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Date: October 10, 2022
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You should definitely celebrate your birthday somewhere…without him, for four reasons. First, you deserve to be celebrated. Second, he's worried that you are too clingy, and he might be partially right (read about the anxious-avoidant trap!). Having fun by yourself on your birthday is a great way to show your independence. Third, if he's willing to continue the break on your birthday without telling you what to do with the train ticket or trip you had planned, he doesn't deserve you. Fourth, taking a break the week before you are supposed to see him screams married, has another girlfriend, or full-on catfish.
Wow, it sounds like you went thru a really tough time. Sometimes, it helps if I sit in a chair, put my feet on the ground, and just feel what's around me. Tell myself, “I'm here, I'm present. That can't hurt me anymore, it's the past.” Really feel the ground with your feet, reminding yourself that your safe. Pretend you're like a tree, the feet your roots. Feel your body, what's going on around you. Try to quiet your mind, but if a thought comes, let it, acknowledge it, and then let it move on. Like a leaf in a river. You see it, and it moves on with the current.
I know that kinda sounds a bit silly, but it really can center yourself, and your thoughts, so everything isn't so overwhelming. Also, it helps to really see your thoughts, and once something becomes tangible like that, it can be easier to manage.
As far as work tomorrow, look, if you need to take a day, if you CAN take the day, I would take it off. But you have to be productive with it. Do something to treat yourself! You did a good thing, you deserve a reward for that. Nowhere in your post do you sound proud of yourself for getting out of that drama, and you should be. All that BS, it's in the past, it's over. Block him on everything, you don't need that mess, and jump up and down for joy that you got rid of that speeding trainwreck. And feel your feet as you do that, remember, it's over. You're past it. All that BS is done, gone, and free from your life.
He has shown you exactly how little he honors and respects you. You two have literally had an up and down relationship throughout most of your marriage, and most of your relationship. You are on this planet one time, for a set amount of time, too. After which, you will never on-line or breath or think or feel again – why are you wasting the limited time you have on this planet with someone who does not value or respect you? He's been showing you who he is from the very start, you packing your things and leaving for a night or two will not change who he inherently is – someone who selfish and lacks character.
Honestly, as someone who has nothing but problems with family and inheritance, do not talk to these people about your money anymore. Money can make people jealous, entitled, and manipulative. They're already trying to manipulate you. When they asked to see your boyfriend's accounts, I audibly gasped. They're being so controlling as to demand proof of how much MONEY YOUR BOYFRIEND MAKES? Let's pretend you showed them that. Suddenly it's going to be, “look how much money he's making? You don't need that inheritance! We have so many needs. Do you REALLY think you DESERVE that inheritance when insert sob story and manipulation here”
Please head the advice here. I was manipulated during a very vulnerable time in my life, and I regret it everyday and there's nothing I can do about it now. Your inheritance is none of their business.
Also, speak to your lawyer about the probate court money – she'd know best about the circumstances surrounding that money.