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I clearly would not want a pregnancy if I chose three forms of contraception.
Oil the door. Pee in the toilet but don't flush it until morning.
And reconsider marriage to this person, it will only get worse.
You don't need to add them to your face book to invite them for the party. Adding them to your facebook is inviting trouble for the future. If I were in your shoes, I would talk to one of your boyfriend's friend's girlfriend. Discuss your plan with her and ask her if she could talk to her boyfriend to invite the rest of the friends for the party. All communication will be routed through her. This will be decent, appropriate and will avoid any unwanted problems in the future.
I wish you all the very best.
I mean, the moment you 2 broke up, there was the possibility of meeting or sleeping with someone else. So she’s not doing anything wrong although it sucks. I think one of your replies says you’re the one who decided to break up so you opened the door for this to happen. People are complex. Maybe that’s her way of dealing with the sadness and pains from the breakup. Maybe she doesn’t give a sh*t about you. Maybe she wants to see what’s out there. Who knows? But if you’re the one who broke up because you needed to figure some things out, why do you expect her to reach out? You already said you still love her. So if you still want her in your life, then you should take actions.
What happens in other countries stays in other countries. You have known since you were about 12 that all boys and men just want to fuck. You two had a great time and you should have left it at that Ms. FBI. It's amazing how women can say what sounds good at the time but can't. SMH…
Watch this comment OP. This will be your life from now on if you continue with this relationship. Always have to watch your sentences and walk on eggshells en always having to validate here. And it still wont be enough. She might split on you because you said something you thought was oke and than it will be all your fault not considering her feelings.
Take a look at r/bpdlovedones to see how miserable people are than are in a relationship with someone with bpd.
You two are nowhere near ready to be married, postpone that stuff immediately. She might not even be ready to be in a steady relationship with you at this point. She is so uncomfortable telling you she is going out, she lies and says she is going to bed. I doubt it's a sput of the moment thing she goes to bed, then gets back up to go out. Women don't go to bed, then get back up and reapply makeup and such. Add in the fact she doesn't want to text you when she does go out, says she will talk to you tomorrow. You sound as if you view the relationship as serious, she doesn't by any means.
You need to sit her down the next time you talk and ask her what she wants from this relationship, how she feels about you, and if she is ready for marriage. Let her talk and don't fill in the blanks. Don't lead her into answers you want to hear either. Before you talk to her, prepare yourself for answers going good or bad. She sounds as if she is going to disappoint you with this talk.
This subreddit. I've seen this place call 34 and 36 a large age gap in one thread but that seemed to be an isolated incident. I don't understand comments like those lol, they think anything other than the exact same age is insane and cannot function.
Yeah, that too.
That’s a horrible situation! Maybe talk to her in private and let her know how you feel, and that you’re there for her. Good luck!
Your husband haven’t changed at all. 11 years ago, he pretended to be single and had an affair that resulted with the other woman pregnant.
Years after, he lied to your friend and Elinor that you knew about her being the other woman. He continuously lied until you found out the truth.
Spencer and Elinor’s mistake is that they trusted your husband to be telling the truth. Yes, they could have confirmed it with you but then in all of this, the source of this mess is your husband. He’s not trustworthy and had been betraying you from the time he cheated until now.
Please do not kink shame your husband. This is stuff he looked up and you weren’t supposed to see it. Obviously you aren’t into his kinks, but if someone opened up your brain and found your deepest darkest fantasies I’m sure there wouId be things you might not want everyone to see. I am a sex and intimacy coach and people fantasize about things to feel various things: naughty, rule breaking things might excite him. Doesn’t mean he wants to do any of the things he’s looking at. Please don’t jump to conclusions. I would highly recommend seeing a relationship coach to help you both out of the dead bedroom and to gain a better understanding of fantasy and sexuality.
So sad that more people don’t understand this. Society needs to learn to respect children more. Keep spreading the positive message, OP
Never heard of this, but if you did it once early on, it's likely the dog would learn that as the signal. Most dog owners I know have some thing they say to nudge the dog to go, like “Get busy” or similar. Seems like this practice would limit your bf on where he can reasonably take the dog though.
Alcohol abuse doesn’t stay in a nice tidy box. His drinking is likely going to get worse not better and the trust will continue to erode, contempt for him will increase and it will create an avalanche of problems. I get wanting to “look the other way” as I did for over 20 years. I deeply regret it and recognize now my child would have been better off had I done so.
Some will, but find a law school and go to their legal clinic. It’s students getting practice, but they’re supervised by actual attorneys. They will at least give you a lot of information and may be able to refer you to a good lawyer that does pro bono work.
Also i heard that women over 30 get super relaxed since they know their way around the world better than young girls who often model themselves after constructed tv drama which can only produce drama
And puberty isn‘t necessarily over until you‘re like 28. grown up humans are better to navigate social constructs with
Fair enough:/
He asked me, and all I told him was that I was just a little bummed about only finding out now. I actively tried to avoid conflict, but he kept pushing. I just dont hide or lie about my feelings to people, especially if it's someone i consider a close friend. I don't think it's anything to end the friendship over either but definitely going to reassess. Thanks for your comment. It's much appreciated 🙂
What you asking for a breakup suppose to be a joke I’m confused. He respected your decision. You need to move on
Where did you get that from?
Ahh. A culmination of your own poor decisions and lack of soul to own up to said decisions. You blew up your family and your husbands sanity. Now you need to divorce and get you and your kids to safety; you’ve driven the wrong man mad.
Don't do anything until the child is born. Get a test then and proceed from there. Odds are very high this isn't your child.
You were the one who asked for this and you got what you wanted. My boyfriend and I are in that lifestyle but it’s not something you just spring on someone out of the blue. There’s a lot of communication done in a successful open relationship and you two didn’t have the right foundation. The outcome didn’t turn out the way you wanted because you didn’t really give him a choice. He made his choice and it’s not you.
OP, as a SAHP of 20 years, happily married, financially stable, I advise you to go back to work. Make your own money. Be able to support yourself. Keep your independence and sense of self.
It sounds like he's been checked out for a while. That has to feel shitty. I'm sorry. Don't look at any of his socials. It does you no favors.
What should I do?
The dog needs to go. It was an unprovoked attack and that dog can not be trusted. What happens if it's a kid the next time?
The dog needs to go. It was an unprovoked attack and that dog can not be trusted. What happens if it's a kid the next time?
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d) her parents kicked her out and she has nowhere to go.
Exactly my point!!!! But he’s “wasting her time”. It sounds like he’s iffy because she’s a shitty person and he knows it. Or apart of him knows it. She knows he’s easy to control. She probably senses that. That’s why she doesn’t care about his wants. Only hers. And these comments are disgusting,
Thank you for this advice, it just hit me how much I was mothering him rather than being his partner alongside him.
Are you 23 or 32… Nevermind I saw another comment you’re 23.
Dude, saying this as another bisexual girl. Great that your wife is figuring out herself but attraction doesn’t mean you have to act on it. She’s just wanting permission to cheat and never intended for your side of the relationship to be open.
Given your ages, it’s pretty brow-raising honestly. She sounds predatory and manipulative. Might not be a deal breaker for you but I hope you take a step back and wonder if this is what you want for the rest of your life.
No thank you. Is this the life you want?
When somebody shows you who they are, believe them the first time. Your fiancé is ALWAYS going to put his brother before you. If you're okay with that, then stay in the relationship. If not, don't.
She's sounds pretty boss
You're not that far into your relationship yet, I would leave now before you get further into this and convince yourself that he can change. He won't. I promise you. And you'll be forever wondering if he's still doing things behind your back, and let's face it, he will. Why not find someone who actually respects you? Why put up with this at all? You deserve way better than what he's giving you.
Ok, you are not a good friend or a good person. Just stay out of your ex best friend's life for good.
She is your wife, dumbass, not your next door neighbor. You are amazingly dense and are a terrible husband. Thankfully your wife will move on when your old ass ages out.
While I'm not supportive of their relationship, grooming by dictionary definition is, “attempting to form a relationship with a child or young person, with the intention of sexually assaulting them or inducing them to commit an illegal act such as selling drugs or joining a terrorist organization”. At the end of the day, they ARE both consenting adults. I don't know what this guy's intentions are at all, so I don't want to blow things out of proportion and accuse him of things I'm not totally sure of.
The issue isn’t that she’s done those things, it’s that you haven’t. Heres an analogy, let’s say you have a friend who is more experienced and more knowledgeable in the activity you’re both doing together. How do you react? Do you admit you’re not experienced and ask for pointers, do you pretend you’re equal but feel awkward or jealous in side, do you avoid them for fear of embarrassment and don’t do the activity with them because you don’t want to look bad? How do you react in that situation? The less comfortable you feel the more that reflects an inability to be vulnerable, and a strong need to be in control.
And this situation with your gf is the same but more pronounced as gender norms often make people think men should be more in control and women should be more vulnerable when it comes to sex. So the solution isnt to get wrapped up in your gfs past but to recognize your reaction is due to your discomfort with vulnerability and your need to feel in control. Then ask yourself, will your gf use your vulnerability against you, will she hurt you or help you if you’re vulnerable? If you believe she’ll hurt you, you shouldn’t be in a relationship with her to begin with. If you believe she’ll help you, then use that to calm your discomfort and over time the feeling will lessen and go away.
Failure is more likely to occur in the first year but there have been cases of spontaneous recanalisation. Realistically, very few people are going to get their sperm count regularly checked. There’s always a risk of pregnancy when having PIV sex, and I would imagine most people who are uncomfortable with a 0.2% risk or less will use a secondary method like condoms.
I mean, esh, but really, did you not think there would be repercussions to knowingly doing this?
We met at a party for his friend who I work with and only like a month ago
You’re absolutely not an asshole. There are no side effects to wearing a condom. They don’t cause bleeding, cramps, weight change, skin problems, etc. It’s extremely fair. 10000% fair.
First her husband was disloyal and then her son drafted along right behind him. I'd disown him too for not being smart enough to know the woman who imploded your family doesn't deserve your loyalty.
It sounds like some kind of unresolved trauma. This could be from other experiences unrelated to your breakup, but you can only find out if that's what it is and the origin of this trauma by going to therapy. I suggest you make an appointment with a psychologist and work through these issues.
Not trying to make his wedding about me is a good point. That is a horrifying thought.
But also I don't want him to think I'm not going because I don't care, because I do.
Feels like the choice is tell him the reason and make his wedding about me, or don't tell him and appear I don't care.
Seems like a lose-lose for me, probably why I'm having such a difficult time with this.
It's a kink thing. It's not everyone's cup of tea.
It's not right, either! And it does you, and all men for that matter, damage. You don't have to put up with it.
Maybe I can even expand the question on how to deal with the whole situation. It’s really hurting my feelings that she moved on in a manner of 2-3 weeks. And that she really doesn’t seem to care about me at all anymore, after 3 years of dating. I was not perfect, mostly to busy and at times even a bit depressed, but I really tried my hardest to make her feel good 🙁
Time to break up!!
Oh hell no honey you need to leave this clown. Get back to your family or if you can’t, find a women’s shelter in the area that can help you get your life back to a place where you feel safe
Fair enough
Emotional cheating is still a real thing and can lead to more.
If you have doubts, get tested for std's. Its your life.
Then he should have sorted his shit out. If you stay with this man you are an idiot. Sorry, but it really is that simple.
That’s…not true
Do you and mean “blatant”??
Don't date him. That's the advice. An almost 30 year olds dating a barely legal teenager is the red flag.
Hope it helped!
A mother wanting a second child does not equate to a prop for the family tree. How did you reach that conclusion
Check the expiration date, should be roughly 5 years from when they were manufactured.
Alr, I'll try to do that, thank u so much for the advices.
If he has stuck around for 6 years without sex then he already cares to some degree. If you cannot be sexually compatible, break it off and save both of you the wasted time.
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??? enjoy being eternally single
You should tell only for the fact it wouldn't have been exposed if she didn't lay out their whole itinerary for you.
Yikes on bikes.