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Room for online sex video chat Angelica_2001
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Date: March 22, 2023
I respect your POV, but I have to respectfully disagree with your assessment of the situation.
I see this whole thing as very immature as a matter of fact. Honesty in and of itself is not an indicator of maturity.
Think about it? Who are the most honest people on earth???
Children. Kids. They just say whatever they think. So honesty doesn't mean much on its own.
And just because OP didn't flip the fuck out isn't an indicator of maturity either.
In fact, the idea that he is open to her remaining in contact with her work crush and limiting it to “just work” stuff is a glaring example of his naivety.
So her “honesty” and his “calmness” could be, at first glance, considered “mature” without considering the details.
She is 25 and can't figure out how to manage this situation on her own and feels the need to confess to her fiance because she can't control herself. And he is 28 and is trying to play good guy fiance and not “control” his spouse, allowing these embers to stoke.
These are BIG RED FLAGS that should at the very least delay this wedding if not cancel it all together. This dynamic of her inability to self regulate and his inability to place appropriate and effective boundaries will plague their relationship until it ultimately dooms it.
SMH ??♂️
He basically admitted, through his own words “both (LoL and the relationship) are a lost cause” and his actions (you always planning the dates and him canceling anything he planned to go play the game), that the relationship is over.
It takes two to make a relationship work, and he is doing absolutely nothing. He was great, and now that he got you in a relationship with him, he doesn't need to put in the effort anymore.
If you still want to try, see if he can be able to stick to a schedule. Set time aside for the relationship, and time for you guys to do your own thing. That way, a fair compromise is made. If he won't stick with it, then I'd suggest you call it off. He may be a good friend, but not a good boyfriend. If he can, then there's hope for the relationship.
Even though I play games a lot, there's a time for everything. I do my social work, my house work, my job and then my games after everything is taken cared of. If I have something big coming up, whether it be a vacation, a lot of overtime at work, or a game I want to no-life, I always communicate that to others ahead of time.