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Well then you should just stay and suck it up right? Maybe if you get married he’ll get better. Better yet, why not make him a dad. That’ll sure improve his behavior and your relationship. /S
Update, she was lying about her age on the app, she's not even 18 yet. I noped out of it, 4 years 362 days difference exact.
Thank you for your honest opinion. I have started actively looking for a therapist to help me set some things straight in my head.
No, I would't know why she acts devastated by some weird guy telling her “goodbye”. I would've expected her to be like “Whatever” to the dm, I guess I don't expect her to be depressed.
You must not have ever hung out with a somewhat decent looking girl. Guys will say yes and give you anything when you are pretty.
Thank you for your thoughts!
So, I’m a CSA. The only appropriate way to get over a pedophile is to stand 6 feet above them, while you’re pissing on their grave.
You are the only person in this family who is behaving in a healthy way. Literally everyone else is rug sweeping for him and blaming your partner, the victim. Even your partner does it to herself. One day, that will be you child they do this to. Pedophiles don’t stop. They don’t change. They just get better, and build bigger control nets.
I'm sorry but your relationship is dead. He isn't into who you are. You aren't doing anything wrong (unless stated in comments and ive missed it). You clearly aren't compatible
You're looking for negative meanings in a totally innocent and nice text. Why are you doing that to yourself and him?
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It can be awkward but… this is one of those things you have to talk with your partner about in a healthy relationship. We on the internet can guess, but that's all it is, guesses. If you really want to find out what the issue is, you'll have to ask him. There's a million other things it could be besides a problem with you. Maybe he's religious and is feeling guilty when he does it. Maybe he's got kinks he's too embarrassed to share with you, maybe he's shy about his performance, maybe a million other things. Talk to the man and then whatever it is you can work through it together.
Sigh.. won't somebody think of the children over here. Of course the child is the biggest victim here.
If OP was a halfway decent person none of this would have happened.
And you just proved my point that you don’t care about his feelings nor his boundary regardless of anything gonna happen in strip club. Yikes….
AITA mods are really off the deep end so don't feel bad. Of course you're not the AH and glad you left that group of friends behind.
Question, are you Japanese or westerners living in Japan?
Get yourself check for STD constantly
Yeah I knew I’d get judgements which is fine I know I had my responsibility in this but time after time I am appalled as to how some people are so selfish like this guy was to me, I’d never be able to act like that with someone
So he wants to fuck whoever he wants while you remain loyal? No. Leave him. You deserve better.
There's really no point trying to help you, because you are so native to the fact they will sleep with each other behind you back.
i added additional context.
He winds you up that far on purpose. He upsets you on purpose. He enjoys this. It's not an accident.
Kinda doesn't because words have explicit meaning. I'm not talking in riddles here
If you trust her now and believe it was a mistake she made in her youth 7 years ago what good could come from asking the details?
Right? Just tell him that yes, hearing about her ex who left her at the altar has brought up old memories and issues she needs to work through. Can't just leave your partner in the dark for 3 weeks suspecting something is wrong.
Like every time I see this type of post someone inevitably quotes from When Harry met Sally, then someone has to remind them that Sally was open with Harry what she was going through!
Why are you engaged to 31 year old baby man when you are 21? Ditch the dude and live! your life. This is not someone you want to be raising kids with, unless you want them being exposed to the crazy MIL on the daily.
People still look at the chive??
Are you sure he is a he? Or doesn’t have a micro penis? There’s really no way other the communication your going to have to ask. Know there’s a good chance this may never change
your husband views you as a baby making machine, nothing more. get out of there.
I’m also questioning why tf you got married
Uninvited. It is that easy. I made sure all the assholes that could potentially be at my wedding weren’t invited, and my wedding was AMAZING. You have no obligation to invite them. Practical jokers are abusive.
You are enabling his attitude that he doesn't have to work. How can you respect him? Or yourself if you put up with it? He sounds like a loser.
Why does “cultural sensitivity” only have to be given by the bf, and not the father? They're two different cultures, why is only one deserving of an effort? And why do I get the feeling that if the bf had been in Nigeria, even though his culture would be the transplant, that OP would be expecting him to respect her father in his homeland?
I'm happy to read the last update, but what a waste of everyone's time and energy. OP should feel stupid for not knowing this about herself, sorry not sorry.
Not that OP IS stupid, but you should feel stupid.
See your lawyer. Follow Instructions
It’s his brother and his closest friend. He probably grew up with this guy and, could possibly, be there until they day one of them dies. He could choose to bin it all to take the moral high ground for a girl he’s been with a couple of years.
Then, in 20 years time when they are all older and he doesn’t see his own nieces and nephews, his mother and father are torn in half, and just want to see their kids have a good relationship before they die, but they refuse to speak. He can remember this post and all the karma and little pats on the back he got from virtue signalling randoms. He will totally agree it was all so worth it. Meanwhile the current gf will have a husband, kids and won’t give a single shit about either of them.
People are not perfect, you’ve hurt people, I’ve hurt people, in different ways. I have actually cut a brother out of my life for a reason much worse than this. This is trivial shit. It’s not to be taken lightly.
Wow, that's alot, thank you for sharing. ^
The fact that the friends conscience was so guilt ridden that they had to tell you shows that your wife is not remorseful for her actions. She’s only sorry she got caught. Understand that she doesn’t think you will leave her and will try riding this out until you forgive and forget. As most have already said, this was surely not her first time doing this. I would wager that her closet has a lot of buried skeletons that you would find if you start digging.
Well, you could make an effort to learn the language of the family you married into. Are you legitimately dumber than all of them with their dual language capabilities, or do you simply not care enough to try?
And I wouldn't dream of telling my wife's parents they couldn't be in the hospital during their grandkids' birth. Especially if they were present grandparents.
Idk man, seems to me you and I have very different life paths and outlooks. Good luck to you man.
I vote for the old flaming bag of shit on the porch.
Thankyou for the comment – I do really appreciate it.
He hasn’t exactly gotten into a new group of friends, I guess he used to be a little bit of a wild child… he would drink often and have very short lived relationships that wouldn’t stick… till me! When we met I was very happily single and he was the one who chased me, I was hesitant about commitment and he was the one who sort of initiated the entire relationship. For the first year (again, even at that point his longest relationship) he was beyond perfect. He liked the fact I’m a non drinker and enjoyed non alcohol related activities, now he seems to have lost interest. Part of me worries he was trying to settle down because he felt it was “time to settle down” rather than because I’m the one for him. Thoughts?
I haven’t considered that he might be cheating; however if he is I have to know in myself that it says more about him than it does me. I try to believe that he would leave rather than cheat… but I’ve been burned before!
Do you have any pointers for how I could possibly open the conversation in a non inflammatory way? I’m conscious of his feelings too and I don’t want to sound like I’m attacking him… but I just don’t feel loved or appreciated anymore. Im no Megan Fox … ? but I’m not hideous, I’m smart and I like to think I’m kind and honest and overall a good catch…. Im aware that if he doesn’t love me someone out there would…. I just really wanted it to be him! I still get butterflies when I kiss him for heavens sake…
Thankyou again x
Definitely bidet. If he goes ape on the butt wipes you'll never unclog that.
Finally a nuanced reply that isn't just a knee-jerk reaction to demonize people who are stealth/in the closet.
You can't though. It's a default for him to protect his idea of self, his ego, at all costs. He internally has no confidence and is deeply insecure, but cares more than anything about other people's perspective of him. That's why everything he's interested in is from someone else or is a mirror of your interests. He's only focused on the “image” and not the substance. His energy is only focused on protecting & bolstering his ego, not developing it.
He makes these assumptions about your intent not just because of his insecurity though, but to keep you in a position of defense & self-doubt. It makes him feel powerful. He doesn't respect your opinion as an individual if he constantly assumes your intent without listening to your actual feelings and always believes you to be malicious. Typically narcissists believe everyone is malicious because that's what they would do if the roles were reversed.
there are plenty of very good reasons to have your location shared with people you trust. recently my little brother got his truck stuck in the middle of nowhere, he called me, and i used life360 to take me to where he was so i could help him. i wouldn’t have been able to find him without that.
that being said, you should be very cautious of who you share your location with, and if someone gives you any reason not to trust them with that information then stop sharing it with them. this was not op’s fault for having her location shared with a trusted friend, her friend abused that trust.
We 69 sometimes but I’m too focused on blowing him during that for it to feel good for me. I can only get off if I’m really focused on the pleasure
Honestly, I would absolutely hate having something like that matching with my husband on my social profiles and would change it as swiftly as possible. I’m pretty private regarding what I post live! and I would just find that cheesy in a way I don’t like.
So no, if the roles were reversed I wouldn’t feel worried or upset if my husband changed his profile picture.
Hahhhh. Sure he is doll, sure he is. I wonder if his long time gf knows if they are in an “open relationship.” That's what women in their thirties dream of after all, true love, commitment, and their partner fucking co-eds.
While GP are great they normally are not the right professional to prescribe psych meds. He may be on the incorrect one for his needs. He should really consider a mental health evaluation for correctly assessing his needs and what meds he should be on. He should also consider individual counseling. There has to be a block somewhere that causing the lack of intimacy, a fear, anxiety that he needs to work through. Encourage him to go to therapy.
You are a wonderful person to be patience with him. Remember him not being responsive to you is not you at all, it is his issue and hopefully you both can work together to find a solution.
I wish you luck and send you my support, he is truly lucky to have such a great person.
What the hell is wrong with you? Stop using “psychotic” as an insult, it's a psychiatric term still in use. You're also verging on functionally illiterate with the “no one has black and white things” because you could not infer basic meaning from “because of his eye color.” I'm guessing it's a rarer eye color, and because they're Latino, they are used to brown eyes.
Legitimately, I repeat: what the hell is wrong with you?
Alternatively, you two could start doing the exact same thing to her. And when she inevitably calls you out, “oh sorry, I was looking at your laundry” or “I don’t wanna make you upset, I’ll leave.” After a few times she will probably get the message. If direct doesn’t work, show her.
It's a weird situation but ill say this. You and ger werent exclusive it seems and basically her and David have an open relationship. So I don't really(?) see it as cheating. Not to mention it seems like David approves
Move on mate
You do understand that you are being abused, right? This man is garbage. And quite frankly, that’s putting it nicely. You deserve to be treated with dignity and respect, not insults and abuse! You need to get out of this relationship immediately. And I would strongly recommend that you get professional therapy, to work on your self esteem, and to figure out why you put up with this behavior. You deserve so much better!
You’re an idiot and I’m not going to waste time giving advice you’ll never take
You’re an idiot and I’m not going to waste time giving advice you’ll never take
Hey, they’ve been practicing for 30 years. They better be good at it by now
All the guy friends who kiked her and she friendzoned decided to out her from their friend circle, now shes salty
Its your fault to leave her and go. Either she was going to come too or you would stay with her. AH here is your friend to put you in this stustion but you completed it.
Um I wouldn’t be too worried because I have friends like this and they’re 100% functional mature adults who just coke a few times a year with no problems. Having said that if it makes you uncomfortable it’s something you should express and if she really respects you she will try to avoid it. I know because my bf is pretty straightedge when it comes to drugs and I don’t do it recreationally at all anymore because I know it would upset him. Also if she does partake in a little fun, there are fentanyl strip tests you can get to test the drug to make sure its free of any fentanyl.
Someone doing coke 1-3x a year is like someone getting drunk 1-3x a year- it’s not something to be overly worried about. You guys are also kinda young and there’s a stronger appeal for thing kind of “fun”. I’m betting she’ll very likely grow out of this stage of life where she wants to go to festivals and parties and do drugs by the time she’s in her 30’s lol.
The fuck are you talking about.
It honestly sounds like he's the one that dodged a bullet here.
Just curious, what did she lose the 1/10 for?
Step 1: Get him to stop watching fox news
Step 2: that's it step 1 normally works
Tell him the truth but try to be gentle with it. I know you're concerned for his emotional well-being and his financial that this point of he's planning on moving countries, which, by the way, moving countries is super complicated and it certainly isn't going to happen smoothly with someone he has never met in person, so I'm not sure he's really thought anything through.
Tell him your feelings, show him evidence and be prepared for the push back. People don't want to admit they've been duped and he's going to fight you on this, saying you don't understand their relationship and blah blah blah. Just give him the information and let him decide what to do with it.
All in all he is a fully grown man and if he wants to throw his life away for a lie after being told the truth there isn't anything you can do about it.
I understand that, but this specific account utilizes it so much. The only reason I called it out is because I recognized the specific username from commenting it often. I mean, c'mon, 13 times in the last two weeks? On various subs? Usually not even giving any advice to the matter at hand?
Just odd to me that the user cares so much that they feel the need to trigger a script to get a notification when OP gives more information on how he dealt with an awkward/uncomfortable situation with his girlfriend. The story itself isn't even particularly noteworthy. And I'm sure it doesn't make OP feel good that some random acc is following the story for updates like it's a serialized TV drama.
What’s the problem. It was before you started dating.
I investigate the possibility of a threesome or foursome.
When your given lemons make lemonade.
I don't know he's making it very very hot
wow I also like the series “You” but do not exaggerate
I would let it lie. You did great in making it happen for him. You wanted him to be happy and he was happy. He also had to do the right thing by the people who came to celebrate with him. That is very hot on you. And yes, hurtful. We are all thoughtless sometimes. Be glad you were selfless and were giving enough to let him enjoy being popular. Right now, you’ve got brownie points from this. Don’t make yourself look bad.
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