Honey, I'm married with a husband. We lived together for 3 years before we got married.
I lived with a few partners before, we worked amazingly before, and found out that how we lived in our house was just vastly different and we just didn't work together like we did when we only dated or slept over.
You still haven't specified, what do you mean by “act like a wife”? Tell me, exactly what do you want to do once you have your signature on a piece of paper that you won't do otherwise?
On your other thread, you said you wanted to hear about his childhood from someone else – so you thought he was lying? Evidently you didn't trust his judgement. Then you went on to describe how you feel about specific actions – it isn't about how you feel or your call though, is it? But you made it all about you, based on your posts.
If I were you, I'd probably be rethinking marriage anyway – this event has shown you obviously have some concerns about your partner that you've yet to acknowledge – although quite why you need detail of a traumatic childhood I dont understand – as well a complete lack of respect for him as a person and a lack of sound judgement of your own.
If I were in his position, I'd be wondering how I could ever trust you with anything close to me, or even at all; given the extreme actions taken in such a short space of time, with a total disregard for my feelings on the matter.
Honey, I'm married with a husband. We lived together for 3 years before we got married.
I lived with a few partners before, we worked amazingly before, and found out that how we lived in our house was just vastly different and we just didn't work together like we did when we only dated or slept over.
You still haven't specified, what do you mean by “act like a wife”? Tell me, exactly what do you want to do once you have your signature on a piece of paper that you won't do otherwise?
On your other thread, you said you wanted to hear about his childhood from someone else – so you thought he was lying? Evidently you didn't trust his judgement. Then you went on to describe how you feel about specific actions – it isn't about how you feel or your call though, is it? But you made it all about you, based on your posts.
If I were you, I'd probably be rethinking marriage anyway – this event has shown you obviously have some concerns about your partner that you've yet to acknowledge – although quite why you need detail of a traumatic childhood I dont understand – as well a complete lack of respect for him as a person and a lack of sound judgement of your own.
If I were in his position, I'd be wondering how I could ever trust you with anything close to me, or even at all; given the extreme actions taken in such a short space of time, with a total disregard for my feelings on the matter.