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Clem, 26 y.o.
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Date: October 3, 2022
This doesn’t sound pretty promising for me. Sorry, bro.
Sentences like „never felt like this with someone“, „pushing all my buttons“, „making me feel soo safe and secure“ at this stage are warning signs. She sounds like she is lovebombing you. Usually something narcistists and woman with borderline disorder use to do.
There is no way of being truly in love with someone and don’t find him/her attractive. That’s bullshit. That’s not love, she is searching for someone who idealize her to push her ego, take care of her and will never leave her. She even started abusing you by basically telling you she finds you unattractive – and you don’t even mind.
Take care of yourself.
She sounds like a sociopath that doesn’t care at all about you
Well… I honestly don't see how it is possible that I would do any of the things you said. She asks me to choke her in bed and I hate it… And why would I wish her death if I love her? I'm sorry but it doesn't make sense.
You're the 30 year old? What are you doing? Date women with fully developed BRAINS.
Lmfao
Not viagra, but no can’t be sure without discussing, which everyone has been clear is not beneficial.
Expecting a friend not to send erotic photos of themselves to a boyfriend or husband and being pissed off at them if they do is NOT a sign of jealous/insecure/paranoid; it is a very reasonable and understandable emotion to have when you friend someone you called friend disrespected your relationship. Anyone with a lick of logic and common sense would not have an issue with your upset over it. Those that don’t get it are typically the type of people that would have picked her side anyways if she was caught riding your bf and are not friendship material in the first place.
I am putting this out there because I notice so many young ladies either under reacting or tolerating a lot more than they should all of some nonsense quest not to look jealous/insecure. Those titles are reserved for people who imagine cheating all over the place or assume their partner was out with 20 sailors just because they were an hour late from work; not people who see actual cheating red flags or notice very inappropriate behavior from the opposite sex.
I’m glad you edited your post because this is not what it sounded like. Still, though, I would stop telling her that her weight is the real issue. Encourage her to talk to a therapist. She has deep-seated insecurities that you can’t fix and she needs to work on: telling her she has to stop wearing makeup is not going to solve the issue.
She did not mention about the cheating in her post at all so she made it seem like i was the bad guy for just leaving him out of nowhere and him “forgiving” me and still wanting me back. Basically, how her son has a heart of gold for still loving the crazy, cold, calculating ex gf.
Ah so u know and I'm glad you were able to manage it and okay thank you I appreciate it. I feel like I'm okay now at first I thought maybe it's because I'm overweight now, ugly etc but I realized it's him not me.
Wtf is wrong with you she’s in a relationship and she has made it very clear that she does not want to be her friend
Also you really need to learn what “I would leave it up to her” means because you are trying to make the choice for her
Your behavior is borderline stalking
I think that's a good idea in that case, especially as you're all friends as well
Classic manipulation 101. Wouldn't be surprised if she “accidentally” fell pregnant too.
Honestly, he didn’t do it because the thought he had another offer. These events aren’t related; he did it because he is immature and not very experienced (I am being gentle here).
Even if you do have a better job offer in fact, you quit with best possible terms you can manage to happen. You never know the future; especially if you are staying in the same industry and city too.
Well your problem OP solved itself. Relationship won't work if one of the sides in that relationship doesn't trust the other.
Save your time and energy the guy won't listen. Chances are he was just looking for excuse to break up with you but in a way where he won't be a bad guy. The whole situation seems really fishy from start until the end.
If he has sleep apnea he's causing himself minor brain damage through oxygen deprivation. It's really bad news. If he's asthmatic he's just making things worse for himself.
She is just not that close to you to have you there yet and you went and snooped in her phone??? You crossed boundaries. She doesn’t have to have you there no matter what her SIL thinks. You don’t get to force yourself in her private life more than she is ready to share with you.
You are right, and I do feel like I was played like a fool.
Misery loves company. It makes no sense to want your bf and then start insulting him for a learning disability (which is extremely mean btw), she was never really your friend she probably wanted someone else who was as miserable as she was. She disrespected you, your bf and both relationships, I'd cut her out.
Did the sex go down hill before or after you told him you were dissastisfied with his lack of compliments ? Nothing kills sex drive faster than being told your are a poor 'lover'.
Humans are simple creatures on the whole. Tell them when they do good and it makes them feel good and they will do more of the 'good' thing. Point out their failures and they feel like a failure and stop trying.
Unless he is or porn addict , gay or seriously depressed then telling him he's fantastic (in some way) sseveral times a day is best way to get more dick & compliments.
Treat him like he treats his Dog.
Lol, to be fair it’s mostly if the kid hung out with “bad people” and spends all day out and didn’t listen to both of us. I still don’t think that’s the way though because I didnt listen to my parents either and I’m doing fairly well in life