I can't tell if this is real or not, but either way, you need to reconsider your actions because it's not fair to try to control what movies he can or cannot watch.
I get that you're insecure, but he's not purposefully seeking out these movies to look at other women, he's just watching a movie he likes which happens to have women in it. This is only going to drive him away
I think it’s an age thing. If your looking for a life partner – it’s important. It’s also gendered – men are typically going to care how attractive she is over what she earns. You are socialised to be the breadwinner and think it’s unimportant. Women, who are often completely financially dependent on their partner for a period of time need to think it through. Your standard of life is determined by what you earn – your wife’s salary is an add on. You will find a woman that can comfortably live in the style you can afford.
I earned well into 6 figures and was not interested in someone who did not have the same education, ambition and salary. I wanted to be a sahm when I had kids and did not want to have to compromise my lifestyle to do so.
Controlling and coercive behaviour.
I can't tell if this is real or not, but either way, you need to reconsider your actions because it's not fair to try to control what movies he can or cannot watch.
I get that you're insecure, but he's not purposefully seeking out these movies to look at other women, he's just watching a movie he likes which happens to have women in it. This is only going to drive him away
Awww, same to you u/throwRA2359172. If you’re feeling a bit crappy, I hope enough people respond to brighten your day! Happy holidays!
I think it’s an age thing. If your looking for a life partner – it’s important. It’s also gendered – men are typically going to care how attractive she is over what she earns. You are socialised to be the breadwinner and think it’s unimportant. Women, who are often completely financially dependent on their partner for a period of time need to think it through. Your standard of life is determined by what you earn – your wife’s salary is an add on. You will find a woman that can comfortably live in the style you can afford.
I earned well into 6 figures and was not interested in someone who did not have the same education, ambition and salary. I wanted to be a sahm when I had kids and did not want to have to compromise my lifestyle to do so.
He’s not. This is a pretty clear “I’m paying and expect sex” situation. Or the content he wants to shoot is NSFW.
If you cannot afford to go on your own or in your own room, don’t go.
It is done.
Gaslighting is a broad term but one of those under it is playing the victim card so I used it.
-“You are proof the brain of pedos does not work well with logic.”
-you calling me a pedo, one of the predators you so dislike
-“Classic move by a predator though, pivot and change the topic, play victim.”
-you describing my gaslighting