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No advice but 5'6 and 130 lbs is completely fine, wtf is his problem? Much smaller and you'd be skin and bones for your height. At 5'3 and 120 I looked like I hadn't eaten in a year…
This is abuse. Find someone you trust and have them help you get out. You don't want to be in this situation a moment longer. Don't let your baby grow up seeing this, they deserve to know what real love looks like.
Your sister really sucks. I’m sorry that she doesn’t believe that your life events have value and deserve recognition – and even more sorry that she apparently though you were just going to be her de facto nanny forever. You don’t deserve that – you did nothing wrong.
That said… if it were me, I’d try to make up with her for the sake of the niblings. Kids don’t get to choose their parents, and if you were that involved in their lives, trust me – they notice the absence. It’s shitty that she’s doing that to her own kids.
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Why does the order of sex and a sandwich have to make sense. Why would you eat a BLT before or during sex?
I think this is less about the sex and more about the way you communicate. It’s fine to feel tired from work and not want to have sex straight away. Try explaining compassionately that you need to make yourself feel nicer / rested before jumping into sex. Do you often refuse sex/intimacy?
It’s okay to be stressed out / not want sex on occasion but look at your overall relationship and intimacy (not just sex) and how you communicate act with another. Are you just going through the motions, how do you treat your partner to make he feel loved and wanted?
Just a guess, but I’m guessing your responses might be a bit cold and abrupt with your partner that doesn’t come across exactly in this post. Sometimes we get so lost in our own feelings of stress and tiredness that we forget about how we make other people feel.
I married someone like your gf but didnt see the “checking out” until the day after the wedding, as I had the mother of all bait and switches pulled on me
I used to joke I wouldnt get married as she'd just want a divorce straight after
Of course that was bullshit, she waited 7 weeks for that
What I can tell you is
A) if I had been shown any signs of her deciding marriage = retiring, I'd have called it off in an instant and left her
B) the cost of that wedding was 9 times cheaper than the divorce costs for a marriage that lasted 2 months but took 2 years to legally free myself from
So going on this logic, you don’t agree with dating someone from a different culture/upbringing to yourself either as they may not understand all of your pop culture/terms of reference either?
This is your husband’s responsibility. He is responsible because he accepts this behavior. He needs to set things straight with his mother. He needs to I tell her to stop babying him and to respect his wife and child. HE is 50% of the problem. Your MIL is the other half. You have taught this man that it’s OK to allow this by letting it go on for TEN YEARS!
I remember when I was a teenager/early twenties we had this rule of thumb that said your age divided by two plus seven was the lowest you could go without it being weird, and your age minus seven multiplied by two the highest. Some critical thinking is of course needed when using the formula, but for the most part it’s an ok rule of thumb. By that reasoning you're borderline, but should be fairly ok. All in all its up to your gut and whether or not you are fine with it, and maybe (when still a teenager) what your parents think.
He absolutely met a new woman he wants to date. He’s been treating you badly because you’re the annoying obligation keeping him from the object of his desire.
Well that we can agree on. If your goals include hijacking a paternal role in this child’s life simply because you want to, then yes, those goals are beyond my understanding.
This child has a mother (your wife) and a father (the guy who fucks your wife). You do not factor into this scenario beyond possibly being a step father, depending on how it’s mother and actual father decide to handle parenting. Your marriage certificate has absolutely no bearing on who this child’s father is. The child has a natural born right to know who it’s father is, and the father has a natural right to make decisions on behalf of the child that will forever and always supersede the whims of its mothers husband.
The fact that you’re planning on taking this role when it’s not yours to take is incredibly unethical.
If this is what polyamory is, then god damn, you are some shitty people.
I have a therapist for my OCD. I don’t understand what I did wrong here. I didn’t accuse her of anything I just posted this so I can decide whether my overthinking is because of my OCD or if it’s valid.
Just wanted to say, I'm sorry I haven't replied to comments. I can see them in my notifications but i can't see them on the actual post for some reason x
I’ve definitely considered this! I’ve talked over that option with some of my girlfriends who are all engaged themselves and they think I’m being “silly” and that it’s an overreaction. One went as far as to say I needed to wait my turn until someone gave me a real ring but that’s neither here more there. I’m glad someone else thinks that might be something that would work!
If she won’t show you the time stamp to prove it’s an old video, then her wanting to open up the relationship is just her trying to okay her cheating.
So ask her to show you the time stamp. When she says “don’t you trust me” tell her that yes you do, but the video plus her asking to open the relationship up recently means that this has to be checked as the trust is there but it is limited.
If she doesn’t, then dump her.
And I bet if you put a ad up on local social media etc, asking for the names of the 3 guys who fucked her in a foursome, you’ll get at least one name, who can verify everything for you – if you want to go down that road
Seriously? He didn't “forget” to do anything. He's going to this event without you, intentionally, and has booked a room with another woman, intentionally. And you don't know what to do or think?? Yeesh.
No advice but 5'6 and 130 lbs is completely fine, wtf is his problem? Much smaller and you'd be skin and bones for your height. At 5'3 and 120 I looked like I hadn't eaten in a year…
From your post and comments, you’re just not getting it. Perfectly reasonable for him to dump/block you. You seem a little cookoo
The first baby is irrelevant. He doesn’t have to want a second one
Yeah you should listen to your wife. This person literally means zero to you and your spouse should mean everything.
This is abuse. Find someone you trust and have them help you get out. You don't want to be in this situation a moment longer. Don't let your baby grow up seeing this, they deserve to know what real love looks like.
Your sister really sucks. I’m sorry that she doesn’t believe that your life events have value and deserve recognition – and even more sorry that she apparently though you were just going to be her de facto nanny forever. You don’t deserve that – you did nothing wrong.
That said… if it were me, I’d try to make up with her for the sake of the niblings. Kids don’t get to choose their parents, and if you were that involved in their lives, trust me – they notice the absence. It’s shitty that she’s doing that to her own kids.
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Spit it in his face next time ?
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A spouse can't call HR and report anything. They aren't going to believe them.
No. ?
Why does the order of sex and a sandwich have to make sense. Why would you eat a BLT before or during sex?
I think this is less about the sex and more about the way you communicate. It’s fine to feel tired from work and not want to have sex straight away. Try explaining compassionately that you need to make yourself feel nicer / rested before jumping into sex. Do you often refuse sex/intimacy?
It’s okay to be stressed out / not want sex on occasion but look at your overall relationship and intimacy (not just sex) and how you communicate act with another. Are you just going through the motions, how do you treat your partner to make he feel loved and wanted?
Just a guess, but I’m guessing your responses might be a bit cold and abrupt with your partner that doesn’t come across exactly in this post. Sometimes we get so lost in our own feelings of stress and tiredness that we forget about how we make other people feel.
I married someone like your gf but didnt see the “checking out” until the day after the wedding, as I had the mother of all bait and switches pulled on me
I used to joke I wouldnt get married as she'd just want a divorce straight after
Of course that was bullshit, she waited 7 weeks for that
What I can tell you is
A) if I had been shown any signs of her deciding marriage = retiring, I'd have called it off in an instant and left her
B) the cost of that wedding was 9 times cheaper than the divorce costs for a marriage that lasted 2 months but took 2 years to legally free myself from
In my strongest MR T voice “Dont be a fool”
Why would you even want to be married to someone who married you out of guilt/laziness or pressure? I wouldn't
Are you sure she's going to the gym?
Maybe I'm jaded by other posts in this sub, but her changing behaviour like this.. drugs or affair..?
So going on this logic, you don’t agree with dating someone from a different culture/upbringing to yourself either as they may not understand all of your pop culture/terms of reference either?
What a narrow minded, bigoted outlook you have.
This is your husband’s responsibility. He is responsible because he accepts this behavior. He needs to set things straight with his mother. He needs to I tell her to stop babying him and to respect his wife and child. HE is 50% of the problem. Your MIL is the other half. You have taught this man that it’s OK to allow this by letting it go on for TEN YEARS!
Racism alive and kicking still I see.
Why are you with this man? Maybe remind me?
I remember when I was a teenager/early twenties we had this rule of thumb that said your age divided by two plus seven was the lowest you could go without it being weird, and your age minus seven multiplied by two the highest. Some critical thinking is of course needed when using the formula, but for the most part it’s an ok rule of thumb. By that reasoning you're borderline, but should be fairly ok. All in all its up to your gut and whether or not you are fine with it, and maybe (when still a teenager) what your parents think.
He absolutely met a new woman he wants to date. He’s been treating you badly because you’re the annoying obligation keeping him from the object of his desire.
I’m sorry.
Well that we can agree on. If your goals include hijacking a paternal role in this child’s life simply because you want to, then yes, those goals are beyond my understanding.
This child has a mother (your wife) and a father (the guy who fucks your wife). You do not factor into this scenario beyond possibly being a step father, depending on how it’s mother and actual father decide to handle parenting. Your marriage certificate has absolutely no bearing on who this child’s father is. The child has a natural born right to know who it’s father is, and the father has a natural right to make decisions on behalf of the child that will forever and always supersede the whims of its mothers husband.
The fact that you’re planning on taking this role when it’s not yours to take is incredibly unethical.
If this is what polyamory is, then god damn, you are some shitty people.
I have a therapist for my OCD. I don’t understand what I did wrong here. I didn’t accuse her of anything I just posted this so I can decide whether my overthinking is because of my OCD or if it’s valid.
I know it’s naked to see but you dodged a bullet. A big cheating bullet. No divorce. No alimony. You lucked out. She’s a trash cheater. You win.
Just wanted to say, I'm sorry I haven't replied to comments. I can see them in my notifications but i can't see them on the actual post for some reason x
I’m wondering if you’re 100% honest I counseling or if you edit your sharing to protect your husband.
How would she feel if you sucked a strippers nipple?
I’ve definitely considered this! I’ve talked over that option with some of my girlfriends who are all engaged themselves and they think I’m being “silly” and that it’s an overreaction. One went as far as to say I needed to wait my turn until someone gave me a real ring but that’s neither here more there. I’m glad someone else thinks that might be something that would work!
If she won’t show you the time stamp to prove it’s an old video, then her wanting to open up the relationship is just her trying to okay her cheating.
So ask her to show you the time stamp. When she says “don’t you trust me” tell her that yes you do, but the video plus her asking to open the relationship up recently means that this has to be checked as the trust is there but it is limited.
If she doesn’t, then dump her.
And I bet if you put a ad up on local social media etc, asking for the names of the 3 guys who fucked her in a foursome, you’ll get at least one name, who can verify everything for you – if you want to go down that road
!remindme 1 week
Seriously? He didn't “forget” to do anything. He's going to this event without you, intentionally, and has booked a room with another woman, intentionally. And you don't know what to do or think?? Yeesh.
“He did this to hurt me because he knows how I feel about that kind of stuff. He thinks I'm too insecure and he wanted me to feel pain”
It's not important what he does that for.
It's important that he DOES it, that it hurts you. And that this is no way to lead a realtionship.
As you already suspect he does it to.harm you: pack up your stuff, take out your documents and leave.
If there is money of yours in a common account: take it out before he does.
Relationships are meant to make people happy. Not sad. Not hurt.