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I am sorry tell him, that in your eyes he wanted to meet his ex there, without you around, and you can't just forgive him. He has lied to you, and you can't know he dudn't cgeat, and please spare his words, cayse he has already lied to you about it.
Honestly that is divorce material, and do need to make him aware of that. First, tell he needs to tell you truth, why he did it. Din't kniw is a lie, and if that is his anwer you need to divorce him.
Second thing, he needs to do sth bug to make it up you. Off the top of my head: not meet with any if these “friends” for next year. Adfitionally, if asked why he can't tell you aaked him to unless he tells exactly what he has done and why.
Yes, I am spiteful person, but with the gravity of his deed this the least he should be willing to do. It is about him understanding his actions were unacceptable being willing to atone for them.
I dont know why you titled the post this way. It sounds like you want to leave her because she has a drinking problem that constantly puts her safety at risk, which is reasonable. In contrast, leaving someone because they were sexually assaulted is a scumbag move.
Also, clothes aren’t a small thing. They’re something you wear literally every single day to express yourself and make you feel good about how you look. You’re so young, take the dress and find someone who will love you no matter what you wear
It's a life goes on situation my man. A broken relationship if any type requires some distance. Watching them go on with their life hurts, the basis of almost all sad songs since the dawn of time.
Distraction, self improvement, and other friends is your best bet. Feeling alone is one of the worst feelings, platitudes don't help much, but I'm sorry. Maybe take a break from 'online' life and socialization for a while.
Thank you for your reply. It has been the most convincing to me thus far, perhaps because you are most relevant to me or you have the most empathy. I also appreciate your brief examples HAHA. I guess it is an important distinction that I don't necessarily want to have a lot of sex with a lot of different people. You are certainly right about the awful dating pool though and it is an important reminder.
Kinda crazy how you keep insisting it was accidental and all these internet strangers keep insisting it wasn't. I would go with your gut and if it truly was an accident and nbd, then don't worry about it. You would know better than anyone here. But if you're not sure how you feel about it, maybe there's a reason for that.
We’ve been together for 7 years but I’ve known her since I was 13 years old as she was my high school sweetheart.
That's the exact situation where if something like this happens you need to get out of the relationship and cut contact. How could you ever get over a betrayal like that? You can't.
And she did it despite that history. She literally did it without caring about you at all.
I caught her in the act in a car in January and during that she told me it started 2 months ago.
Man, it wasn't even in “accident' territory. It was full blown ongoing she 100% knew what she was doing and allowed it to continue. You can't rebound from that.
Situations like this are why you see so many guys saying that marriage isn't worth it. Your fiancé probably hasn't done a damn thing to you and now the best friend that he's probably been worried about at times is sure enough causing problems, even if they may not mean to.
She is totally trying to manipulate you and not on accident. It says a lot about your trusting nature that you took her back and you think she doesn’t know what she’s doing. However, I think you know in your heart, she’s doing everything on purpose. Act accordingly.
Op seems to think, the fact that his wife has this mental changes something, and is finally the reason to leave her. This a fundamentally wrong approach.
This may not be OP last romantic patner, so he needs to understand that there is no need to dug for medical data. If his partner is a terrible to him, he needs to leave them just, because of this.
You need to trust her at some point! It’s better to have an open and honest talk about it before drawing conclusions. You need to believe that you’re insecurities are just insecurities and not reality yet.
Communication is key. If you want a long lasting relationship with him you guys should be able to talk about it. I was a pretty average lover back in the day but my now wife told me what she likes and I obviously want to make her happy in bed and that’s what I done. Sex should be fun and easy if it isn’t is the wrong person
I am sorry tell him, that in your eyes he wanted to meet his ex there, without you around, and you can't just forgive him. He has lied to you, and you can't know he dudn't cgeat, and please spare his words, cayse he has already lied to you about it.
Honestly that is divorce material, and do need to make him aware of that. First, tell he needs to tell you truth, why he did it. Din't kniw is a lie, and if that is his anwer you need to divorce him.
Second thing, he needs to do sth bug to make it up you. Off the top of my head: not meet with any if these “friends” for next year. Adfitionally, if asked why he can't tell you aaked him to unless he tells exactly what he has done and why.
Yes, I am spiteful person, but with the gravity of his deed this the least he should be willing to do. It is about him understanding his actions were unacceptable being willing to atone for them.
I dont know why you titled the post this way. It sounds like you want to leave her because she has a drinking problem that constantly puts her safety at risk, which is reasonable. In contrast, leaving someone because they were sexually assaulted is a scumbag move.
Also, clothes aren’t a small thing. They’re something you wear literally every single day to express yourself and make you feel good about how you look. You’re so young, take the dress and find someone who will love you no matter what you wear
This^
It may be the “will go back after he is done with college” thing which makes her think that it's ok to introduce him as a scholarship kid.
Since he will be leaving again/ is no constant addition to her famiy in her eyes.
She may not have realised/ found relief in the thought, that he will not stay with you forever.
It's a life goes on situation my man. A broken relationship if any type requires some distance. Watching them go on with their life hurts, the basis of almost all sad songs since the dawn of time.
Distraction, self improvement, and other friends is your best bet. Feeling alone is one of the worst feelings, platitudes don't help much, but I'm sorry. Maybe take a break from 'online' life and socialization for a while.
$1 says OP is 14M
Thank you for your reply. It has been the most convincing to me thus far, perhaps because you are most relevant to me or you have the most empathy. I also appreciate your brief examples HAHA. I guess it is an important distinction that I don't necessarily want to have a lot of sex with a lot of different people. You are certainly right about the awful dating pool though and it is an important reminder.
Wouldn't happen to be named Emily would she?
Your comments alone make this post seem fake.
Are you my wife ? Some of us just don't like to text, and others are like my wife.
Kinda crazy how you keep insisting it was accidental and all these internet strangers keep insisting it wasn't. I would go with your gut and if it truly was an accident and nbd, then don't worry about it. You would know better than anyone here. But if you're not sure how you feel about it, maybe there's a reason for that.
He’s a stunted loser and there’s a reason why he is hanging out with 21 year olds at 28. Sorry it needs to be said. He will do it again.
Red flags all around. Yes some of us likes it, some don't, most of us (I hope) don't try to manipulate our other half to do it.
We’ve been together for 7 years but I’ve known her since I was 13 years old as she was my high school sweetheart.
That's the exact situation where if something like this happens you need to get out of the relationship and cut contact. How could you ever get over a betrayal like that? You can't.
And she did it despite that history. She literally did it without caring about you at all.
I caught her in the act in a car in January and during that she told me it started 2 months ago.
Man, it wasn't even in “accident' territory. It was full blown ongoing she 100% knew what she was doing and allowed it to continue. You can't rebound from that.
Situations like this are why you see so many guys saying that marriage isn't worth it. Your fiancé probably hasn't done a damn thing to you and now the best friend that he's probably been worried about at times is sure enough causing problems, even if they may not mean to.
Tell your fiance the truth. The whole truth.
I only date bold women because I hate this cultural expectation of being expected to read somebody's mind. Or always be in charge of every situation.
110lbs is definitely not underweight at her height. But yeah I agree, her bf is an ass.
I can't read past the part where he's old enough to be your dad ?
Please end it, and I encourage you to see your Gyno, to put your mind at ease. Then, you’ll be able to relax (as will your poor scrubbed vag lol)
OP, you deserve much more than to feel the way you do right now. Stop giving this asshole that power.
She is totally trying to manipulate you and not on accident. It says a lot about your trusting nature that you took her back and you think she doesn’t know what she’s doing. However, I think you know in your heart, she’s doing everything on purpose. Act accordingly.
Lol that's just not how any of this works. Even “perfect use” contraceptives all have a failure rate.
If you don't understand that this means some people get pregnant even after doing everything right, then you don't understand probability.
If you're going to list heights, provide weights, eye colors and blood types as well so we get a more complete picture.
In any case, you don't have to agree or go along with macho bullshit. Do your own thing.
He had a vision would believe that bullshit.
You didn’t have to legally register ownership? Not sure if that’s a thing everywhere, it is where I live
Op seems to think, the fact that his wife has this mental changes something, and is finally the reason to leave her. This a fundamentally wrong approach.
This may not be OP last romantic patner, so he needs to understand that there is no need to dug for medical data. If his partner is a terrible to him, he needs to leave them just, because of this.
Willing to make the means available. Everything to make this no longer an issue
OP, leave him. He's dating someone in their early 20s because no one his age will date him.
You need to trust her at some point! It’s better to have an open and honest talk about it before drawing conclusions. You need to believe that you’re insecurities are just insecurities and not reality yet.
Communication is key. If you want a long lasting relationship with him you guys should be able to talk about it. I was a pretty average lover back in the day but my now wife told me what she likes and I obviously want to make her happy in bed and that’s what I done. Sex should be fun and easy if it isn’t is the wrong person