when I told her that she just said “sorry, that's just tradition and that's how it works.”
The good news is you won't need to spend a dime on the wedding, because tradition is that the bride's father pays for the whole wedding! Make sure you let her know that.
My son and I in similar situation. Communication is key.
Stay calm. It is a difficult time for both of you. Breathe. He may teach you something about how young men think now.
Good luck, reply here or messages if you need.
You were driving it you created the problem you are responsible
when I told her that she just said “sorry, that's just tradition and that's how it works.”
The good news is you won't need to spend a dime on the wedding, because tradition is that the bride's father pays for the whole wedding! Make sure you let her know that.
Yeah his issues are not his fault, but nor does that mean she has to put up with them. It sucks for both of them.
You are absolutely right to trust your dad.