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Date: November 2, 2022
baran, y.o.
Location: Smallville
Room subject: hello lets be naughty a a a [378 tokens remaining]
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I'm going to get downvoted like hell for this, but this is my opinion –
You are not your sister's keeper. You are not your sister's parent (which it appears she actually has). Yet, you have elected, without discussing and agreeing with your fiancé, to take over the role of being her parent, caretaker, and sole financial provider. If she is delusional, you also aren't qualified to deal with her psychosis, BTW.
But, you seem to be expecting your fiance to just “deal with it” as you have been and be OK?
So, my question is…where the eff is the rest of your family? Why haven't you placed your sister in inpatient care? If she is an adult, why haven't you made her a ward of the state, so she can more quickly qualify for benefits through social services?
Your Fiancé is a human being. She has obviously reached the end of her ability to deal with this incredibly difficult chaos and financial drain. She may be afraid of your sister escalating and becoming dangerous.
I have been reassuring her that our efforts are temporary, until my sister is able to get treatment and be able to support herself.
You can't make this promise. She may never be able to recover to the point where she can support herself. Your Fiance is coming to that realization.
My advice is to stop trying to be everything for your adult sister. Get the state involved, get her admitted for inpatient care, get a POA and sell the car (she shouldn't be driving anyway, and start demanding a LOT of help from your other family members.
It may not save your relationship, but it will definitely be the wise thing to do.