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I agree, plus I could just rebuy all the items brand new since she's charging me full price and tell her to take it all. She would have to sell a lot of it since she won't have room for it in an apartment. Should I just pay her for the big stuff. She's even putting tissue box holders and light bulbs on list and towels.
My kids are all adults now, and I was thinking you had to do an amnio to do a prebirth test, too. I just looked and now I feel old at how far we've processed! The cost was also something that struck me.
OP, she's 23. She may have caught feelings or maybe it's just hormones (4 kids, the emotional roller coaster was wild), but a paternity test would feel like an accusation to me. Especially if I have feelings for someone. I would get pretty defensive, because I DON'T have a choice to leave for 9 months. Unexpected pregnancy can feel overwhelming, especially at 23. Try not making this a power struggle. Try softening your approach: “Look, I know it probably feels like I'm accusing you, but really I just have insecurities. Please help reassure me about this and I can help reassure you, too. This is uncharted territory for both of us, and if we are going to be parents, learning to listen and respect each other's needs, opinions and feelings will be best for our child.”
How hot is it to not. Leave the sponge in the sink? Maybe you habe add or something
Being that way is the problem.
But pushing yourself forward is important.
You ignored the music question.
But if you don’t have a solid plan there then you won’t find career success in future and that won’t build you up either.
Your mind is in the right place I think she did.
Wait and see? Could be good, could be bad.
My issue is that you think that OP has a say in that.
Wouldn't surprise me if you unearth a porn addiction
RULES and boundaries. I suggest reading The Ethical Slu*t. Check out r/polyamory and their wiki.
Sexual talk is not what I’m referring to. He needs to be apart of the conversations about foundational aspect of an open relationship.
D being able to have sexual conversations does not mean he’s mentally healthy to be in a triad.
“I do have confidence that we can avoid an explosive situation.” I like to call emotions, “human error”. People are complicated; adding the layers of your current established relationships complicates how the relationship will function in a healthy way. Please do research together and individually and talk about EVERYTHING before you start your dynamic.
You can make this work, but you have to do the research.
I am since I make a lot of money per month and I've been retired since I was in my late 20s. I'm a landlord and just focus on hobbies. 100% self made and I've even been homeless at one point. I have no sympathy for people who say millennial are doomed and things are hot for them. I made it and they didn't because they're lazy.
Yo. That is a glaring red flag.
Does she also try to isolate you from friends and family?
Leave this person. In my opinion there’s no recovery from this. There also is no reason to have a discussion with the person share any feelings sort anything out it will only make it worse. Quietly methodically pack up your things and depart. Best of luck to you good thing you found out now before you were in deeper. Your life will be better without this person.
Obvious troll is obvious. You’re being to much of an AH to make me believe this is a real post.
You’re either rage bating or are a terrible person and will probably be alone forever since you’ll push every partner away with your insane and selfish antics.
If I watch football but I'd never date an NFL player does that make me a hypocrite?
Its garbage logic and trying to force your perspective here is merely your own projected insecurity.
Case closed.
I've known a few women like that. I think it's cute.
I've known a few women like that. I think it's cute.
Well I’m sorry to say that it sounds like he is done by what he said. You have to accept his decision and move on. I would still apologize if you flew off the handle or got angry because life is about acceptance and realizing when we make mistakes. You have to learn from this and take something from this and apply it to your next relationship or to life in general. If want to be with someone who can give you more time, then you should look for someone that has the time for you, however I’d suggest that you should never forget that space and self discovery is very important in relationships. So if you feel afraid every time you’re alone or away from a boyfriend, learn to do that so that you can face that fear. Facing fears is very important in life.
This is wildly inappropriate of her. I know finding a new therapist is daunting after spending 5 years with one, but she is not maintaining professional boundaries with you. This is so unethical. I really advise you stop using her services and find a new, reputable therapist.
If she's easily influenced to leave you imagine what else she could be influenced to do while with you. I would not take her back ….
She is incredibly abusive, and she is creating a horrible environment for your children that will absolutely have lasting damage for their mental health and emotional development.
Tbh at the point you decided to snoop was the point the relationship was broken. Because it either went 1 of 2 ways. Either you found evidence of wrongdoing or you didn't. And in both scenarios the relationship would struggle to continue.
My first gf told me her ex used to leave phone numbers with women’s name on note pads .
She felt very insecure about it .
When they broke up , he volunteered that the names and numbers were fake and he did it to make her think she was in a competition to keep him.
i never played those mind games
He is stalking you. You need to get a restraining order.
Believe your kid.
You know deep down he is telling the truth. Your wife is trying to gaslight you . Be warned she will attempt to love bomb you next.
You could be single and work on yourself, instead of bringing someone else down in the process. But hey he took you back lol
Like the other comment: how can people be in a relationship and not talk lol just ask him my goodness
Because it worked all the other times?
You’re overthinking. Let the man have his porn
Sounds like he’s the one out of love
That is not what gaslighting is.
That’s either him lying or him being wrong about her mental state. Lying ≠ gaslighting. Manipulation ≠ gaslighting
Gaslighting means an organised and long term project to make someone doubt their sanity in all aspects of their life. Making someone believe that they do not have a grip with reality and are legit mentally ill, when they aren’t, is gaslighting. It’s really extreme form of abuse, and rarely happens.
How does your gf spend her time? Are you supposed to pay for the shopping?
Break up.
No, not vapes. It's really either I smoke or I don't. I don't do the patches or alternatives.
Ok. But he would rather leave you. So your options is to ask him to stop being sarcastic with you, accept he smokes however much he wants, or break up.
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This isn't about you. It's about him being absolved of the guilt for being a shithead. He wants you to forgive him. It's over. Tell him it's over. Block him everywhere and find someone who values you.
Your post history is very frightening, but gives this post a lot more context
OP if you're not already in therapy you need to get signed up immediately. The amount of times you post on her trying to make your bf look like the bad guy when it's really just you lacking communication skills is very concerning.
This seems to be another example of you making a problem when there isn't one! It's not about your independence, obviously you can walk yourself home. If you want to be a girl boss and take yourself home, knock yourself out. This is about your boyfriend trying to be nice and provide a service to you.
If you don't want to take his offer fine, but don't make this about some weird feminist boundary when it's just your boyfriend trying to be a good boyfriend. have you thought about the fact that your bf may just enjoy helping you, and taking care of you?
I'm not though. Backpedal just means to go back on your word, which she's allowed to do, hes just not an abusive asshole for being mad that she agreed then changed her mind because he violated a term she never established in the first place.
I have talked to her, she wants me and her parents to have a relationship but again they go out of their way to avoid me entirely with no real reason.
It matters to bother her and I, we just cant figure out a solution.
I want advice but very few people know how to give advice without also making assumptions. For example you calling me jealous, a false and stupid assumption. All you had ti say was stay out of it
Not at all ? I’d assume she’s jealous bc why would tf does it matter if he asked you out in the past? You obviously said no, which is why she and him are going on a date
You really need to rethink this relationship.
Sounds like you guys aren’t compatible. He made a good run at it.
If he wasn't interested why would he go at it alone with the other bitch? Oh he kept the door open, bs.
I don't care how strong hormones are, if a guy that's supposedly monogamous suddenly wants to sleep with the friend?
you are both 30.
your mother acts as if you were still 16.
all in all, it is not about you. it is only about her. once married your will be her equal, until you birth your first child, which will give you her status of mother while she receive the status of grandmother.
the real question is : does all this charade is really annoying for you ? if not, you could give her that little attention to show her she still matters for you. it depends heavily on your past relationship. don't do it if she were an asshole; do it if she was supportative.
That’s not an appropriate relationship and it seems like she’s willing to risk it all (eg if this guys says leave you she probably would). From here on, only actions will do, you’ve established that you don’t like the relationship based on their behavior and the circumstances, so now you have to show her that you’ve done your part to save the relationship and it’s now up to her to do everything else. Don’t rationalize with her, believe anything she says, or even engage her anymore.
Ask her to get a job, so you won’t get screw in the event of a divorce, and see a lawyer. She’s probably willing to tell you everything you want to hear but it’s most likely not about this guy, he’s just convenient, and would probably either re-establish that relationship later on or take up with someone else; women like to pick the next guy before they jump ship.
Personally, I think the marriage is over since she could’ve communicated her problems, and if she did then it’s just another sign of incompatibility. She’s taken too many steps to say she wasn’t aware of what she was doing and she proved that your objections are not an obstacle to her. Time to start thinking about the next step.
Give up. Find someone else. She isn't keen.
so it’s about building good behavior. Make a list of things he needs to do each day. (…)
the first half is great, but the second half is just “okay op, you now have another job in raising your husband, this very time consuming, ongoing, invisible, thankless task is now your extra daily duty – managing him and his incompetence and training him to treat you like an equal”
i agree with your first half, this guy is manipulative, knowingly or not, and wants his wife to baby him and lay flowers at his feet if he does anything. it's not fair, its not nice, and if he doesn't pull his head out HIMSELF she is setting herself up for a lifetime of unsuccessfully raising up her 40year old husband. :/
You can still have boundaries and rules for your FWB situation, you can be upset, but without setting boundaries with each other, it’s something you can’t hold against him. If the lack of commitment is an issue to you, then you’ll have to walk away. Don’t just expect without the conversation he’s just going to commit and be faithful.
In these kinds of cases open communication is essential or you’re going to end up more hurt than you anticipate- he stated no relationship, that’s giving him a constant hall pass… if you want to continue this, then it would be a good time to discuss what it looks like for both of you.
Play the game back, find any female friends if you are not looking to date at this point and have fun introducing them to your ex, play it like you are enamored by the girl you are bringing.
Or bring dates to these events and genuinely have fun in front of your ex and whoever she brings, bonus if you date is hot but really just have fun ignoring your ex while you have a good time with your date.