
The age thing is whatever, people often lie about ages to protect anonymity. Anytime I go on the internet for advice I always lie about bits and pieces just in case the off chance someone irl recognizes my post. And the lies are never consistent, pretty sure if you look at my post history I'm anywhere between 25-35. I also have between 1 and 3 kids, JUST IN CASE!
The second part, however, is concerning. If this woman is the same woman he spoke of before, there's probably too much toxicity in this relationship for long term.
Don't EVER spend money to renovate someone else's house if you have no part in ownership! And he makes 3x as much as you? Who the hell does he think he is asking you to do something like that? Your boyfriend is an a$$, yourfather is absolutely correct, and I wouldn't trust him as far as I could throw him if my boyfriend asked that of me before marriage. Hang onto your savings and let the greedy a$$ fund his own renovations.
Oh ok! I didn't know I could just call. I know my mom's done that before, but that was mostly to re-new things. I'll definitely be doing that
Honey, I’m so sorry, but you two are fundamentally incompatible. Why would you wait a year to move in with him and his mom when you already know this?
Love is not enough. Love does not conquer all. Do not stay with someone expecting them to change their core values and principles or their life plan. You will only be disappointed, resentful and regretful in the end.
Now they're literally arguing like a married couple and it's a little weird to me. Maybe I'm overreacting though.
You are not overreacting. Your boyfriend and his mom have an unhealthy and codependent relationship. He is not her husband, but she leans on him like he is. He feels he can never leave home, and she feels like she can control every aspect of his life. Trust me when I say that if you move in, that will be extended to you as his partner and it will also be extended to your future children, should you have them. The dynamic is set. You do not want to raise a family with this man and his mother.
I shouldn't have been so honest but I feel like it needed to be discussed.
Yes, you should have been so honest! If you already feel you can’t be honest without it causing issues, what’s the point? You did need to discuss this. Now you have your answers. He isn’t going to leave his mom, and you don’t want to on-line with his mom. Enter the incompatibility.
I told him I felt like a 3rd wheel at his house with his mom, their house would always be theirs, all the decisions id worry id be left out of. Financial things, etc. Like I'd never feel secure because I'd have nothing in my name, and from the way I grew up it's soo important and necessary for me to know I'll be okay financially and on my own.
This is exactly how it will be. Your boyfriend and his mom function as a couple in their home and if you move in, nothing will ever be yours. You won’t make decisions about the house or farm or finances, and when kids come into the picture your then-MIL will very likely have strong opinions on how to handle them as well. Don’t do this to yourself or to your hypothetical children. It also makes complete sense for you to want to be financially independent and have your own home and life. This situation will never, ever afford you that and you will always come second to mommy, which is not how a partnership and eventual marriage is supposed to be.
Run.
Gosh, I wonder why parents would be leery of the grown adult who impregnated their teen daughter?
One other thing that your bf has to take into consideration is the fact that since he's not being paid by standard means then that means he wont show up as having an actual job, this is very concerning to other potential employers if he decides to move on, employers frown upon big gaps in employment so your bf is going to show up as a big gap some day.
Oh hell no! He's gross and needs to go! I have had multiple major surgeries in the 20 years my husband and I have been together. He's seen them from their very fresh and still wounds stage all the way to 19 years old and hardly visible anymore. He may keep forgetting that my whole outer right thigh still has residual nerve damage 5 years later and feels really weird to me when he touches it lightly, but he has never once said or even insinuated that the scars affect how he views me and my body at all. Mine are all in my hip and thigh area. I can't imagine having a significant other who was repulsed by the way my breasts look and then would actually have the audacity to say anything negative about it! But my husband knows that my body is mine and does not exist just to make him horny and give him pleasure.
It sounds like she needs to go no contact with him. He seems toxic and dangerous.