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1. He threatens you, had you convinced that his anger management is your problem (hell no) and wants to remain ‘friends’ (ie still be able to treat you like this and keep you on a string).

   No. Just no.

   Block him. He comes near you, you point out he can’t control himself and therefore you will not be ‘starting a fight’ (ie voicing valid concerns) because you will not be interacting in any way. Repeated attempts to contact you will result in you contacting the authorities (which quite frankly you should do anyway)

   And please see if you can talk to someone about this. He’s done you damage with his emotional abuse that can fester.

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2. I am expressing my feelings and reciprocating them to him in that moment. He does know my feelings as well, the challenge is that when I go to talk about it afterwards he doesn't want to engage and shuts down and I don't know if it's from fear of taking things to a new level or something else

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3. I think whenever you’re having an argument with your partner now and into the future you should work on the position you’re arguing from. Is your goal to win an argument or come to a resolution that’s beneficial to both parties. You’re a team and need to act like it, you need to work on you’re communication and your husband needs therapy. Couples counseling as well

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4. I am at a loss as to where the rule is in the bible about two people not living together before they were married.

   What he means is that the church is against this. Almost the whole of the reason for that is to stop people having sex before marriage (which the bible probably does forbid) but which you are already having.

   A religious and non-religious relationship can work and I know couples happily together for decades in such.

   But it can't work where one or both are dogmatic about parts- especially if they are picking and choosing. Unfortunately, your boyfriend is doing this; he is using his religion to draw red lines on things he doesn't want to do. I would worry why he wants to avoid cohobating before marriage. Religion is just his excuse to veto something he doesn't want to do.

   Personally, if I were dating someone Christian I would be asking them if they believed that I was going to everlasting torture and pain when I died. If they do, I don't think I could stand to be with that person. Certainly one of the most unpleasant aspects of Christianity and one that is hot to shake from the mind while talking to Christians

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