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Just bc she leaves her bf, doesn’t mean the kid is never goin to see his grandfather again. The bf isn’t the problem so he’s goin to get some kind of custody and therefore granddad still will get to see his grandkid and display the same behaviors.
nothing against tattoo, fam, and in our situation it IS late 'cause tomorrow is a work I need a lotta things prepared. And YES, constantly blowing up our plans for her own things is botherin' me.
Hmm. Idk anything about your situation but, with the text you saw and all, could he be dealing? Without further info that's all I got.
Or, after being turned down he met a new nice girl who seems to like him so he went for it. What makes you think that has anything to do with you?
The normal amount is zero
So people can't be attracted to someone if they met them just after being rejected by someone else?
Many people consider their pets family. So if a member of his family is fighting for their life that's going to be most peoples priority. Beyond that I think you're overthinking things. A text to check in and let him know you care is perfectly acceptable.
You can’t use Clorox on genitalia.she has other issues
I agree. Sounds like our girl here needs some Z’s either way.
You’re leading her on for your own ego. Gross.
Ah that makes sense now
Coming to visit you was a fun weekend away with No Strings. You making plans to come visit her means that you might be looking for a relationship which she’s told you that she doesn’t want
Good grief. How much fun would it be for you to watch him having sex with someone else? Of course this upset him! Give him a little time to get over seeing you screwing other men.
If you’re not enough for him that’s a him problem, not a you problem. He’s been using you and manipulating you into discrediting your own feelings, comfort, and boundaries. It sounds like he’s been taking advantage of your kindness and naiveness, that’s not your fault so please don’t feel stupid about this.
I guarantee there are many more red flags in your relationship, so now that you’re starting to see what he’s been doing, start paying attention to how he treats you in everyday life
If you’re not enough for him that’s a him problem, not a you problem. He’s been using you and manipulating you into discrediting your own feelings, comfort, and boundaries. It sounds like he’s been taking advantage of your kindness and naiveness, that’s not your fault so please don’t feel stupid about this.
I guarantee there are many more red flags in your relationship, so now that you’re starting to see what he’s been doing, start paying attention to how he treats you in everyday life
Cut her off and be more unpredictable with your next gf
Your boyfriend does not care about your concerns. He does not care if you’re comfortable in your own home. He doesn’t care if you feel appreciated or loved. He doesn’t even consult you before agreeing to his parents visiting for months at a time. Regardless of how good of a boyfriend he’s been up till now, he’s made it clear what his priorities are and you aren’t one of them.
He is not treating you like an equal partner. He is not treating you with respect or kindness.
Is this how you want to be treated for the rest of your life? Do you want a partner who lacks the courage to stand up for you? Who lets his parents treat you in a subpar manner?
You can try to have a discussion with him, but this kind of behavior is really very hot to change, especially without the help of lots of therapy. Go check out JustNoSO. Lots of people have married folks just like your boyfriend and they are miserable.
If he’s unwilling to treat you the way you deserve, then you should be unwilling to stay with him.
Good luck.
U are still young. Just dump him and move on. Don’t waste any more time
No, i guess maybe i didn’t word it right or add that part, after we had kissed… like i explained to her my feelings and i told her that i wanted to be more than just friends. But her thing was she said she had the same feelings but in her words “i want you long term, i want you when you are home.” And so i just had to go with the flow, and before i got home, she had just stopped talking to me really, didn’t say anything, just stopped…she was already onto someone else.
Do what is best for you.
I feel like I already did that with the “no pressure” comment. I don’t want to come off as actually pressuring her.
Welp. Good luck explaining to her later on why you kept choosing this boorish woman and her sons over her time and time again. No child deserves to be subjected to that. And no, you don’t stay bc of your sons. You stay bc in the off chance she loses custody, you don’t want to do it on your own, you’re pussy whipped and spineless and you don’t really care about her. If you did, you would have stopped dropping dick and babies off into that woman the FIRST time she mistreated your child.
Your parents behavior is really rude. You don't invite people to your home and then make them walk back and forth between rooms to visit each parent individually. What happens when you have kids. Going to push a stroller between rooms? No normal man is going to be ok with this set up. Invite them to your house and show them how it supposed to be done. If they don't still don't get it plan on him not going with you.
It’s good your dad feels comfortable talking to your boyfriend, another man, about his feelings.
You boyfriend was probably in a tough situation and knew how you would respond.
Don’t hold this against him.
YOU ARENT OWED ANYTHING. it’s your fathers decision, he clearly made his choices for a reason because look at you. Look at how you’re acting. you are selfish, you like drama, you want to stir shit up because you aren’t the center of attention. This is not healthy.
You want to be purposely blind to WHY your dad would want to keep this from you. You know why. Now all you’re doing is complaining that it happened and not thinking about why it must be so. Well I can tell you right now. It’s because you’re a drama queen and blow shit out of proportion to make it about you.
Guess what. It’s not all about you, and the sooner you accept that and stop to take a good look at yourself and realize the reason it was kept from you is exactly because of this behavior, the sooner you realize that and cut that shit out, maybe things wont be kept from you. But clearly it’s because of how you’re acting. There comes a point where you can only blame yourself, and you’re choosing to whine about it rather than accept maybe he had his good reasons. You have no self reflection and hold no accountability to yourself n
You already may have bud again nothing to do with you she’s just realizing she wasn’t ready for all this especially at that age. She may want to see if the grass is greener on the other side, don’t be surprised if she comes crawling back and misses what you currently have.
While I agree that typically, things between two people should stay between two people, in this context I would say it's a non issue.
Stop being so ok with being treated so disrespectfully!
Grow a backbone and tell him to go find his “type.”
I've been married to my wife fir over 20 years, I must be really, gay by now.
This has to be a troll
(21f)just recently started dating a guy (25m) about a month ago. He is pretty much perfect so far and showing all green flags. Just an absolute gentleman.
OP is young because she isn't realizing that he mask at being an “absolute gentleman” is cracking. Like everyone puts on their very best during the honeymoon stage of a relationship (1st 3 months about) and hiding / downplaying the bad. Then their real self starts trickling in.
I was asking the same thing in my head… the timeliness. He wanted to become exclusive when he has no where to live!. Don't trust that. Get tested.
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100% wasn't meant for you
He knows he needs to pay you back hun, he’s 36! He also knew when he took that money from your young self that he was going to manipulate you into feeling guilty about needing it back before never bringing the debt up. He was also aware that 1000$ was a lot of money to you! There are rich 25 year olds, stupid 25 year olds and 25 year olds who feel a grand is a ton of money!
I don’t think he is going to pay you.
So, this was 1.5 months in your relationship and actually after the two weeks the firdt time you see her again and even she should know that you are social adept, she pressured you to met your friends, something you didn’t want to do.
You both are still a new pair, especially since you have nearly no contact in rl. And she put all the blame on you for a situation she forced herself into. Sure, you didn’t include her into the conversation, but she also didn't try to include herself or had a talk with you when she realize whst happened like “hey, do you have a moment?” and then asking you if you could try to include you more. Also if you don't feel like taking you to your friends, she shouldn't have pushed you. I really wonder what her fantasy was: you are a close knit of friend who see each other after one month. As if the attention is “yeah, the gf we never heard of!”
You write this because you are worried about other meet-ups. So… learn of this experience. If you don't want to, don't let yourself pressure into it. No big groups. And always check on her. She is the person you are with. You don't throw her in a group of people and let her handle it herself. This is what you did with you friends. You brought her to a group of strangers and expected her to happily chat with them.
There are couples who decide to remain in an essentially companionless marriage for a variety of reasons, children being just one of them. I can't imagine it myself. Those would be my final words to her. Perhaps a writer who stayed can advise you about that option.
The weird part about this is the gal CHANGING her bachelorette plans so he can attend.
That is super sus.
Actually, she does not have the right to know; your past is your past. Therefore, it just sounds you want to voluntarily offer your past to her because of some conflicts of your moralities.
It's also common to date multiple people at the same time
So my bf and I had a recent conversation about it. He mentioned during sex that it was the best he ever had. Usually he’s doing all the work, I think he actually meant that he was the best he ever had, haha! Then he clarified; it’s because we love each other so much that our sex is so good together.
Are you perhaps feeling insecure that he doesn’t love you as much as you do him? Sex is different for everyone, and generally speaking it sometimes depends on gender as well. Some might say sex is just sex for men, women have somany more emotions during, before and after sex. I would definitely calmly bring this up with your boyfriend and just make it know how you feel about things. Your feelings are valid!
This is also a great comment. This is more about conflicting values and needs to be dealt with in an open and mature fashion in a healthy relationship.
She needs therapy, there's nothing you can do
From time to time, there is bad time, but you can get past it together. Try to spend quality time with him.
Because the old adage of you don't shit where you eat exists precisely because dating in the workplace more often than not does not go well. there likely is a policy OP has overlooked since most workplaces do not permit sexual harassment of any sort. OP is willing to jeopardize herself, the dude, and co-workers to pursue this relationship, so the consequences, if any, she faces will be well-deserved in the future.
I believe you guys could keep up doing different stuff. This always light a spark. The normalcy can be very boring. Maybe BDSM, or more of the open relationship thing
OP, none of this adds up
Why does she have your # blocked?
Why can't you find her on social media?
I feel like these things were done deliberately. Where there is smoke, there is fire and I suggest you keep digging
Ofc you know that you have to get out of the relationship. The problem is the living situation. Do you have a job or any kind of money? Is there anyone you can stay with temporarily?
How long is the program? If it ends this May I'd tell you to just tough it out for now. If there are more semesters – you can't keep doing this. What kind of program is it? How long does it last? And do you work at all?
Sometimes it's rough, lol. I think I handle alcohol about as well as most other people. Things like muscle relaxers and painkillers don't work for me at the same dosages they do for most people. Local anesthesia wears off really fast for me.
I'd probably get a little drowsy, but I could still easily stay awake.
I don’t think you should break up with him for pissing in cups, but only because he pissed in your favorite cup if he knew you loved it.
Umm.
Do you own a pair of running shoes?
If ever there was a time to put them on and use them, this surely must be it.
Makes jokes about him having a big dick outside of sex. “Hey, did you how big this apple is?” “Like that dick!” “She we get the regular olives or the colossal ones?” “I like me olives like my man’s cock, colossal!”
That can really help. It shows you’re thinking about him sexually when not having sex and it’s s real confidence booster.
remove them one by one weekly & go NC with them if you wanna move on.
Yep, came here to say this and saw it was the only comment suggesting this. It’s his way of coping…. the baby didn’t really exist or it wasn’t even his.
Ask for the ring back, tell her that you care for her but you’re just not compatible on bigger issues and that you hope she can find someone that is a better fit for her in the future.
You go back it’s just gonna be a wash, rinse, repeat situation with the same shit.
You two need to have a conversation about integrating a more “live together” type schedule that works for both of you- AKA, you can see each other almost daily but you don’t necessarily need to be 100% entertaining each other that entire time, just becoming more used to sharing a space with your partner while also maintaining independent time.
That’s how life works once you move in- I don’t think you should be doing the whole “spend 100% of the weekend together and none of the week” thing after 1.5 years, that’s a loooong time to do that.
Sounds like you’re stuck in a new relationship stage when you should be way past that and feel more comfortable with sharing space without annoying each other. If it’s a deal breaker for either of you then cut it off because it isn’t healthy.
If you're expression a disdain for other women for simply finding your partner attractive or not knowing that he's seeing someone, yes that could drive people away. It's worth talking to a therapist about if you're shit talking women for asking someone out that they think is single.
These other women aren't a “potential threat” if your partner is trust worthy.
You definitely are not. There is No Coming back from this.
The disrespect will never heal, get a lawyer and leave.
It is way fuckimg manipulative
I’m immune compromised so I wear a mask when indoors around others. I’d do that in your situation and if he asks, tell him why. I’d be looking for another job though.
You guys are 22. Pretty normal to not know what one wants or be able to predict the future. Just relax and enjoy it.
You should dump him.
Even if he does try to change this, it will take some time, and he’s going to ruin quality time between you and him as you develop the relationship.
He needs to prioritize you when you are together. If he can’t do this, then he should have already owned a smartwatch so notifications are less intrusive.
Mm sounds like conditioning aka training. You’ll either soon actually get used to that feeling or you’ll learn that saying anything against it will make life so uncomfortable you just won’t say anything negative about it anymore.
I had/have a similar problem. For me, it was/is an ADHD thing and wanting to occupy my mind constantly. 5 second lull? Phone. It's that simple. But turning off notifications during social outings helps a lot. Recognizing lulls when they occur and consciously telling myself that I can endure a few seconds between stimuli helps too.
I would tell him you aren't feeling prioritized when you're spending time together and that if this continues, you may not be interested in continuing to see him. Even at my worst, I was not texting or scrolling on my phone in the middle of a conversation on first dates. Bathroom breaks, sure, but not mid conversation. That's inconsiderate of your time and your attention, and your frustration is valid.
All of a sudden it hit me that my ex was the one who said it. So now, again, i can’t help but compare the two.
Wait, so if I follow this you are saying that the entire basis of you wanting to cut his hair and the entire reason you are upset that you are being turned down is… because you yourself mixed up your bf and your ex…?
I mean, doesn't that paint you as the red flag? That you made things so awkward based on a recollection that was wrong, and are now trying to find ways to spin this against him even after realising the mistake.
Be aware of that. I am not sure what you were hoping we would answer but based on your own framing we probably won't say it.
Some guys? Better check that qualifier. It’s spelled “Most”
Never give her money again!
Do you really like being with a person like that?
You have a lot of FOMO and a lot of guilt and, I mean it in the sweetest way possible, you give off a martyr vibe.
Here’s what I would suggest. Use some of your money and freedom it provides and go off the grid for a month. Like really off the grid. Take a vacation in a remote location, let yourself disconnect from the world and connect with your own heart. After a few days of solitude, start asking yourself what do you miss more and what would you rather do – spend a nice evening cozying up with your GF at home or whatever it is that single bachelors do. Ask yourself everyday and if everyday the response is the same, you’ll have your answer.
I'm sorry your going through this and that he violated the terms of your agreement big I can't help but think that in that lifestyle you have to be prepared for the possibility of things like this happening.
Do you want to make him feel better or make yourself feel better? Because you seem like the type of person who really just wants to soothe her own conscious. You have every right to a satisfying sex life and you have the right to discuss it with your partner. But there is a time, place, a way to have those conversations. Getting drunk and going into “detail” sounds like the worst possible thing you could do to someone you love. If you can’t control your mouth when you drink, then you shouldn’t drink. I would be so ashamed of myself. You hurt him. I wouldn’t blame him if he didn’t forgive you. Your actions were cruel. There’s not much you can do but wait this out. I hope he has enough self respect to dump you
He can't see that his behaviour is rude.
You could teach him a lesson, if you really feel like it.
Go to a café. And whenever he starts talking: look at something.
Interrupt him.
Randomly call someone.
Get up and go to stare out of the window.
Behave, as if he wasn't there.
And after a while you can say: “See? This is how your use of the phone feels. Like not even being there. Not having your attention.”
And from there decide what you do.
Also “to see if there is am emergency”?
Huh?
What kind of emergency does he have out there? Wife? Children?
I'm sorry you're going through this.
There is one truth you missed: when life is shitty, know that it rarely stays that way for long. It will get better.
You will heal. Take care.
It feels that she was taking advantage of you at the time, you were clear on what you wanted, you were there for her, but she totaly lied to you,
Leave her, don't put any more effort on this relationship.
Since you have been with him just a yr then end it and move on.
First off, please be safe. Your husband is bonkers. Second- this was a wild ride.
He is 41 and has no manners or hygiene. I wouldn't be surprised if you will experience lot of bad surprises like pee splatter all around the toilete, poop in his underwear because “wiping is gay” and showering is just for dates.
In this age “what you see is what you get” you can't change the people anymore. And if you think you try your best at the first few dates, how is he when he doesn't try his best?
Just end it. Don think so much about how to end it. You just had three dates. And he also gave a fuck what you thought when he behaved like icky man. “I have decided that we shouldn't see each other anymore. Bye.” And blocked.
They’re definitely playing a part in him wanting to move back. Again I don’t blame him or hold any negative feelings about the move itself, he should be happy. I only feel blind sided and used. His parents are doing so much to encourage him to stay. From offering a house, to a high paying job, to a car with a driver. Going as far as setting up dates for him. He told me he declined the date and didn’t go, but either he lied or he regretted not going by the way he spoke of it. Told me the girl was exactly his type too.. multiple times
Asking a question is not the issue here.
The fact that she pegged you as close minded for knowing what you want in a relationship, and being honest and open is the problem.
Let's be honest here: different things make your girlfriend horny, it doesn't make her automatically an enlightened and superior being.
I'm sorry but those kind of people are so cringey.
Yes but in the beginning you also decided to an open relationship. And it changed.
Personally, if my partner said I just wanted to keep them in a box to myself I would have a serious talk about our wants and needs because they don't seem to be aligned anymore.
I feel like there's more. You've been with him 10 years? Has he been lacking empathy this entire time? Is this a one off? Was he trying to be funny? Is this how he deals with his emotions? Maybe you need marriage counseling?
I've been with my husband 20 years, and while nothing is every perfectly perfect, we do well. If he made a comment like this, I'd be grossly concerned about his mental and/or physical health and encourage him to seek medical or psychiatric attention. My initial thought would probably be “did my husband hit his head?”, honestly.
You should have broken up with him years ago. But since you didn’t, do it now.
while he is in the wrong and inconsiderate, not providing any compromise at all like what you are doing, most people would get “love” somewhere else. you think because you are right morally means everyone around you will abide to the same rule. no, human are human. if desire are not satisfy by you, desire will get satisfy by someone else. rules be damn. that is the reality.
if this is the hill you want to lay on, if this is the reason you want a divorce over, then so be it. but don’t say no one have warn you bc i just did. people have limit.
She wants to be open again and have sex with other dudes. You should let her do it by breaking up and letting her get on Feeld or fetlife and have at it.
It's okay to break up with her. More men need to break up with women instead of wavering on their boundaries imo.
It'll never work out- if you stay then you'll end up resentful of her for being stuck there, and if you guys move then she'll be resentful of you for taking her away from her family.
Man, I really dislike people like her. She busy thinking about herself, like if I had a sickness I would tell other people like hey I’m not feeling well don’t come near me. But bro she violated u, I cannot believe how this can be normal to her, it isn’t, this invasive. She wasn’t being honest, idc if someone asked or doesn’t ask this is something one has a responsibility to disclose at the beginning of a relationship, this is ur health and she may have gambled with it. I see u are getting tested and props to you, but honestly, she isn’t right, I would seriously reconsider this whole thing.
As someone mentioned, what else is she hiding because “you didn’t ask” ?
You should definitely move out when you can / def do not bring anymore dates or significant others over :/ talk to your family about what they did if you think it would help but yeah that’s a tough one since you personally didn’t cause this and you can’t force your bf to change his mind after experiencing that…
What did she block you on? Is it possible that she's going through something, or potentially got hacked, and deleted her account?
I can think of a few possibilities:
She got drunk and overemotional about some bad memories (the tiniest things can upset you if you're drunk enough). But that should have changed when she sobered up.
She wasn't actually as “over ir” as you thought. Maybe something made her jealous/angry? Sometimes the tiniest gesture, like for example, adding her best friend on Facebook/following them on insta could lead her to misinterpret things if she's the jealous type.
She was ruminating on something, it built up, then she hit a boiling point.
She has a new bf who told her to block you.
She realised she still has feelings for you, but believes it could never work. So she feels that the only way she can move on is to block you.
I’m trying 🙁
She told me that she never knew how to express her feelings so she just did things to try and make me happy hoping that I would change.
It does sound as if your wife does not fully understand your issues if she has thought that it will get better on its own. So the counselling is a must. You couldn't know you were abusive if she never said anything. I'm glad you are getting the help you need. And she clearly also needs to learn how to deal with this better. Best to you.
Possible, but wouldn't explain the apnea.
I sent you a direct message?
Could be prostitutes he is paying and he just calls them his girlfriends. You don’t really know if he is putting in any effort
People know what their morals are. If she thinks it's impossible to guarantee she would never cheat, it means her moral code allows for cheating. End of story.
I'd say no. That's not good enough for me. I'd break up.
Those are all valid reasons, and I apologize for being very presumptuous there.
To be more serious and specific, I would suggest looking into living with room mates or other family and saving any money if you can get even a part time job. Since your friends are aware of your situation, they may be willing to let you move in with them. Whatever route you choose, it'll be better. Your mental health is really suffering from your parent's overbearing.
It doesn’t matter. Your cousin is speaking ill of the dead. You have no way to back up or disprove her claims, but you do now know that your relationship with your cousin is based on lies, betrayal, and expectations that you have no obligation to fulfill.
Her confession or attempt to cause doubt says everything you need to know about her. Cut her out and move on. Don’t go seeking out the truth, and allow yourself to move on and find someone who is amazing and brings everything you need to the table in your relationship.
If you don't want to be in a relationship with her you have to stop having sex with her. You're clearly incapable of being around her without taking her up on her sexual overtures and you're never going to be free of her until you simply stop seeing her, ever.
Urgh! I have three acquaintances that love to argue. They call it debating but I call it pointless hair-splitting. It’s so fucking tedious.
Tell him in no uncertain terms that there’s to be no repetition. Get that nonsense stopped!
Do not accept this under any situation. She starts with women and someday she’ll come home and say hey what about me having sex with men too? Guys like yourself in open marriages will have a tremendously very hot time finding partners. Stand your ground and just tell her you can be open with your next husband because your out!!!! Don’t open under duress
Okay. You've lived together a year, but how long together before that.
Also, don't write off the bride completely. She was a participant because she knew and was the one that told your girlfriend to keep it secret as silly gossip. However, as I said, she could have easily sat him at the same table as you if she was actively engaged in conspiring against you. The “Don't say anything” really sounds more like “I don't want needless drama at my wedding” which suggests she might be under an impression that you tend to overreact.
I'm not saying your girlfriend has done anything wrong, but if she is close friends with the bride, there have probably been some arguments you've had that have been discussed with her friends and not everyone understands there are two sides to every story. That is just standard relationship consequence.
Honestly, your relationship will probably be fine. Just don't fall into the over reaction jealousy trap that he is setting up.
Break up. He's not a partner.
Tell me you broke up with him already. He’s doing this ridiculous shit at 29? Ugh, leave him yesterday. Seriously. He’s disgusting and paranoid because he’s greedy and very selfish. What a pig.
Good grief I hate to think what your wife would think about what I get up to with my male colleagues! Sometimes we even have lunch outside the office!
Things will go wrong if you don't. You'll end up being coerced into a threesome you don't want and it will destroy your relationship. He has no idea what's going to happen and how he will feel afterwards.
There have been other men who posted here, where they wanted to have a threesome with their gf/wife and another man. It didn't end well because she enjoyed sex with the other man a lot. They all said more than she ever enjoyed with them.
I’m glad your soon to be ex husband has some sense to leave you. As soon as you started cheating your marriage was over. Don’t make terrible choices if you are just going to feel bad. I believe cheaters never change, get used to being single.
Your daughter will 100% illicit all kinds of feelings for you, negative as well. It’s easy to have empathy for a child but what about a rebellious teenager that doesn’t like you?
If you respect him, listen to what he's telling you. Just because you think you're good at reading people, it doesn't mean you can ignore someone when they explicitly tell you they don't want to start a relationship.
You could maybe ask him directly “just so we're both on the same page, are you still against the idea of a relationship?” but if he still says he doesn't want that, cut your losses.
This is a very toxic and manipulative person. She is making you feel like the poisonous one when it is 100% her.
Drop her. Immediately. The longer you're in it the worse it will get
Fr most redditors r sheep. They jus blindly follow each other n consume the majority opinion as their own without even using their brain to process for themselves as individuals. Autonomous ?
Hurt her feelings… Riight, what about yours?
A woman having sex with a woman is gay by… any definition of the word gay.
This. Some relationships survive infidelity, but this one shouldn’t. Instead of working with OP to build trust and rebuild their relationship at whatever pace he’s comfortable with, she’s manipulating and pushing him. He should be able to take whatever time he needs before making any commitments, with no pressure or guilt. She’s not respecting him; she just wants what she wants. People who act this way don’t really get better over time. He should cut his losses.
She just needs to block him again and again until he has sex with another girl and forgets about yours. Don’t let him get to you
Turnip ?. Thank you, I guess I am not sure how to have a conversation about it with him without him getting his back up but I feel like I still should say something
You guys live! in the same house??
You don’t have to compromise on this if it makes you feel bad. A threesome is really nothing you can compromise on. Every participant has to give a wholehearted yes if you want it to work out. Otherwise it’s bound to destroy the relationship.
It isn’t a contest to see who has it worse. They regularly engage in abusing each other.
I agree, she is likely in far more danger and needs to get out.
But she needs to understand her choices, addictions and behavior are going to lead her right back to square one if she doesn’t take a very hot look at herself.
Start declining anything and everything he offers.
Hey, want a slice of pizza? No, thanks.
Hey, I picked up your drink for you. No, thanks.
I have an extra combo meal from McDonald's. Do you want it? No thank you.
Want to try this dinner I'm cooking. No thanks.
So they can be jackhammered? What?
He doesn’t want to marry you.. he just wants you to take care of him and carry his child. Sorry.
No it's not ok. Your wife has some explaining to do and lots of work to build back your trust. If you can be bothered. She's using you as a babysitter while she goes out on the pull with her single girlfriend.
To be blunt: in 2023, sometimes women buy houses on their own, but would still like a second set of eyes in the process.
Regardless of whether or not these “boundaries” are fair, regardless of whether or not his exes “caused” this behavior, it is not acceptable. It is presented in a way that is controlling and abusive. In a way that says “I own you. Do what I want or else.” And that should worry you.
Please do not continue to stay with this man. You are NOT safe.
My husband prefers the same side where ever we are. I don't really care.
He doesn’t care about your feelings, and isn’t willing to own up for his actions. Seems like he is a selfish cunt.
My husband has a bad back and muscle relaxers knock him out.
Okay? That’s pretty normal….people go through phases of low motivation. Could be a normal low motivation phase, could be depression, could be anything.
Again, she’s a grown adult and doesn’t need to prove to you anything about her schoolwork.