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Date: February 19, 2023
A crush is literally that; a crush. You were into someone. You didn’t pursue it. It’s a non-issue. You’re not comparing your girlfriend to her.
Now, I certainly agree it was completely unnecessary to mention it, but here we are. If you did it in the interest of full transparency and honesty, fine. But is that why you mentioned it? Why did you? No one’s going to buy the explanation you gave. Just be honest with us.
Regardless, it really doesn’t matter. If you don’t still have a crush on this girl, then she’s irrelevant. “I wanted to be honest with you. That’s all. Nothing happened and I have no feelings for her. I’m sorry if you’re upset but that’s the end of it.”
Hold firm from there. She can’t just hold it over you forever and you shouldn’t allow her to. Good luck.
It is that you haven’t sufficiently explained it to him.
It isn’t that he doesn’t understand
It isn’t that he hasn’t been taught something -respecting boundaries, empathy, etc
It isn’t that you haven’t found the magic words
HE JUST DOES’T CARE!
I’m sorry. This one is defective.
That’s ex girlfriend behavior.
Two things there; first, I realize this was your original question, and now that you've brought it back up, I'll answer it; absolutely do not just never say no to avoid conflict. You are in this relationship. You matter. You think a solution is to be unhappy just to (maybe) guarantee that he won't be? That's no way to live.
Now, unfortunately, the second thing is what I assumed was the underlying problem here, in that this is bigger than an isolated miscommunication around cuddling. I think you both have been in an unhealthy relationship for so long with built up resentment that one or both of you find a way to turn non-issues into huge blowups.
In this case, it's him. “You push me away from touching you down there, but then want me to hold you? You're really fucking making it difficult for me to know if you want intimacy or not.” In a normal situation, that's a clear stretch. With added context, that's now what I'm assuming but you'll have to confirm.
What are your issues? What do you fight about?
Friendships are important at all ages. Being a bridesmaid Is a big deal—for HER. She’s going to be too busy to pay much attention with OP anyway. So your comment that the “adult” thing to do is blow off a longstanding friendship to watch his girlfriend prance around in an overpriced dress and any option beside this makes OP a bad person is straight bullshit.
He is 100% responsible for his actions, drunk or not, and if you consent to rough sex it can limit your legal recourse, so be very clear in any consent and put it in text, so you have a very clear record. In this case, get away as fast and as far as possible. He is a rapist. You can call the police and press charges. Unfortunately they may or may not do much, but then you have an established record. Also warn other women on the “Are we dating the same guy?” Pages. This is a young predator in the making. It gets worse, not better.