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Eh, I'd say it's about 30 meters away, so that unfortunately doesn't look like an option. The general idea sounds like something to explore though. Thanks for the input!
I can do that but I know she'll just mock me and suggest that she'll be talking to me soon.
I'm embarrassed to say I have broke up with her a few times already and I always go back. That's why it seems futile to even say it's over it seems like it's better for me to just ignore her and as each day passes that I don't talk to her I feel like it will be easier for me to move on.
I think I finally have the strength to do this because of what recently transpired in the fact that she's going to be on a two-week vacation two weeks from now so if I can ignore her for 2 weeks on my own accord then I'll also be able to ignore her for the two weeks she's on vacation and hopefully I'll have had time to process everything and move on.
How can I trust what you say if you can't even get OPs gender right?
No such thing.
U need to reevaluate your relationship bc giving attention to your partner is the bare minimum.
Your being groomed to be a substitute “husband” and if i were you i would run till my feet hurt.
Uh oh! You didn't mention this earlier. That could very well be what is happening. Time to go into investigation mode.
Been married 32+ years and I can only come with a vibrator. But we incorporate it into our sex life and he gives 100% attention and simulation at the same time. Some people’s brains are wired differently. It is not from lack of trying.
Let her go most likely she is GAY and trult hasn't opened up about it
Good advice. You never know when ‘too far’ has been reached til it’s too late. It’s like the toothpaste tube analogy. Can’t stuff drunken behavior back into the past, once you’ve created your reputation it’s difficult to change perceptions.
And number 2 – I don’t know how this isn’t more common sense knowledge. Any male coworker I’ve had that I was friends with – even if both of us had partners – I made sure to always include their wives in social plans, and never be in a position that I wouldn’t want to be in as the wife. If your partner starts hanging out with someone of the opposite sex outside of work, one-on-one, after already spending the bulk of their work week with that person…??? marinara flags.
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This is the best answer.
You'd think, but a lot of people of the older generation seem to struggle with the concept that them being omnipresent isn't “helping.”
Went through something similar when my mom had cancer surgery a few years ago. My grandmother kept insisting that she was going to fly out to “help.” I eventually had to explain to her, in the most torturously delicate way possible, that throwing a houseguest into the mix while my dad and I were already emotional wrecks running back and forth to the hospital 5+ times a day would in fact be the opposite of helpful.
Issue is the fact that there was a lie to find out was a coincidence. You are and probablt will spy on regardless whether she gives you actual reason to be anxious. I am not sure whether you should tell her, she will be mad at you obviously. Maybe try to “punish” yourself for this by not checking her stuff anymore. I mean sort of in exchange for not revealing it you won't come clean about your current spying. Should you break your own resolve come clean with everytging inclyding your snooping from this time.
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He's done it to all of their friends.
It doesn't read to me as much like a petty revenge thing as much as it's a “I didn't expect this leopard to eat my face” type of thing.
I have done that but understandably he’s just like “well that’s my dog I love her” and I don’t even really know what to say after that to be honest. He knows many examples and how I feel (and how I feel so irrational saying it), he said he would try to make time spent with me not feel like I’m keeping him away from his dog but it’s kind of just been the same.
31F here. I don't recommend calling lol I'd just not pick up and label the person as a weirdo for calling me. I'd default back to whatever was your main method of communication previously. Also make sure you say you're single so she doesn't get the wrong idea about you.
I thought I already posted this, but I can't find it, so here I go again:
Take her to a hard beach or nudist resort or nudist camp (we nudists don't call them colonies). I know it's naked to imagine, but in less than ten minutes you'll be wondering why you ever wore a bathing suit at all. Until you go you can't understand what a totally non-sexual environment it is, and I promise you you won't get an erection.
As for how to bring up the subject, why not just say “Since you like skinny dipping, let's go to this naked beach I found….” Really, that's all it will take.
She doesn’t, she just needs to find some guy on antidepressants who that’s acceptable number for.
I remember that too.
So you strangled her? What advice are you looking for here? People to tell you it was ok to strangle your girlfriend so hard you left bruises?
Jesus, some of these comments are so mind boggling
I had two thoughts came to mind when I read this. The shaggy song it wasn’t me. And the line from Woody woodpecker if Woody had gone straight to the police this whole thing never would’ve happened. Yes I’m old. I think your husband is a fucking liar, and he got scammed, and he isn’t being truthful with you.
Well actually I did say go for it when he said it the first time. He accused me of not loving him and leading him on
Report the video.
Screen shot everything!! Save it and have proof. Get tested for STDs. Separate financials asap, take your $ out of any shared accounts. If you on-line together . Safeguard all your important possessions and important documents. If you share a phone plan, get in your own. Ch age passwords to all of your apps, bank accounts, everything . Whether you think she knows them or not. Beg off dinner/visit , so she goes alone and you can get this all done. She’s a serial cheater and is going to try and gaslight you and lie.
Do not confront her until you and your things are protected. And know what you want as an outcome. Meaning, it’s over? It’s not and you want counseling, etc? No one can tell you what is right for you but thus isn’t salvageable, IMO. Best case, she has serious mental health/sex addictions to work through worst case she’s just a lying, cheating POS.
So very sorry that you are going through this.
Screen shot everything!! Save it and have proof. Get tested for STDs. Separate financials asap, take your $ out of any shared accounts. If you on-line together . Safeguard all your important possessions and important documents. If you share a phone plan, get in your own. Ch age passwords to all of your apps, bank accounts, everything . Whether you think she knows them or not. Beg off dinner/visit , so she goes alone and you can get this all done. She’s a serial cheater and is going to try and gaslight you and lie.
Do not confront her until you and your things are protected. And know what you want as an outcome. Meaning, it’s over? It’s not and you want counseling, etc? No one can tell you what is right for you but thus isn’t salvageable, IMO. Best case, she has serious mental health/sex addictions to work through worst case she’s just a lying, cheating POS.
So very sorry that you are going through this.
This sounds a little confusing.
I don't think her looks or resume are important but the fact that he only talks to her when “single” and the conflicting things he says are a bit weird. I am personally still friends with my longest ex, we were extremely close and very happy together but ultimately wanted different things. I'm sure it's hard for my current partner in some way but for me I'm not with him because I don't want to be. Sure he has many good things about him, as does the girl you're talking about but it's just not what I need in my life.
Well said
I was newer to Reddit at the time and was trying to be more discreet about it and wanted simple advice. 188 days ago is when it initially somewhat started.
There’s no weird fantasy, if you don’t like the post, sorry.
I am just saying this because I am fishing around at possible ideas. This is a really tricky situation, and it could be any number of things.
Personally, I am an introvert, and when I am in a relationship, I focus very directly on my relationship and not a ton on much else. He sounds like a very attentive lover, and a very driven individual, and that is great. If I were to guess – I would surmise that all of his resources are spent on you and his goals, so he sacrifices a lot of other relationships to get that.
I say this because I am the same way.
I'd still push it back now. It will take a lot of open communication and possibly therapy for this to be resolved. This could easily take several months. Postponing or cancelling now will take that pressure off and will probably be much cheaper than cancelling 2 months out.
DNA test your kid
That would give me a long pause, and I would need some distance. No heads up? Just sprung it on you? I would have left and not looked back. But, you do you.
H9w do you feel about it?
It’s ok to end an engagement.
People do it every day.
My sister was going to marry into a very well known, very wealthy family in a big city. She knew he wasn’t right for her & ended it 2 months before the wedding. She had to return wedding gifts that costs hundreds of dollars each. Thousands of dollars in deposits lost. Our parents told her her happiness is more important than staying in a bad relationship. Thank god. She said she felt so much better after all the calls were made and the decision was made public. It was the right decision.
You can end it too.
So this guy has sexually assaulted you 3 times in 3 years and you’re still with him.
Please end this “relationship” sooner rather than later. He’s a rapist.
Yes, if you don't support him then why would you be his friend?
If they were being genuine in their faith they wouldn't get divorced. The bible says a lot more about divorce than homosexuality.
Some men lose attraction it situations like this but some men get attracted even more when their partners gain weight. 50 Ibs isn't even that much. He sounds supportive and caring but you sound like you don't appreciate it enough. He knows you're working on yourself. He still loves you and wants you. Isn't that enough proof for you? I'm sure he will appreciate you initiating. Talk to him about your insecurities and let him know some positions or lightings are making you uncomfortable. Maybe use candles instead of leaving lights on. You can try lingerie with covering body but leaving the good parts out, like a babydoll. But most importantly, love yourself no matter what. We are not worth just what we look like. You are his wife, he chose to love you no matter what for the rest of his life. He's showing the love, the effort as I undetstand from your post. Appreciate it and reciprocate. Maybe talk to a therapist too.
If he’s not willing to see a doctor you have noting to work with. He doesn’t want to see a doctor because he’s “embarrassed” but he expects you to suffer the impact of is ED? Nope. Breakup and find someone else. True ED is extremely rare at his age. There’s nothing for you to with here.
Prompted or in response to you saying it first? Because my guess would be because you say it first or because he’s feeling guilty about talking to someone else, which he’s already admitted to you.
As for being stuck you on-line with him and his family. It’s not like he’s going to leave his living situation and leave you at his family home with his parents is what I mean by him being stuck.
I am/was the guy in this situation.
One piece of advice I have is to be careful how you phrase everything. In this thread, you say things like, “This much sex can’t be healthy,” “We should cut back because we’re adults,” etc. Please don’t say these things to him. That kind of talk implies that there’s something wrong with him. That he is unhealthy, immature, selfish, etc. for wanting to have lots of sex with the person he loves. Giving him that idea will absolutely crush him and make him feel embarrassed, ashamed, and unwanted.
Even if this conversation goes as well as possible, it’s probably still going to hurt him. Be aware of that and try to minimize it. Don’t frame the problem as a “him” problem. He’s not doing anything wrong.
This guy sounds like me. If he is, then sex is hugely emotional for him. It’s one of the most important ways for him to feel connected with you, to feel loved and loving, wanted, fulfilled, accepted. Sex means a lot to him. It’s his way of sharing himself with you completely and expressing your mutual love and connection.
Keep in mind that you’re not just rejecting the physical aspects of sex. It’s not just about physical pleasure and orgasm. Asking him for less sex is almost like asking him to say, “I love you” less.
None of this negates the fact that you’re fully entitled and correct to communicate your own needs and preferences. Just want to explain what he’s probably feeling and make sure you understand how delicate this can be. It could be difficult for him not to take this as a rejection of his affection.
Man, I'm in there now. It's exhausting being the person who has to keep the mood positive and light for my kids. Completely worth it because of them, but definitely more draining than it needs to be.