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I think you know the answer.
I don't agree with the whole tough love and hitting rock bottom thing at all. Addicts usually become addicts because of trauma and an inability to cope with the world as it is. Connection is the antidote to addiction. Anything that isolates them or ostracizes them will only make the situation worse.
Until an addict is, themselves, ready to stop their drug of choice, you have to trust that they know what is best for themselves and that you don't know – because you are not them. It appears from the outside that just stopping the drug is the answer but until they can handle doing that, it's not. Also relapse is absolutely a part of recovery so a relapse is never failure.. it's one more step closer to recovery.
Mom may very well be enabling him because she's not being given any other tools that might help. Her instinct is probably to do whatever she can to keep him alive and out of the criminal justice system and she's correct to do that. However, she will also have to have very firm rules and boundaries around the situation. The current atmosphere around addiction is not going to help her to do that.
If you can find a really good trauma based addiction counselor, your family might be able to figure out arrangements that work for everyone involved. If you can't I suggest the work of Gabor Mate, you can google his name. There are also somatic therapists that can help.
If you're concerned about her behaviour and the effect it's having on her relationship, you might want to consider speaking with your boyfriend. Be gentle and focus on your concerns rather than accusing her of anything.
If you're all in the same social circle, other people have likely noticed what's going on. It might be helpful to discuss the situation with them and get their input on handling it.
Ultimately, you need to do what's best for yourself. If you're not comfortable with the situation, you have the right to distance yourself from it. This may mean not hanging out with the group as much or even ending the friendship altogether. It's important to prioritize your own well-being and happiness.