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Date: December 19, 2022

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  1. I’m also trying to take in consideration that my bf obviously suffered from some trauma from his childhood with his mum too, he’s a very non-confrontational shy person always a yes man. I’m the total opposite very honest and not afraid to speak my mind.

  2. Well, the very first, last and only rule is a very simple one and it's the one he's been ignoring, and you absolutely 100% shouldn't – he isn't listening to her boundaries. Honestly, if you stop when she says stop – and she stops when you say stop, that's a winning combination right there. That's how you aren't going to pull the same mistakes. 3 months isn't a long time in a relationship.

  3. I'm curious how much each of you contributes to the household chores. Does she do most of the chores after working all day? Does she have to ask you for help? Does she feel valued and loved?

    Many women lose their sex drive when they feel like their partners aren't pulling their weight at home. No one wants to have sex with someone they feel like a parent to.

    That's just one potential issue. What about birth control? What is she on? Did it change about the time she lost her libido? Often BC turns libido off. Also, speaking of medication, SSRIs can really fuck with sex drive.

    What about your bout with depression? Maybe something there made her not want sex, and that hasn't been resolved.

    What about when you had sex regularly? Was it enjoyable for her? Or looking back, was she maybe just going through the motions?

    Couples counseling could be a good start. But be prepared to listen. Many many women have no sex drives with their partners due to their partner's lack of contribution to the relationships outside of the bedroom. If that happens to be the case, listen and try to understand. If it's not the case, be prepared to make a tough decision to leave if the issue doesn't appear fixable.

  4. I’ve never named her a gaslighter or anything, I’m not sure what you mean in the first section. I think either I’m misunderstanding you or you’re misunderstanding my writing. Sorry for not being clearer!

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