He laid his cards on the table and he doesn't find you attractive. I honestly don't see a way that you can recover from this. What? You are both going to have sex with other people for awhile and he will magically find himself attracted to you again? No. Damage is done. You deserve to be with someone that finds you attractive.
Side note. My dad actually struggled a lot with attraction to my mom. Why? She had cancer and all sorts of awful stuff happened to her body. Lost her hair, looked pale and dead etc. But he loved her and never told her, because he knew how badly that would hurt her. He certainly didn't ask to have sex with other people.
Aww man. Does he not react at all? Then it almost seems like he doesn't want to spend money on you… which in return could mean he's unsure about your relationship. Idk, I don't want to jump to conclusions that could be wrong. But you really need to talk with him then. Maybe just straight up ask him why he doesn't treat you no repaying?
Breakup, don't take a break.
He laid his cards on the table and he doesn't find you attractive. I honestly don't see a way that you can recover from this. What? You are both going to have sex with other people for awhile and he will magically find himself attracted to you again? No. Damage is done. You deserve to be with someone that finds you attractive.
Side note. My dad actually struggled a lot with attraction to my mom. Why? She had cancer and all sorts of awful stuff happened to her body. Lost her hair, looked pale and dead etc. But he loved her and never told her, because he knew how badly that would hurt her. He certainly didn't ask to have sex with other people.
Aww man. Does he not react at all? Then it almost seems like he doesn't want to spend money on you… which in return could mean he's unsure about your relationship. Idk, I don't want to jump to conclusions that could be wrong. But you really need to talk with him then. Maybe just straight up ask him why he doesn't treat you no repaying?