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Date: November 23, 2022
It says in your post…your boyfriend is worried that you have no friends and rely on him etc etc…so he thinks you should have some friends besides him
Then you should step back and see what’s causing this. Is it your career? Do you give more time to your job over your past partners? And 27 is still young.
Perfect opportunity to grow up. First and foremost, yes, learn that snooping through your partners phone is a red flag. If you do not trust your partner, ask yourself why you're even dating them. It's not healthy for you or your relationships.
Second. Be honest with her. You mentioned a lot about how you feel but nothing about what she said about the situation. If you even want to consider “getting back together” then it's a conversation that needs to happen. Otherwise nothing really gets solved.
Third. You probably didn't need a break for this. And unless otherwise specified she might even use this as a reason to sleep around. After all you guys are on a “break” which is a terrible idea and let me guess you guys didn't really discuss ground rules or possibility of getting back together?
Fourth. Youre both young. What she said is somewhat normal for the age. The key thing is yes, those thoughts are awful but they weren't for you to read. She specifically mentions if she was single. She wasn't. You made her single so she's free to do those things now.
That is a choice you made because you felt it was disrespectful. Why would you want to go back to that? Do you expect her to change? Do you expect her not to have those thoughts?
If you make the choice to go back you need to remind yourself it's your choice and there are some things you can change and some things you can't.
Fifth. If you do go back the conversation you two have should obviously involve if you two saw anyone else over this “break” because again if you didn't clarify that lol you may find yourself just not wanting to get back together if you don't like the answer.
Genuine question — how much do you understand/know about the medication process for depression/mental illness? I’m wondering if your girlfriend has let you in on what it’s been like/what her doctors have told her.
Lol, I used to teach ESL and citizenship at a nonprofit. Some of this isn't just EE, it's normal for perceptions of the west. Amazing to have students slowly realize I'm financially much worse off than them and that they're eligible for free services because of their immigration status, not because they're poor and I'm a millionaire.
This stuff didn't bother me, but I also got to go home at the end of the day. People who work for these organizations are prepared for this attitude and don't take it personally. However, if I had to bring someone home with me and it never stopped, I'd be over it fast — probably much faster than you were. They can figure it out from here, you are not obligated to take on their cultural values or definition of family. They certainly didn't feel obligated to even mildly adjust their attitude to fit the prevailing culture. Let them spread their wings and fly, they should've been left to rely on free resources and been out of your hair much sooner imo.
As a mother of 2 myself…it really is. It's def not the beautiful experience that people claim it is cuz I def have some stories haha (like clogging a toilet in the hospital after my c-section b/c the drugs they gave me had me constipated af so when I finally was able to go….I went LMAO).
The thing I noticed was OP doesn't mention a single thing his girlfriend likes, though. So I feel like neither of them are taking interest in each others hobbies or passions. He goes on about movies he likes or has seen. He talks about his passions. But he makes no reference to things she enjoys. Which might be a clue as to why she's not trying to be interested in the things he likes.
I had a partner once that was super into table top games like DND. I had every intention of letting him teach me how to play. Until I realized that he made no effort to ask me about the things I'm into and show interest in being included in my hobbies. I don't think he cared to know about the things I was interested in.
Easily, people have been doing it for centuries.
Are you still taking her on dates? Are you still doing nice things for her? Cooking her dinner, having romantic nights, making her feel special and loved? Go for a walk holding hands.
If you are not putting in effort to make your SO feel loved and special, they will not have sex with you as they do not feel desired. They do not want to be treated as a sex machines
Yes it does, I'm assuming she's American.
He may have been in good enough shape to act but it's entirely likely that she was too. Blackouts aren't really an accurate measure of how drunk/incapable someone actually was when they were drunk.
Ummm okay….
Gosh you sound just like my ex. He filled up his schedule with classes and bands and shit and basically had no time for me whatsoever. He had ONE DAY free and he said he might want to use that day for his personal time. Such a jerk. Even wanted me to skip my work shift that day if he wanted to hang out as a “sacrifice”. Break up with her. You have no time for a girlfriend.
God forbid someone should support their partner.
Your gf is a hypocrite for sure but um I wouldn’t recommend this for your first piercing. Just seems like a dumb teenage decision that you will regret and could cause actual damage
What exactly do you want here? He’s a nightmare, you’re apparently incapable of understanding how he will ruin your life and you think this is love?
Good luck with all that.
Thank you, this is something I can try. It would have been easier years ago, but after my dad had his heart attacks, he’s “snapped” if you will.. he’s unpredictable and difficult to rely on emotionally. I was explaining to him yesterday in the car about some serious health issues I’m having that often result in cervical cancer, and how afraid I am, and he cut me off to point out a homeless camp on the side of the highway. Thanks to Biden of course. No contact would be too nude for me, but distance I can do if I need to.
A bit daft are we?
your gut is always right. Be strong. You got this.
Fuck them. Your health is more important than their need to validate by someone eating their cooking, and you’re grown adults. You don’t have to ask for permission to stay in the same room as your boyfriend of several years. He REALLY should have stepped up and confronted them about their ludicrous behavior as well.
How did I handle it? I got divorced.
She texted to tell me she was home and I just said thanks for yesterday and she sent me a video so don’t really know if that’s an in or not
That's a lot of cray.
Don't sign up for that much cray.
Do you want his mommy to run your life?
This was uncomfortable just to read. Dump his ass
“I’m forcing him to…”
Please break up.
The fact that he drove himself to the hospital shows his back issue was not that extreme. I slipped a disc and had to be carried to the car….never mind being able to drive. My guess is a glorified muscle spam.