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She's obviously being illogical here, not only for the cost of perfume, but for the fact that she at all thinks it's an appropriate ask after 7 months.
We can even ignore all that and call it an issue of communication. She “hinted” at his. If it's what she wanted, she could have said as much, although I'd hope you'd still say no.
Your gift was incredibly thoughtful, showing you're paying attention to her, and it also wasn't exactly inexpensive. After all that, she's being an absolute brat. If this is how she's acting in a situation like this, I can't imagine this behavior happens in a silo and that this is an isolated incident, but you'll have to let us know.
Do NOT fucking buy the perfume, and certainly don't buy it on credit, which is you telling us that you can only buy it if you purchase it that way. That's you setting yourself on fire to keep her warm.
Anecdotally, I'm a guy and I'm happily married. I also do quite well financially, and I promise you that in certain situations, I've bought expensive gifts for my wife. I tell you this so that you understand I'm not just coming at this from a perspective of just “she's a gold digger.” She is, but that's not the perspective I'm coming at this from. Your girlfriend is simply unreasonable all around. Be direct about your feelings and don't allow it to be deflected. Good luck.
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She's obviously being illogical here, not only for the cost of perfume, but for the fact that she at all thinks it's an appropriate ask after 7 months.
We can even ignore all that and call it an issue of communication. She “hinted” at his. If it's what she wanted, she could have said as much, although I'd hope you'd still say no.
Your gift was incredibly thoughtful, showing you're paying attention to her, and it also wasn't exactly inexpensive. After all that, she's being an absolute brat. If this is how she's acting in a situation like this, I can't imagine this behavior happens in a silo and that this is an isolated incident, but you'll have to let us know.
Do NOT fucking buy the perfume, and certainly don't buy it on credit, which is you telling us that you can only buy it if you purchase it that way. That's you setting yourself on fire to keep her warm.
Anecdotally, I'm a guy and I'm happily married. I also do quite well financially, and I promise you that in certain situations, I've bought expensive gifts for my wife. I tell you this so that you understand I'm not just coming at this from a perspective of just “she's a gold digger.” She is, but that's not the perspective I'm coming at this from. Your girlfriend is simply unreasonable all around. Be direct about your feelings and don't allow it to be deflected. Good luck.