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Date: October 11, 2022
Tbh the phrasing of the first thing does come off a bit as an attack since you were like “we really need a running car right now” and chances are he knows that and is frustrated about it, and took it as you taking a jab at him for it. Whether that was your intent or not, he probably felt that it came off that way
The correct reply to the query from OP should have been I don’t know.
Yes.
Oh okay. Well thx
So really OP, how is it that you chose to marry someone who cannot possibly be a partner to you? It was pretty dumb to link yourself to someone, ostensibly for life, who cannot care for themselves, never mind help you in any real capacity. Beyond that, how will she fare as a parent if she is still essentially a child herself? Definitely things you should have asked yourself before now.
Also, from the way you describe it, you were fully aware that she chose incompetence and dependency on her mother. You're phrasing it as though it's her mother's fault, and while that may be the source, it's your wife who is continuing to CHOOSE not to learn how to be a fully functioning independent adult. What would happen if you stopped carrying her through life? Would she starve to death? Live in filth? Abandon all hope of ever being independent and run crying back to mom?
Look, a marriage is supposed to be a partnership. That means BOTH parties giving it their absolute best towards a shared goal. Your wife needs a SERIOUS come to Jesus moment right now, and this is absolutely a hill I would be willing to die on. Either she's in this with you and is willing to be a partner and carry her own weight, or she's not, and she wants to continue being somebody's dependent, in which case, she needs to go back to her parents. At least, that'd be where I would land, in your shoes.
I get what you’re saying, but try and take it as a blessing In disguise, if you’re unhappy in a relationship it can make you really quite miserable. You can’t just forget about someone like that, but try to take positives from this situation.
Please don't stop using your brain just because an ex came back into your life. This doesn't not sound like a clever idea. After 10 years you don't even know her anymore. What's the rush anyways?
I'm sorry OP it must seem like we are all kicking you when you are down. We are all just outraged on your behalf. We just don't want you to end up with these terrible people.
Probably be thankful that you have a caring dude lol
Normal, non-abusive people don’t do this, I promise you. In fact, I was even in a relationship with someone that was abusive and it never escalated to this level because he knew I would leave his ass.
Tell him that his inappropriate behavior needs to stop. Don't give him the if not I'll go to HR line. Just tell him it needs to stop. If it doesn't take it along with all of your evidence to HR.
Hopefully I don't get downvoted to oblivion but I will give an honest guys answer. I've been to a strip club maybe 6 or 7 times. None of them because I was lonely, almost exclusively for bachelor parties and one night when we just got a bit over the top I guess.
It's plain entertainment value. It's not about foaming at the mouth over girls, most guys probably don't even get a very hot on (at least I never have). But the dancing is entertaining, you chat to a very hot attractive person for a bit. The boys all have a laugh, maybe a handful get a private dance and then you're off on your way home. I wouldn't get a private dance unless I was single, but all my partners current and previous have all known ahead of time if I was going and know I wouldn't cross boundaries and never have even come close. In fact, a few of those times I have been to strip clubs with said partners and other girls. I have also done the opposite, I.e. going to a strip club with male performers despite being completely straight.
I know this wouldn't fly with every girl and this is totally fine, but then I probably wouldn't be with someone like that. I also get my take on it isn't every other guy's, you do see loner types, socially weird etc.
Lol, don't let me harsh your vibe, you do you, lol I just got to share my experience….OH and to boot, those dumb shits I was with, they buy this “crafty gals” (as I'll refer to them) a bunch of this shitty overpriced drinks (the whole time grinning and whispering to me…”hey, I think she likes me”..fucking idiots) and then when the bill comes, its like 800$ and we were there like an hour and there was only 4 of us…so these dumbshits are fuckin broke…and guess who's the only one with a credit card….ding ding ding…You guessed it…I had to pay for this entire friggin ordeal….I almost wish I could be as delusional as these morons…sigh.
He asked me, and all I told him was that I was just a little bummed about only finding out now. I actively tried to avoid conflict, but he kept pushing. I just dont hide or lie about my feelings to people, especially if it's someone i consider a close friend. I don't think it's anything to end the friendship over either but definitely going to reassess. Thanks for your comment. It's much appreciated 🙂
Lol, as dumb as I was when I was in my 20s, I can definitively say I wasn't that dumb.
He needs to know that was an awful gift. Regardless of how out of touch he is at the moment, you need to be straight up with him. Tell him you can't accept the gift, and give it back to him. Tell him how you feel strongly that it is an extremely inappropriate Christmas gift.
Do you not see a pattern here? Someone who truly loves you wouldn’t put you through all this. He’s being selfish. You need to be very honest with him. Stop enabling him. Tell him he needs to go to therapy and actively start looking for a job or he can find his own place to live.
And what a bs artist you are. “I was going to delete it, but…” You even lie to yourself.
From your post it sounds like one of your best friends also betrayed you. Does he not have culpability?
Thank you for a level headed response. This might be the sliding door moment to get me into therapy because i literally have no one else to speak with about this.
I don’t know if i rely on it. I go periods without drinking even when im in stressful periods of my life. I’m probably going to stop buying beer and just keep it in social situations
Blows my mind that we are in 2023 and we have people so immature to hate on how a body is naturally.
Some places circumcise woman and we call it genital mutilation.
I could care less if you are cut or not but blows my mind that people are this immature at this point in history and that in his own marriage his partner is this immature and unaware of her partners feelings and self-image.
Also not sure were dude lives or who he has been around. I have plenty of friends that I know are not cut and they have no problems with gorgeous cool ass woman but maybe because they are dealing with better quality people in general.
Fine then I’ll just keep going up to women in bars/clubs when I go out with friends (I went out every Friday and Saturday last year) and talk them and keep getting rejected every time, (meaning I end up getting their information but they never reply or follow through with adding me back on Snapchat, or they do reply but end up pulling “I’m sick” or “I’m out of town” bs responses when I ask them to hangout) rather than actually enjoy my time at a place with my friends without getting distracted by pretty women or they tell me to go talk to this girl because she is by herself, like what the hell am I doing wrong or am I just not getting rejected enough, cause it’s too the point I’m mentally exhausted From RSD to be the one approaching
Buy some. If you can't buy some you aren't have sex.
Tell him with words.
It really depends on your relationship. If she's going to go all bat shit crazy and start plotting evil events than no. Don't tell her.
If it's a sadness issue because she could not have a baby, then it's probably a good idea to give her a heads up. I would talk to your partner first about her opinion on the matter. Your partner may be more comfortable with you handling it in a phone call.
This’d be the last nail in the coffin for me. You just needed a soft place to land. If he can’t gently hold your heart while you’re grieving the loss of a friend what can he do!?
Completely makes sense, I appreciate your response! I am not sure what I was looking for in posting maybe just typing It out validates how I’m feeling but glad to know it’s not just me also
Youre telling me those need to be special washed? Ive been throwing them in cold washer for years without a problem.
Good luck to you, OP. You’ll need it. There’s nothing anyone can say to you that’ll get through to you right now. I get it. I’ve been there. I dated a puppy dog once. He cried in front of me while he said he’d “never met anyone like you.” And told me how good of a person I was. He was the most abusive, manipulative person I’ve ever dated. My friends tried to tell me but I refused to listen because I was in “love.” You won’t listen until you’re ready to.
I do understand they are her past and her memories, I suppose it worries me there are so many and she is going back to them.
I am trying to do things with her and make new memories like you say, but she almost seems reluctant sometimes to include me or we make plans and on the day she just changes her mind like she doesn't want to do the things she likes with me, I guess that is part of why I feel insecure about it like she doesn't want to make new memories and is just wanting to remain in the past.
I will try talking to her about it again she just seemed so dismissive about it like I was wrong to question having so many photos of him. Thank you for your input, I do hope I can overcome this feeling.
Call hospice too ask for someone to talk to..
Also get a rose bush look up your daughters birthdate Select the rose bush of that month Plant it in a big pot
Name it your daughter name.
It really helps give you something to touch..talk to and go through the grieving process.
A dear man at hospice shared this with us because we all wanted dads ashes..
It help each of us kids have a part of dad. His rose was yellow.
Hugs Remember be gentle to yourself…it takes time to go through all the stages of grief. Some longer then others… Mine was loss of advice so I was angry longer.
So he's treating you like a child/dog.
i think hitting your partner is a bit harder than saying no.
This is honestly spot on and great advice but he honestly doesn’t make me feel uncomfortable it’s more of a political thing I’m trying to manage more than anything.
I told her they’re just fine and it is fortunate for us that I’m an ass man.
You actually said that to a woman, and she's still with you? Amazing…
If she brings up wanting a boob job, then you can be supportive. Otherwise, there's no “nice” way of suggesting it. You already are aware of this, because you're looking for a “gentle” way to say something.
If a boob job is that important to you that you'd run the risk of ruining the relationship, by all means go ahead and good luck.
She knows who I am and is well aware of our relationship. She even tried to befriend me and help me move into my apartment. We went out to get drinks together but I have since distanced myself from her because she was on the phone with him when he showed up to my house in a rage. She was on the phone to serve as a “witness” in case I called the police. When I reached out to her to apologize for him involving her she didn’t respond
Sarcasm, would've made that joke on either gender
You refuse to listen to any help offered.
If the title isn’t in his name yet, but the money has transferred hands and there is a legal documentation of a receipt. It is his car (I would imagine) unless he gets the title and explicitly gifts the title to you but to be fair, you should be asking a legal advice sub. Your boyfriend is a red flag, there’s a reason he isn’t with someone his own age.
You are engaged to someone, and you don't know his financials? And the only reason you are asking now is because you think he might be drinking again? And he's on sketchy subreddits? And he gets defensive and he thinks you are “putting him under the microscope”?
Oh Honey, No. So much No. All the No.
It sounds like he was being performative. I would expect my partner to take charge, sit everyone down and tell them there would be no rehearsal dinner until the dress was located. I'm sure it would have magically shown up if the entire family was pressured to find it.
You have been through a highly traumatic event and you're going to be emotional. That's expected.
The title was all I needed to read. You’re 19. You will find someone way better. You’ve only been dating 2 months and she’s already done something like this?? Y’all should still be in the honeymoon phase…I can’t imagine what she’d do a year from now ?
If you are in a relationship …for the serious topics, wouldn’t you talk with your partner/spouse about it? I everything I share to my gfs, they tell their husbands.
Yes it’s driving me insane. Imagine how I’ve been feeling for the past 5 months.
Please Do not say that about ur self. Ur not hopeless you have tried to help in many ways but he refuses to take action. I think it’s best if u leave him cause it will slowly eat away at ur mental health and that’s not good